I hav done somethining really very wrong?????????

You shouldn't give in to her just because she said she was going to kill herself, now she will think she can manipulate you with that threat. Tell her it's wrong to emotionally blackmail people like that and tell her gently how you really feel. You obviously care about her or you wouldn't feel so bad, so tell her you care and would be sad if she killed herself but don't want to marry her. If you are really scared she will kill herself tell someone close to her like her parents or house mates what she has said so they can watch her and prevent her doing anything stupid.

If you think she can be really serious, I would suggest telling someone...her parents, relative, someone who can talk to her and see about getting her some help. It is clear that something is not right.

I'm so sorry to hear that. This sounds like my sons girlfriend. I don't know about yours, but mine just does that for attention. He was going to break up with her, awhile back, and she took a bunch of her moms pills, and then told him. SO, of course, he rushed her to the hospital to have her stomach pumped. Now, if she really wanted to kill herself, she would have done it, when no one could stop her. You might want to tell someone that this girl needs help, and tell them why.

If someone has to threaten you to get you to marry them in my opinion you should say no they have some very deep issues. As for saying I love you when you don't no one should ever use those 3 words if they don't mean them if you do your misleading the other person. Out right honest is the best way to say it and don't let any threats sway what your heart truly feels. If this person is a friend also in my opinion they are not a very good friend because friends don't threaten friends or try to trick other friends into doing something they don't want to. Take care and good luck.

ohh thats really sad you should be adabt enough to negate her :)

Talk to Her!!! if you are her friend THis is very very wrong... tell her you dont really love her and since she is your friend you just said it to save her life n all and i am pretty sure she will understand.

I would talk to her parents and ask them for some help. She is using emotional blackmail on you. Thats not fair, and if she really is serious about killing herself then she needs professional help. Good luck.

Hey I tell you, you may be wrong if you don't give it a shot. Life is full of people, some hate you and somelove you and some who don't care. You know its very easy to find people who hate you and don't care about you. But quite a difficult task to find people who love you. If somebody says I LOVE YOU, give them a chance to show there love to you, just tell them that you will just accept there offer to see whether you both are compatible together or not. Don't just say no if you don't know the person well enough. May be that person may turn out to be the perfect match for you. Try it out, life is too small to keep on ignoring people. Who know you might even convince her that way that you guys are not compatible as love birds and may even turn out to be good friends. Its all in your hand, how you take life and how you take what it gives you. Love what comes, may be it will give you back what you could have never imagined. Take Care May GOD Bless YOU

you better speak to her and tell her everything you have in mind but make sure you explain it well and in democratic way. Do it the soonest possible time before she expects more and she plan things for your wedding. In the first place you should not say yes to her and you should stick on your decision to say no since you don't really love her. But past is past we can no longer bring back the time. And I can understand why you were not able to say no. since you are indeed concern to her. After you tell her the truth you should be friend her and don't leave her alone, be with her everytime until she recover and accept the truth just to make sure that she will not do anything stupid.

Look at this Gau. If she's threatening to kill herself unless you marry her, then thats already a red flag. Imagine what the marriage will be like, she knows she'll have control over you and nevermind all the other mental and emotional garbage she can pull on you. The key is to get away. Anyone using this tactic to get married it can't be worth it and you may end up getting hurt in more ways than one.

people say the time is the best medicine of all things,so just culm her down,and told her one day that U don't love her,and maybe she will be accept the fact