I've got news

@CaitBaby (446)
United States
September 26, 2007 7:10pm CST
I just discovered that my step sister, father, and step mother have created a fake myspace profile about me with some very explicit photographs. For those of you who know, my father has done some awful things to me throughout my lifetime, but this has crossed the line. This is one of the reasons I'm in trouble with the law right now. I feel so betrayed. My blood is boiling right now but at the same time I want to burst into tears. I don't understand how anyone, especially a FATHER, could do this. Have you ever had someone stab you in the back like this.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
27 Sep 07
Your Father? Why in the name of every thing that is sane would your father do such a thing to you? I am not aware of your history with him. But I can not think of anything that would justify a father doing this to his child. Are you sure it was your family who did this, if so, why?
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@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
27 Sep 07
Hi Rozie! I'm Flight84's sister, by the way. She could tell you more about the whole deal with our father. But he is not quite right in the head. He is the most manipulative person I have ever met in my entire life. Thinking about the things he's done and the lies he has told makes me sick to my stomach. I know it was them, though. I saw it on my step sister's email account. I've started some other discussions about him and the things he's done. I'll send you a friend request. Thank you for responding.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
27 Sep 07
Oh okay, Flight84 is a wonderful person. We have been chatting on Mylot for a long time. It sounds as though your father have some kind of mental disorder. Maybe, Borderline Personality Disorder or Bipolar. Could this be possible?
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@Flight84 (3048)
• United States
27 Sep 07
Hi Rozie. Cait doesn't have Internet access at our mom's house yet, so she uses it here at my house. I know she'll be back over here this weekend to reply back to you. :)
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@ajyukie15 (217)
• United States
27 Sep 07
as in OMG!!!!How can a father do such thing like that?That shows that he dont love you enough. Just a point of view. I just cant imagine and i cant believe how dare he can do that to a son. I thought blood is thicker than water? maybe that thought is proven wrong then geezzzzzz...oh well sorry to hear about that but i hope one day your dad will realize what all that silly things or stupidity he's doing to you. I hope you can fix all that family matter thing problem after its still your father your own blood. Goodluck.
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@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Oh that's ok! Thanks! :D
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• United States
27 Sep 07
Sorry friend didnt know your a girl hehehe...but stil i hope you can fix that problem with your dad.
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@soccermom (3198)
• United States
27 Sep 07
I read this Cait and I thought "OMG! WTF is wrong with this father?!" Can you report this to MySpace? Maybe have them remove it as fraudulent? I'm still blown away that your family would treat you this way. It'll be a good thing when you turn 18 and can get away from them. Why are you in trouble with the law? I don't blame you for wanting to cry, I would to, this acts are just unspeakable.
@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Yeah that is a lot of garbage. I'm pretty sure I don't have anything to worry about with the court problems. I think everyone is really starting to look at my father as nothing more than a pathetic, blackhearted fool who is on the brink of insanity. Thanks so much for your concern. I really appreciate how much everyone has taken part of this discussion. :)
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@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
27 Sep 07
You can contact myspace and explain the situation and ask that the profile be deleted. I can't believe that family members would do this to another family member. I hope it works out. **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
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@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Believe me, I've already contacted myspace and asked them to delete the profile. Thank you for replying! :)
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• United States
27 Sep 07
OH MY GOSH! That is AWFUL. I can not believe your "family" would do that too you. I am SO sorry. Report them to myspace. Myspace will take that profile off real quick if you explain the situation. Oh my gosh, I am just so shocked at how awful that is. I feel sick for you. You are in trouble with the law because of them? Oh my gosh! That is so so awful! I hope it's nothing to serious, would hate to see you get into a lot of trouble because of those awful people!
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
27 Sep 07
Sorry this is all happening Cait. Hopefully justice will be served. Even if it somehow isn't, there should be some people on myspace able to tell something just isn't right with the situation. I think your dad needs to be put in a mental institution or jail if he's doing this weird crap, and on top of the past weird crap too. You've got support too, don't feel alone. "Have you ever had someone stab you in the back like this" Not quite like that, but a few of my exes (harpy witches all of them) tried spreading some sick rumors about me, but failed miserably because most people know what a good and involved person I am. One of them did succeed in screwing over one of my friends though and thanks to current laws there was nothing I could do about it (even testimony was not accepted -_-)
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@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Thanks so much progamer. I'm so happy that everyone is being so supportive. I know I'm not alone. You're right, he does need to be locked up somehow. I just don't want to have anything to do with him or his crap anymore.
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• United States
27 Sep 07
The world is big... My open-minded self would say it's believable but it's still hard to accept that it actually happens. To be honest, I'm pretty surprised that you are acting like you are right now. Of course, I can't say with 100% certainty, but you seem to be quite forgiving (at least, considering this situation). I'm sure some would do harm if put in your position (I don't necessarily think doing harm would give better result nor do I agree that it would be a good thing to do). Anyway, it's hard but it's best to let out your anger at the moment, or when after the case is over. Cry if you feel like it. After a good cry you will feel much better and stronger. ^_^
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@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Honestly, I'm still in shock and it's been a couple of days since I found out. But I'm not forgiving actually. I'm not furious either, though. I think more than anything I'm just stunned and very disgusting. Thank you for replying.
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@Bunsdk (242)
• Denmark
27 Sep 07
Very sorry to hear about your situation. Im not too sure if I would agree to what he did, and I dont know what you father have done before. But your post hints that this is something very horrible and thus I can only say.... Get out and get away, it wont improve...
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@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
30 Sep 07
No, it won't ever improve. Thankfully I don't live with him. My father has done some awful things and that is why I've decided to completely cut my ties with him.
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• Canada
27 Sep 07
You need to take control of your life! You need to start by getting out of that house to place that is positive and healthy for you. Secondly you need to go to the police and report this. You want to be a healthy human being you need not sweep this under the carpet.
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@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Oh no, I don't live with my father...thankfully! I'm going to tell my lawyer and therapist about this. I think I could probably sue him for this. Anyways, thanks for replying!
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@gwendovere (1279)
• United States
27 Sep 07
I am so sorry for you -- my parents are like that too. You can rise above this.
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@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Thank you. It's very unfortunate that anyone could be like that.
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@Flight84 (3048)
• United States
27 Sep 07
All three of them are lunatics and should be locked away. It's amazing to me that we turned out as good as we did, ya know? I guess we owe that to Mama, Nanny, and Pa Benny. Don't you worry though. We will get to the bottom of this and they will realize that they have lost 2 wonderful daughters.
@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Yeah you're right. Thanks, sis. :)
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@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
27 Sep 07
How awful! I really don't have anything to say other than to report this which you said you did. That's unbelieveable that a parent would treat their child like this. They are truly toxic so stay away. One thing that did just pop in my head is identity fraud. If they would do this to you they would possible try and use your identity to charge up credit in your name so please be careful. Do what you can to protect yourself. If they know your SSN protect that info. Go to the credit bureau's and tell them of possible fraud so they can have your accounts flagged if something happens. Watch out. I'm so sorry you have to go through something like that with the people who are supposed to love and protect you.
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@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Thank you very much dreamy1. I am going to get in contact with my lawyer about this. I'm pretty sure they could get into a lot of trouble for this. I don't think I have too much to worry about though. It's more of an emotional thing than anything.
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@yougreat (150)
• China
27 Sep 07
yeah,it's not correct, limit the influence of the bad things,and discover the good aspect of things,then you will get happier and happier
@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Well, there's really no 'good aspect' to this particular situation. I am doing well, though, despite how bad things really have gotten between me and that side of the family. Thank you for replying.
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