When Your Mother Slap You Last Time

Let me see if I understand your logic. Parental abuse is for a childs own good? Please, please tell me you're not a parent yet, and that you're planning on rethinking this stance before you procreate. The last time my mother hit me? I was probably about 15. Coincidently, I ran away from home at 15. I didn't go back. I'm now 30, and it took YEARS for me to forgive my mother for her overall treatment of me while in her care. I have 5 children. One is special needs, one is non-medicated ADD. My oldest is 12, my youngest is 6. They all bring home good grades, my 11 and 12 year old are honor roll students. They have decent friends, are well mannered and for the most part, well behaved. I have NEVER had to slap them to make them be that way. Slapping, spanking, or any other form of physical punishment is lazy parenting. It's a last resort, ditch effort to get your childs attention when a parent isn't ambitious enough to pursue other options. Parenting is not easy, it was never meant to be. It's work, dedication, creativity and consistency. If you can't get your children to listen to you without resorting to hitting them, then you should never have had children in the first place. Hitting a child gets a reaction through fear. Fear is not respect. My children respect me, and I did NOT respect my mother. See the connection?

when my mother slap me I could not remember it yet I must believe it is a long time ago now

fortunately, i havent' got a slap from my mother. when i make a mistake, then she always tell me why i did wrong. and she believe i will not make the same mistake again. i will be remember her trust, so i will not make the same mistake.

every day of my life as a child she hated me regretted having me and was always slapping me around until 1 day i could take no more i slapped her back thats the last time she ever did that reason just because i was in her way of achieving her goals and she made my life a living hell

As I remember, My mother never slap me nor my brothers. She is a sweet person. When she is angry she will not use physical punishment to us, but only try to tell us about what's should happen, or what is the best. No matter how angry she is, she never hit us. Only with using high voice, we know that she is angry.

I can't remember what was the last time when i was slapped by my mother and why she slapped me,but i'm sure it was before the year i was 10 years old.I was slapped a lot when i was a child,but i still respect my mother ,in fact,love her deeply.i think physical punish is needed sometimes and after children grow up and have child,they'll know the thoughts at that time.

My mother has never slapped me. Not as a child, teenager, or adult.

I actually haven't been slapped by my mom nor my dad at all. Not once, hopefully never. I am glad and lucky to have such parents who are very caring, loving and understanding.. If I commit a mistake, they do scold me but they never used their hands or physically punish me. I definitely think that its not good to physically punish your children because eventually, your child will also use physical punishments to their children and the cycle continues. I also don't think that physically punishing your child is for the best.. you can always do something to punish your child, like ground him or something.. but definitely not physically for me,.

It depends what she has in her hand when she "slaps.' Mine had a broom stick in her hand the last time. I was 17. I had done nothing wrong. It was not for my best. Her anger had nothing to do with me. I left that house the next morning and never went back. I was such a good kid that I even left a nice note so she would know I hadn't been kidnapped, but I also advised her not to waste time trying to find me. She did try, but fortunately to no avail. I spent too much of my life trying to make her happy and wondering why she did the awful things she did. Now she can't hurt me anymore. Now I am going to write funny stories about it and make people laugh.

ive never been slapped nor caned by my parents. i think im a lucky kid.. =)

The very last time i was being slapped by my mom was when i'm only 13-14 years old.. The reason, i failed my maths exam and i lied to her.. haha

Mmm..Not quite agree with the statement. I mean from times to time parents slapped we children are for our own good but isn't there is some other way to solve the problem rather than just hitting and slapping? Anyway, I never slap by my parents.

Wow. i forgot when she did..it was long time ago when i was boy.