Puppy Love
By YoungInLove
@YoungInLove (1254)
Canada
September 25, 2007 7:28pm CST
This is gonna be a rant, not long i promise though..so bare with me.
So im wondering..is being in love in higshool even possible?
Some of you knoww.. i dated my boyfriend for a year and a half and outta no where he broke up with me...would yell at me and insult me any chance he got and now hates my guts. Out of no where..foir no reason..he was such a sweet heart before.
Ever since then I have hung around friends of mine (guys of course) the way they talk about girls..is kinda disgusting.. Its all about using them and stuff. It makes me wonder.. are higschool/college capable of being totally madly in love?. Thats a rhetorical question. But what im seirously wondering is can higschool and college relatinships even be serious.. because alot of boys (not just boys either, there a probably a few girls) have the riht intentions at all when they're that age. Its just all about getting some to them.
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8 responses
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
8 Nov 07
I have been with my boyfriend for four years. I was a freshman when we met, he was a junior, he is almost four years older then me. He was eighteen when we met and like I said we are still together. Sounds like you are just hanging out with the wrong people. There will always be people like that but I found a group including my boyfriend that wasnt driven by it.
@Vieiragirl (109)
• United States
26 Sep 07
I think what you are talking about is more to do with maturity then love. I think when we are young we think we will get what we want when we want it. As we get older our views of the world get bigger and us being the center of the universe is not an ideal most of us still have. I think if you find someone who is your best friend at any age then love is possible. The issue is are people mature enough to make it last. I think you know you are truly in love when you realize being with this person makes me want to be a better person.
@lgwlong (199)
• China
26 Sep 07
you are young ,so you have capital to love with others ,coz if you don't love you current BF or GF ,you still have time to look for another,so your curren feeling is normal ,not a big deal for you ,but afer you get elder and elder ,you have to think about much thing ,then you your emotion will be more stable and not easy to say goodbye for your half
@jennwhite07 (130)
• United States
26 Sep 07
In the teenage years falling in love can actually be much different than say falling in love a little later in life due to the fact tht you fall in love at different maturity levels.
Kind of like how most little girls wanna marry their daddies when they grow up.
The more you grow the more you learn about everything including love.
So yes it is possible to be in love in high school, but that love may be different than something you experience later in life.
@jingletcuban (10)
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26 Sep 07
don't general boys...i've got a lot of friends mostly guys but they never talk about girls the way your friends do...usually they are the one's who get hurt in terms of having a relationship with girls..it's not only guys that talk about how to get something form girls...it's can be the other way...as your question if high school/college is capable of being totally in love?the answer is yes...you know it's only a matter of showing some respect to your partner and commitment...
@skeen1981 (54)
• Australia
26 Sep 07
love is possible in high school, i met my partner there and have been together for nearly 11 years,but it ll depend on the people involved. My 17 year old sister says school is all about caring and sharing (boyfriends that is) which i dont understand maybe im to old already?
