Are you close with your sisters?
By Dee351972
@Dee351972 (743)
September 23, 2007 9:27pm CST
HI, i just wondered if you were close with your sister or sisters? I have 3 sisters i not to close to them. Thee younger one closer then the other two. But one of them we dont speak. she has hadr feelings because i have her son.(adopted) that kind of put the others in the middle because that one just had twins and the other 2 didnt want to tell me
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@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
Yes, I have one sister older than me. We were very close to each other. We shared everything. We talked about many things. I helped her when she needs help and she helped me too when I also need some help. We are in agreement in all dealings, though sometimes there were some misunderstanding and conflicts but that were resolved immediately. We shared some stories from our experience either in school and at work. We go out with my parents if we have spare time. We were together when we go to church. Everything ran smoothly in our relationship as my only one elder sister. Otherwise, we have a healthy relationship and hoping that it will continue and be maintained in the long run.
Have a nice day! God speed!
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@Dee351972 (743)
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25 Sep 07
hi, thanks for the answer back! That is good you have her in your life and you are close. everyone should have that
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@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
20 Oct 07
I have 8 sisters. 2 in my adoptive family, 2 with my birth mother and 3 with my birth dad. The only ones I am really close to are my the ones I grew up with. I worry about them all the time and wish I could see them more often. The others, I don't know all that well, but I do feel as though I am big sis to them. We fight and bicker and all that, but we are always there for each other and work out our problems. Forgiveness has done well for us, and those things that we argue about just aren't worth the effort. I hope you and your sisters are able to work things out. Being without them must be hard. All the best.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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20 Oct 07
Thanks so much. Yes it would be better if we were closer. I am glad you got to know your other sisters . I hope someday i can get my son to be able to see his brother and sisters that are in other places.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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21 Oct 07
Thaks for the ideabut i dont think i will. Lol
I seem to do all the work and they rarley call and that so rightn now i am putting it in their hands.
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@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
21 Oct 07
Not everyone gets on in the world, and actually, the ones you are going to fall out with the most, are the ones who are very much like you. And sisters are very much a like, no matter how different they seem. All the best and send them a little gift thanking them for being a wonderful sister. Might just work.
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
24 Sep 07
I feel very sorry for you that you don't get along with your sisters. I have 3 sisters and we are all very close. As I always tell my children. You will always have your family. Your friends change, but you family remains your family. Families are suppose to support each other and be there for each other.
Hopefully you can mend your relationships.
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I would think that the one whose son you adopted would be very greatful that you took her child so he didn't have to go into foster care. Too bad that you can't work out your relationship if not for anything, at least for the sake of the child.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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25 Sep 07
thanks. well i get along ok with 2 of them. it just with the other one i dont cuss of the fact she lost her kids. and that k ind put the o ther 2 in the middle cuss they love both us cuss we are their sisters. but they(the 2) are there for me when i need them like family should be.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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5 Oct 07
thanks, but even if we did talk it cant have anything to do with my son. when he turns 18 then if he chosses he can find her. Intill then it is ilegal for me to let her see him or talk to him or anything. if she every ask i cn say he is fine and happy and that is all.thanks again
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@fracktion (154)
• Philippines
21 Oct 07
I have two sisters and Im not that close to them. But we dont fight (that much).. hehehe. But somehow, they respect me and they try to understand me. Thats better I think. Peaceful...
@Dee351972 (743)
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21 Oct 07
Thanks. Yes that is cool. Glad you least get along with them.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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21 Oct 07
Thanks. Yes that is cool. Glad you least get along with them.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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21 Oct 07
Thanks. Yes i hope you can be close to you sister in law. I am close to one of mine. A lot better then i do my real sisters.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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24 Sep 07
thanks. that is good. sisters need to stick togher. I wish i have better realtionship with mine.
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@gapeach65 (805)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I have two sisters, one older and one younger. We've always had our moments both good and bad. There are things I dislike about each of them, as I'm sure there are things they dislike about me. We were never real close growing up, and as we get older it has come in waves. We would start to get along and then something would be said or done to pull us apart again. I would always (and have) done things to help either of my sisters out, because they are my sisters and I love them, but the favor is not always returned, they seem to always have excuses, so I just accept it and move on. My older sister and I had a disagreement last Christmas and she stopped talking to me and when our mom was sick and in the hospital, she was always real short and sort of hateful to me, I tried for mom's sake to look past it. When mom passed away, (in February 2007) I sent emails to my sisters and said that I know this is not the way mom would want us too act so I apologized for things I had done or said, I said that I was offering forgiveness and asking for it in return, for anything that has ever been said or done, now or in the past. I wanted to wipe the slate clean and start a new relationship with everyone, because I know mom would want us to be close. We still have our moments, we just don't let it show and we apologize and get over it much quicker now. Relationships are hard work and family relationships are the hardest and can be tricky. You don't want to lose family ties because one day when no one else is there for you, it's nice to have your family.
@Dee351972 (743)
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25 Sep 07
thanks for yor advice. YEs we have our moments to and when it comes down to it 2 of them are here for me. I just wish it were a little better and we could see more of eachother. thanks again!!
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@Dee351972 (743)
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25 Sep 07
yes having your own families does make it hard to get togher, But i know the 2 are there when i need them. that is what family is for. so i hop[e to get better
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@sugarfloss (2139)
• Malaysia
24 Sep 07
hey Dee351972,I have an elder sister.We were close before she got married and moved 300 kilometres south from us.She tends to be the 'big sister' now.Everything I do is wrong.We seldom talk nor sms.But she likes to buy me stuff when she's travelling.I love her.I don't quite get your situation but have you tried talking?
@Dee351972 (743)
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25 Sep 07
yes, i have tried talking to them. It dont really get me anywhere so i just try l eave it. cuss we do pretty good the 2 of them. But we dont get see each other much with their work and stuff and with gas so high. they boys over 2 hours from us.
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@love2love552 (73)
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
i have one sister ,she is my half sister ,im close to her but not much ,,we r not grow up together ,..i grow up with my grand parent ,but i love her so much and i always there for her everytime she needs me......more power to u dee.....!!
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@Dee351972 (743)
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25 Sep 07
that is cool!! i am very glad for you. Everyone needs family!!
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@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
3 Oct 07
I have an older sister but we're not all that close. I'm close to my sister-in-law though.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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5 Oct 07
that is good. Yeai am closer to my sister in law to better then i am my sisters.
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@psyche2007 (97)
• China
25 Sep 07
I get well with my younger sister.She is a student too,in a diffreent city from me.We would call to each other and recourage each other too.Last week she even sent me her photoes now.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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26 Sep 07
hi, thanks for answering. I am so gald you get along good.
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@shadowing (308)
• Malaysia
3 Oct 07
Hi Dee. I have two sisters and I am extremely close with them. Haha. Maybe I am the younger one, so they love me a lot. Not sticking to them all the time but I know they love me a lot.
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@shooting_star (384)
• Philippines
16 Oct 07
I have two younger sisters, and I'm pretty close to them. We have big age gaps though -- I'm 7 years older than one, and 12 years older than the other. I'm friends with my younger sister... I go out shopping with her. On the other hand I really am the big sister to the youngest. I help her with my homework. Some people mistake me as younger or the same age as my sisters though, because they're taller than me.
@Dee351972 (743)
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17 Oct 07
Hi, thats great. I have a son that is taller then me so i understaznd how is to have yunger people taller then u. LOl. But i am really short so it dont take much for someone to be taller. I am good you get to help you sisters and stuff. Maybe someday i will be closer to mine agian.
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@simplyman2006 (1706)
• India
5 Nov 07
i have only one sister . well we very close because she is elder than and teachesme every where we want.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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8 Nov 07
HI, Thanks for Your Response! I am glad you are close with her. It is nice to have her do things with you and teach you things. Have a nice day!
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@Dee351972 (743)
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25 Sep 07
thanks. yes i wish we could get with eachother more but with family and wo rk it gets very hard. But the 2 are always there for me when i need them. 3 years ago i had to bury my daughter and 2 of my sisters were right there with me. the younger one stayed with me till after we buried her. so they are there like famliy should be.
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@madhuraks (425)
• Kuwait
24 Sep 07
I have 1 younger sister.She is 5 yrs younger than me.we hv good relationship from childhood.we share every thing,we have feeling,careing,good understanding & love.we support each other,ya we do fight some things but we cool quickly.I am very much happy with our relationship.I dont think every one will hv this type of relationship.In that case i am very lucky.we both are very good friends too.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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25 Sep 07
thanks. i am glad u have good friendship with u sister. i hope to get better with mine
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@maybebaby (1230)
• Canada
4 Nov 07
I have one sister and we are ten years apart, there are two brothers in the middle of us. We we were younger we didn't get along well because she always wanted to do what I was doing and I didn't like that. Now we're great friends and she was the maid of honor at my wedding. I couldn't have wished for a better sister than the one I have.
@Dee351972 (743)
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5 Nov 07
Hi, thanks. That is cool. I am glad you have her there for you now. I hope it keeps up
@superjoy (8)
• Philippines
24 Sep 07
Well actually when we were at our childhood stage i'm really not close with my sister. We always quarrel. Compromise is not the word for us... But now considering as both adult. We understand each other much better. We show our care and love for each other. And we can compromise with a lot of things.. Jamming and other stuff.. Chatting and sharing ideas with each other. And most especially helping each other in any ways we can.
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@Dee351972 (743)
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25 Sep 07
i am glad!!!!i wish i could be better with mine. maybe some day. thanks again
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@Dee351972 (743)
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25 Oct 07
hi, oh ok that is good. That is how i et my news bout one of my sisters is though the other. Lol. Thanks again
@Dee351972 (743)
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24 Oct 07
Hi, thanks for your response. I am gald you close to at least one of your sisters. We all need family. What bout your bro? you close with him??