the worst thing you can do to a friend....

Philippines
October 2, 2007 5:17pm CST
I had a small chat last night with my bestfriend for more than a decade now. We were talking about how our bestfriendship grows. Our happy moments together and all those escapades we made. It was indeed one of those happy conversations we ever had. I love her like my own sister. And I don't want to loose her. So before we hang up, I asked her what is the worst thing I can do to make her so furious and ends our bestfriendship. It was a long silence. She really contemplated on it. Until the moment came and told me; "If you no longer love me!" Indeed, love makes any kind of relationship survives. So, how about you, what is the owrst thing you can do to your friend?
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19 responses
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
13 Oct 07
Steal from them or talk about them behind their back. I've had a friend do both to me, I don't talk to them anymore.
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• Philippines
15 Oct 07
Better leave these kinds of friends behind.
@shadowing (308)
• Malaysia
3 Oct 07
Hi Izathewzia. Well, since they are my best friends, for sure I will never do something that I know is the worst, right? Haha. Maybe I will answer you question using another way, how will be the worst thing my best friends did will hurt me the most. I guess is betrayal. I mean so far we still love each other very very much! So, guess it will hurt me the most.
• Philippines
4 Oct 07
Same here. And I hope it won't happen at all.
• United States
3 Oct 07
The worst thing I can do to a friend? Hmnn.. 1. Steal her boyfriend. 2. Marry her fiancee. 3. Tell someone about her worst secret. 4. Kiss her boyfriend in front of her. 5. Have her fired of his job because of me. 6. Make her promise not to get married before me first. 7. Not being loyal. 8. Not to go extra mile to be with her. 9. Live in her condo and let her pay the rent. 10. Feed me because I'm too lazy to work. 11. Not give her entire privacy. 12. The worst, become the female version of "Judas Escariote"
• Philippines
4 Oct 07
This is a good list. You mentioned almost all the reasons. thanks!
@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
I guess the worst thing I could do to my friend, is to stab them in the back. The ultimate betrayal. Nothing will hurt deeply than for me to do that to a friend. Because in friendship, we invest our true emotions, our thoughts and we share a part of who we are. And there's nothing worse than to let them know in the end that I'm a fake after all who doesn't really care about how they feel. But, I'm not that kind of person. A true friend is someone who stabs you in the front. And I've done that countless times to my bestfriend. Because I care about her and worry about her, I tell her honestly what I think she's doing wrong with her life. She may not like to hear about it, but she needs to know.
• Philippines
4 Oct 07
Betrayal really ends up a lot of friendships.
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
3 Oct 07
The worst thing is to stop loving each other. This is important in every relationshop and if love is no longer there is nothing left. I agree with your friend and I hope that you will continue to love each other.
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• Philippines
4 Oct 07
Love makes the friendship stronger.
@ssf12ster (488)
• India
3 Oct 07
yes true.here was this guy iknew for many years and suddenly i said i was busy and cudnt meet him again.he said permanent goodbye to me .wat a sucker he was!cannot understand n very egoistic fella!i asked him to scoot off.
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• Philippines
4 Oct 07
He is not the right friend for you.
@matrix13 (997)
• India
3 Oct 07
i think the worst thing one can do to his or her friend is that not to talk with him or her. Nothing more can hurt one.
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• Philippines
4 Oct 07
That is why communication is very important. It nourishes any kind of relationship.
@chaptermm (730)
• United States
3 Oct 07
i don't know but if friends need help i think i can do something for friends
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• Philippines
4 Oct 07
Being helpful to any friend in need is enough to keep them.
@gloria777 (1674)
• India
3 Oct 07
The best thing is to publicise the secrets he or she shared with you. I think this is the most harmful thing one can do to a friend.
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• Philippines
4 Oct 07
Betrayal is really hurting.
@fffdile (421)
• Italy
3 Oct 07
I think that the worst thing tht you can do to your friend is to betray her confidence, if you love her then you have to demonstrate it
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• Philippines
4 Oct 07
Yes, we should let our friends know how much we love and care for them for always.
• United States
3 Oct 07
The worst thing a friend could do is betray you. Either by getting with you boyfriend or lover or by telling your secrets.
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• Philippines
4 Oct 07
Yes, betrayal is one of the worst thig we could do to a dear friend.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
3 Oct 07
I think making my friend annoyed or angry with any of my gestures or deed would be the worst thing which I can do to my dearest friend. I would not like to hurt her/his feelings in any manner.
• Philippines
4 Oct 07
Yes same here. Hurting a dear friend is the last thing I wanna do.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
:)Your friend is sweet. You are lucky to have each other. As for me, I think the worst thing that can do to a friend is to love a friend more than being as a friend. What I mean is when you love him/her more than as a friend. In fact, I have experienced it 5 years ago. I had a best friend who is a guy. We were so close, we talk on the phone, laugh at each other at school. But then, I suddenly.. out of nowhere.. woke up one day, only to realize that I was already inlove with him.. When he knew about my feelings for him, our friendship totally fell apart. We never talked to each other since. :( I think he never accepted the fact that I love him more than as a friend. It was not intentional.. but I for one know that it isn't a mistake. I just followed what my heart was telling me to. I just feel so sad and probably even thinking that we could still be good friends if I just haven't fell inlove with him. :( But that was such a long time ago. I am okay now no matter how much I got hurt, how many months I cried.. Because even if it may rain 40 days and 40 nights, it won't rain forever.. Take care to you and your friend. Best of luck!
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• Philippines
4 Oct 07
That is very sad. I hope one day when you crossed your path again, you will be able to continue what you used to have- platonic friendship.
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
When you don't love her enough to even care how her day has been. Or if you would completely ignore her and reject her without telling why. I think that's the worst that can be done to a friend. As friend, you should always be there to share his/her happy and sad moments. It would be very sad if your friend suddenly leaves without you having an idea why.
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• Philippines
4 Oct 07
We should always give atttention to our friend once in awhile.
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
3 Oct 07
Turning away from a friend in need and shutting them out. I think that would be the worst thing a friendship could suffer. There are other betrayals that we could speak of, but right now this one is the one that sticks in my mind.
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• Philippines
3 Oct 07
It made me wonder how others can turn their back to their friends who are in dire need.
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
Yes that's right..the worst thing that you can do to your friend is not to love her/him anymore..and of course If you already forget him/her as your friend..
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
As mentioned. Thanks for replying.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
3 Oct 07
Betray a confidence. If you tell your friend's secrets, then that person doesn't want you as a friend any more. That ends and hurts most relationships because it messes with trust. Take care
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
Yes, this is another considerable thing i loosing a friend.
• United States
2 Oct 07
I think that your friend is correct, izathewzia. The love of my friends is very important to me as well. To be shut out is unbearable for me.
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• Philippines
2 Oct 07
Yes, the love of our friends makes us survives in this world that is full of insanity.
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@vissy10 (82)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
Betrayal, that would be the worst thing. Its so hard to gain someone's trust, it could take a long time before its established. One betrayal and this trust would be broken and most probably cannot be gained back. And friendship won't last without trust.
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• Philippines
3 Oct 07
Betrayal is another mortal sin to friendship. Love and trust must go together.