shadowing

@shadowing (308)

Malaysia • Age 35

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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I have one question.

laurika @laurika (4532) • United States 3 Nov 07

I am sure all of you got this e-mail talking about friends and if you want to have a good luck, you have to send it to 10 more people.I got this kinds of e-mails in my inbox almost every two weeks and tell you the truth I never...

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shadowing Hi Laurika. Yea, I am getting that almost everyday. Haha. Some even worst, kind of cursing people. Kind of "if you do not forward this email..something bad will happen on you". Or some even will curse your family and so on. I am feeling it's too much all the...

3 Nov 07

Do You Read Other MyLot Profiles? Or Is Your Profile Important?

Deborah L. Alten @gtargirl (5376) • United States 30 Oct 07

I've been reading people's profiles here on MyLot. It seems to be very important to a lot of us. Do you find or spend a few minutes reading your MyLot friends' profiles? Some of us got very, and I mean very creative. Most of the...

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shadowing Hi gtargirl. Well, personally I don't really view other's profile that much (though I have viewed yours). Haha. I don't think my profile is an informative one but I really don't know what to write in fact. Haha.

31 Oct 07

Why is wikipedia considered a bad place to get information?

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 30 Oct 07

I don't understand this. Doing searches for school kids on cha cha they have actually told me that their teachers advised them not to use wikipedia. The few times I've read anything on it the information was good. My thought is if...

encyclopedia

wiki

wikipedia

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shadowing Hi ctrymusiklvr. Wikipedia, well I admit it's a useful website. Haha, since it able to get me a lot of information which I intend to know and even figure out my house direction for my friend using the map function in wikipedia. However, yes, some lecturers...

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Are you a Chat addict?

lovelydame3000 @lovelydame3000 (1577) • India 30 Oct 07

I am not. I hardly chat. If I do it would be to communicate with my school/college mates, excollegues/friends who are known to me well in reality. I am not aggressive on meeting/finding people through chat. Maybe it is because I...

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shadowing Hi Lovelydame. I am totally opposite from you. I am a chat addict. To be more precise, I am talkative. Well, personally I am not quite agree that people in chat rooms are always fake. Haha. I mean I admit when I am chatting with others in the forum I didn't...

31 Oct 07

Can you still sleep if you can hear someone snoring so loudly?

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 30 Oct 07

and what will you do about it? The walls in our house are not soundproof so we can easily hear each other with just a little raise of our voice. i have a cousin who stays with us and at times she really snores sooooo loud when...

sleeping

snoring

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shadowing Hi secretbear. Basically, I have no problem with sound when I am sleeping. Haha. My sis and my parents snoring all the time. Haha. Before I have tried to wake my sister up when she is sleeping as well, anyway, it has no effect at all, she is not going to...

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What Would You Do ?

nzinky @nzinky (822) • United States 30 Oct 07

If you had a 23 or 21 year old child wouldn't get a job or go to college? They wouldn't clean the house up or do any thing other than play video games or get on a computer and talk all day to their friends? Would you give them...

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shadowing Hi nzinky. To me I feel a parent should let their children choose what they wish to. I mean of course not sweet doing nothing at home. Well, personally, my parents will give an option of either you study, else you work, that's end of the story. haha.

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Do you use the internet to find out how to do different things?

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 29 Oct 07

It seems like there's almost nothing we can't find on the internet these days and as soon as I think of something I want to do or learn that's the first place I go. My latest search has been on directions to make a french braid in...

instructions

internet

learn how

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shadowing Hi ctrymuziklvr. Yes, when I faced some problems and questions I will search my answer from Internet. And, it's great to say that I used to get the information I wish to get. Anyway, of course there are times I am redirected to other source and ended up I...

30 Oct 07

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If you see someone suddenly laugh?

cellophane @cellophane (636) • New Zealand 30 Oct 07

What would you think if you were walking along, and then you saw someone just randomly chuckle or laugh? From the laughing person's point of view, they could be laughing at a funny memory, or perhaps they just noticed something...

laughter

random

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shadowing Hi cellophane. Well, it depends on how the person laugh. Haha. If they laugh out loud with kind of funny way, then I will think "this person is crazy" but if they just smile and laugh at their own, I guess I will think they are enjoying their happy thought.

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Live for Yourself and not for others

poohgal @poohgal (6845) • Singapore 29 Oct 07

Hello there. Actually this discussion is a reminder to myself to Live for Myself more and not so much for others. I tend to live for others and forget myself. Recently, I read this quotation 'Do not let someone become a...

life

live

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shadowing Hi Poohgal. Yes, I am agree with the statement. However, I will live for others more than I live for myself. I mean it's the most natural thing for me. It is mainly because we are not live alone here, we live as a group and as a family. So everything we are...

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How has the Internet changed your way of life.

BlueStarMom1 @BlueStarMom1 (931) • United States 30 Oct 07

I know we all get on our computers and surf the internet highway. But it has definitely changed my way of life. I now send e-mails instead of writing letters or making phone calls. It has stopped me from developing my film and...

internet

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shadowing Hi bluestarmom. Internet has changed most part of my life in fact. Yes, email will be one of them. Besides, I able to reach a lot of knowledge through Internet as well. As it's impossible for we student to have forum everyday but the forum is there available...

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Younger sister issues...

Dask1221 @Dask1221 (160) • United States 28 Oct 07

Ok, I'm at a stand still here. I figured I'd put my situation out there and see what interesting/helpful things other people might have to say. I am 23 and have 2 younger sisters, 16 and almost 15. I love them to death, but it...

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shadowing Hi Dask. To be frank, I am facing the same problem as you do. The only difference will be the person involved is your sister and in my case he is my brother. Alright, he is the only son in my family and it's one of the reasons why is he acting over in his...

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Ironic situations...

Dask1221 @Dask1221 (160) • United States 28 Oct 07

When I was in high school, I had a number of friends. I also had a large number of relationships. Funny thing was, my relationships back then didn't last very long, except for one, which was on and off for 3 1/2 years. I had a...

ironic situations

irony

relationship advice

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shadowing Hi Dask. I have just glanced through your profile. Alright, you are not born to be alone, that's my first impression. Haha. So as you said most of the aspect has changed, so it's great, isn't it. All the best to you and good luck.

29 Oct 07

Do you like pizza? How many pieces do you usually eat when you get one?

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 28 Oct 07

My granddaughter was here for the weekend and since pizza is one of her favorite foods (no wonder she farts huh? lol)and I didn't really feel like cooking I order a pepperoni pizza for our dinner last night. I'm not crazy about...

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shadowing Hi Ctrymuziklvr. I just have my pizza this afternoon. Well, personally I am not kind of LOVE pizza but I didn't dislike it. Haha. I ate 4 pieces just now. Oh my God, haha! I don't really eat that much but my friends they can't finish it so I have to eat on...

29 Oct 07

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What do you think of generation gap?

taskata10 @taskata10 (627) • China 29 Oct 07

Hi!All Sometimes I can't communicate well with old people or kids about something. It's because of the generation gap between us. When children are growing, it's becoming more difficult for parents to understand the kind of world...

what do you think of generation gap

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shadowing Hi Taskata. Personally I am still ok with generation gap. I mean when I talk to them I will choose my topic carefully. To me, in a conversation there is always things which can be chatted about and things which can't be chatted with, right? So, I mean when I...

29 Oct 07

Today I told my 18 year old daughter not to come back home...

terri0824 @terri0824 (4991) • United States 28 Oct 07

I know it has been a long while since I started a discussion, though I have replied to discussions as time has permitted. I have been working 50-60 hour weeks on top of watching my new granddaughter from time to time in...

daughter not to come back home

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tough love

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shadowing Hi Terri. I understand how hard for you to speak that out. However, maybe I was wrong but parents do regret when they spoke that out, aren't they? Well, I am just a 18 years old daughter of my parents. I never experience that but my parents did. I mean there...

29 Oct 07

Afraid of needles?

mycharm88 @mycharm88 (2288) • Philippines 13 Oct 07

hey guys!!! i just donated blood yesterday and i feel a little dizzy but generally i'm fine c",) This is a yearly opportunity for employees like me to donate blood conducted by Red cross, they do a yearly visit and this was my...

afraid of needles

blood donation

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shadowing Hi mycharm. Oh, it's about 3 weeks ago for this post and I just saw it. Haha. So, I still feel like leaving a response here. No, I am not afraid of needles as I used to see it all the time. Haha. Previously I have a very poor health and I used to in and out...

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When you see car accident....

laurika @laurika (4532) • United States 28 Oct 07

Do you start thinking how lucky you are it wasn't you?I do.Just today me and my man went to shopping mall and we saw one car accident and I was thinking what about if I would be in this car.... Are you scared too, after you see...

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shadowing Hi Laurika. I met that kind of situation before in fact and I am terrified by it!! I don't know am I lucky or not but I used to see accident happened in front of me. One fine day, when I was driving, the car which drove in front of me hit a motorcyclist and...

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I will be friendless!

Ronimas @Ronimas (699) • India 27 Oct 07

I have a quick temper and a nasty tongue. It takes very little to make me wild with anger … and I always shoot my mouth off. Everyone says I am rude, but, I think, I am honest and do not indulge in false social talk. Please help...

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shadowing Hi Ronimas. Personally I feel everyone has their own temper and it's ok to be who you are. I mean it's meaningless to fake yourself for a friendship. I believe true friend will accept and love who you are!! Steady friend, true friend will never leave you no...

28 Oct 07

Your Internet Pictures Can Be Used Without Your Consent or Knowledge

meme0907 @meme0907 (3481) • United States 27 Oct 07

One of my friends here had an experience where a personally "owned pic was used w/o consent at any rate it got me searching around & check out what I found: One of the biggest trends on the Internet is posting photos online. The...

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shadowing Hi Meme. Yea, it is what we are facing right now, people are using some others' photo without the owner's permission. Even from time to time I visit to website, I will see a lot of common photo which uploaded on their website where I know they actually...

28 Oct 07

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Your boyfriend/girlfriend are still communicating with her/his ex..

zamm13 @zamm13 (363) • Philippines 27 Oct 07

What will you do if you found out that your current boyfriend/girlfriend is still friends with his/her ex? Or maybe even worse, he/she now becomes the bestfriend of her/his ex. They talk a lot and sometimes hangout together. What...

relationships

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shadowing Hi Zamm. Well, it has to depend on the exact situation. If I know that he and his ex is totally impossible to get back together, then maybe I am ok with that. However, to be frank, most of the time I will mad about this. I mean he has to know the limit for...

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