One Night Stand
@25th_Stargazer (887)
Philippines
9 responses
@barbiegirl13 (1588)
• United States
28 Sep 07
I have had onenight stands. Aslong as u use protection, What's wrong with it?
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@25th_Stargazer (887)
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
I don't see anything wrong with it actually. I am just curious because in our country (I'm from the Philippines) this is an uncommon occurrence. Or if there are men/women here who do it, they are discreet about it and won't admit doing it.
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@25th_Stargazer (887)
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
Well, I can understand that. We're both from the Philippines and it has something to do with our values and culture. No offense meant to other people, I have nothing against those who do have one night stands. In fact, I would entertain the thought sometimes. LOL.
@christineli (525)
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
Yes,I don't see it as something bad so I don't also have anything against people who do that.
LOL do you really consider doing it? hehe, think it would be fun? hahaha. I would have to summon all guts for me to be able to do that, really big deal for us Filipinos :)
@25th_Stargazer (887)
• Philippines
2 Oct 07
Yeah, I do get some naughty thoughts too. Like I said we are not very open to this but in the back of our minds... there lurks some mischievous imagination that we opt to push back in the deepest part of our subconscious. :)
@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
1 Oct 07
One night stands are foolish endeavors in this day and age. You never know what diseases a person has. How would you when you only know the person on a physical point?
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
2 Oct 07
"One night stands are foolish endeavors in this day and age"
I agree...when I was big on flings it was in the 80s...if for some reason I were to end up single now, there is NO WAY I'd be like I used to be because it IS far too risky in comparison..not that it wasnt back then mind you but not to the extreme IMO that it is now
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
28 Sep 07
LOL I've had MANY one night stands and weekend flings in my life...I actually prefered it for a time yrs ago cause I wanted a pc of tail but didnt want a relationship so hookin up for a night or weekend was prime.....
@25th_Stargazer (887)
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
Wow, I would have been more excited if you shared with us one of your unforgettable experience, funny or otherwise, just for fun...LOL
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
Honestly, I haven't had any because I don't feel like doing it so. I'm not used to these type of situations, I find it still very awkward. I don't really think of having one, I prefer to look for serious types of relationships than play with emotions and physical attractions.
@25th_Stargazer (887)
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
I am not surprised with your answer because we are both from the Philippines. We are not really exposed yet with this kind of thing, although other men your age do it. But I am not generalizing.
@25th_Stargazer (887)
• Philippines
2 Oct 07
Well, one night stand is different from rape. I think we can say that it something that is done between two consenting adults.
@25th_Stargazer (887)
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
At least to me, it does (if we get the literal meaning). Thanks lilybug for sharing.
@blademaiden (734)
• Romania
15 Feb 08
Well, I've only had one one night stand and it was great! He was a lovely man, he made me feel beautiful and special and he was very gentle and attentive and it lasted hours. The next day, he didn't make me feel bad about it, rather he gave me a note thanking him for a wonderful night, and came to find me later to kiss me. All of these things combined to erase any guilt or regret or embarrassment and so my first experience of a one night stand was all fun with no hurt.
But I know I'm one of the lucky ones and that most people's experiences do not go like this. If I was ignored by the man or made to feel bad about it by him afterwards, or if one of us was in a relationship, I would have had an altogether different and unpleasant experience.
@snebxu66 (379)
• China
7 Aug 08
This is the first time I know how to express it in English, Mylot is really a good place to learn English. "One-night stand" is popular in China, I can accept it.
