Which Age is Good for marriage
By furqanoops
@furqanoops (363)
Pakistan
October 3, 2007 6:14am CST
in our lives we all are looking for true love and when we will find we wil getting married, in your opinion which age is best age of marriage because i have watched lot of couple they are not happy with their lives or feel that they get married very early
in my opinion the best age for marriage is 25 to 27 years for boys and 19 to 22 for girls, this is the best age according to me, because in this age we love to have a partner
what you think about that, which age is the best age for marriage and why you thik that this age is good and are you married r going to be very soon
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18 responses
@Amberina (1541)
• United States
3 Oct 07
I got married when I was 19 years old. WAY too young to start acting like an adult lol. I should have waited until I was in my late 30's, the marriage ended up in divorce and it wasn't a very good marriage lots of abuse and so on. People should get married at the age of 35, they should get every fun thing they want to do done before marriage and having children. Girls and boys should both have the same marriage age set at 35 years old.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
3 Oct 07
Um, I take personal offense to this. I had absolutely nothing to do with your marriage or it's failure, nor is it my fault you picked an abuser. Why should I waste 15 years of my life and loose 15 years of marriage just becuase you say so? What if every fun thing I want to do involves being married or the person I want to marry?
You seem very bitter and full of yourself. What's right for you is just that, right for you. It has no bearing on anyone else's life but your own.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
3 Oct 07
i believe the best age of getting amrried is whn a men n women attains the age of maturity.well wht u said is right tht the men shud gt married 25-27 bt along with attending the age it shud also be tht thy shud be responsible enuff.n one shudnt force him for getting married as the sufferer wud be his partner.so unless he is financially sound, he thinks tht he can take care of his partner n he is prepared for getting married thn only one shud get married ...
n i disagree tht a women shud get married between 19-22 i feel women shud get married at the age of 22-25. wherein a women is mature n undersatnds things n her responsibilty towards her family n women shud also be independent financially...
@melody1011 (1663)
• India
4 Oct 07
There is no right age or wrong age to get married. Every person is a different individual with different needs and wants that need to be satisfied at different times in life. With today's fast paced world which opens up global horizons, i feel that if given a choice a man should wait till he is at least 29-32 before he makes a decision to get married. When doing so, he has had enough time to mature into a responsible adult ready to take on the challenges of a married life. With women breaking all barriers today, i feel that 25-28 is the right age. Women mature faster than men and hence ready for marriage long before men their age will.
@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
4 Oct 07
hi furqanoops
i'm thinking to get married at the age 28 or 29
right now i'm 22 years old, and i don't plan to get married earlier than 26,
as right now i'm financially not ready for it
my friend has planned to marry his girl friend next year, and he's going to be 25 at that time
wow.. i'm very amazed with his decision to get married at such a young age
my friends and i prefer to skip marriage topics until we pass 25 LOL
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
4 Oct 07
I think the best age to get married in my opinion is about 25 years old and above. I mean, atleast you still have about 5 years to enjoy your life (single life) before you get married. Marriage is definitely something serious and important..It's not something that people could easily decide in seconds. So, I think the best age to get married for both men and women is 25 years and older.
@kriszelunka (557)
• Australia
4 Oct 07
I think the best age is whenever both people in the relationship feel they are ready to get married - not when everyone is pressuring them by asking 'when are you getting married, you've been together for 'x' amount of time'.
It is also important to know what it is you want out of the marriage, and to be open about that with your partner. Without communication, any relationship will fail.
@monkeywriter (2004)
• United States
3 Oct 07
Why the difference on age? I hear that girls reach their peek at 25 its easiest to have babies. But truly I think anyone over 21 or 22 can get married. I think at 19 or 20 you are still getting to know yourself. You might change and such. During and after college early to mid 20's is best or whatever happens after that. But in the teens you are still not knowing you. I dont think you should marry that young. I am almost 28 in December still not married. Yes I want to get married, but it shall happen I hope soon but still... I think its also different for each person. You should know yourself and be mature enough for marriage or it wont work out. Also you should date the person I think at least a year or more and be engaged another year if possible! And wait to have kids too at least a year. Give yourselves time. NO rush especially if you are younger when you do marry
@dreamstone (129)
• China
3 Oct 07
My opinion the best gae for marriage is 28 to 30 years for boys and 22-25 for girl.because in those ages, most boys and girl are mature,not only antilogy but also body,they konw what are they doing, and reply to their active.and in those ages,the body is good ,so if people who got married want to have a baby,just in this time.
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
3 Oct 07
This question maybe different people have different opinions,in which time you will get married,it is all depend on what kind of person we are,in my point of view,if the person who is concentrate on his/her work in this case they will marrage at an latter age,they want to get their degree and further their education,AS far as am concered,in my country if you want to get master's degree,at that time maybe you will 30 years old or so,and some schools in my country ,when you are in school,geting married is not allowed.
@spiderlizard22 (3444)
• United States
3 Oct 07
I say around thirty years old. I figure by the time they reach thirty they will have exprience and be more wiser. I think it takes wisdom to make a realtionship work. Either that or Loyality. I say when they reach thirty they probaly learn from any mistakes that has been made. Since it is 10 years after physically becoming an adult while with 20 years they just got out of adolescence and need time to grow up and mature. But that is only my opinion.
@ggaaiill (196)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
It depends on the maturity of the person. There are some people who marries at an early age and become successful with their married life. Also make sure you are financially stable. So your age will fall between 25 to 30. By those age, we are expected to be atleast working and have experience in handling relationships.
@shadowing (308)
• Malaysia
3 Oct 07
Hi furqanoops.
Basically, I personally feel that age is not something which is that important for marriage. I mean when the feeling is right, you can get married whenever you want, maybe 22 or even 32 or even 42. I mean fate will determine all these.
Well, if for me, haha, I think male should be around 30-32 and female should be around 28-30. It is mainly mostly male who work hard, their career will stable and steady between 30-32. Then the reason why female should be around 28-30 will be due to age difference between male and female. That's my opinion.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
3 Oct 07
Every single person is different, matures differently, at different time and are ready for commitment and marriage at different times. One person may not be able to handle it until they're 35, while another may be perfectly correct getting married at 19.
I'm 20 and I'm engaged. I'll be 21 when I get married. My fiance is 22 and will be 23 when we get married.
@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
3 Oct 07
Hi furqanoops,
I honestly don't think that their is a set age. Reason being that everyone is different! Some mature faster then others, some are ready for a life long commitment sooner then others, some are never ready for marriage and just live together for a very long time.
~*~ PurpleTeddyBear ~*~
@ragini155 (56)
• India
3 Oct 07
well well, according to me, the best age is when you feel you can get married, as in you know what you are heading to, the change in life, responsibility and a feeling of being the better half or feeling of being able to be someones better half. One should not marry because of compulsion or just as everyone does. i feel marriage is the most important and critical relationshil