Pretender and rumor spreader, what will you do towards them?

Malaysia
October 5, 2007 12:33am CST
Well, I have encountered a situation where a classmate of mine is acting extremely uncool!! Back stabbing every of his so called "best friend", including back stabbing tutors as well. After that, spreading rumor about most of the classmate which totally ridiculous, for example a female classmate who already has a good and stable relationship with her bf, was being spread by saying she confessed to him. I am really surprised when I found out this characteristic and his "talents". I wonder why this world will have this kind of person? Did anyone of you meet this kind of person? What will do you if you faced this kind of thing?
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4 responses
@laurika (4532)
• United States
12 Oct 07
I think there is not much we can do about it.Rumors would be in our world more and more and I am not sure there is some way how to deal with it.There can be more reason why somebody is talking trash about others:being insecure, jealous...and why we have this kind of person.becuase we need different characters to be different from each other.The best would be to face the person and tell her/him what you think about her/him and ask reason why he is ding such a thing.I think if you would face the person , it might quit doing this for embarasment.
• Malaysia
12 Oct 07
I am quite agree with you, thanks for the response girl.
@xiaoxu (31)
• China
5 Oct 07
this sort of person exits everywhere.just keep away from him.Don't let him know any of your things.and try to avoid speaking to him in a polite way.This kind of people do many harm to others in heart.I have experience and I do sympathize.
• Malaysia
5 Oct 07
Yea, I understand what are you trying to say. Thanks for the response ^^
• United States
21 Nov 07
People like that, I usually demolish their credibility, & sometimes make them choke on their own medicine. At work, I had a guy who was the superior over my immediate supervisor. When he accused me of theft when the said object I supposedly stole was right there, but misplaced, I threw it back into his face by accusing him in front of several others of moving it to make a false accusation. The official word was that he ended up retiring soonafter, but the rumor was he was "retire-fired."
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
i've encountered some people like that back at school. ^.^ I didn't know they were talking trash about me behind my back. and I was doing my thing and bein myself and not hurting anyone. and they were the losers in the end. because what they spread about me proved to be false and it turned out that they were just insecure b!+ches. ^__^;; so I guess the best thing to do is to be yourself and ignore them. as long as you're not hurting or insulting anyone, you won't have a problem. if what they're spreading is plain rumors and false accusations, then, they themselves will prove it untrue. I'm sure they'll be ashamed of themselves in the end. ^__^
• Malaysia
5 Oct 07
Yea, you are right. Anyway, he is now paying for everything he has done!! Everyone has known his characteristic and pity him, all by himself right now. I mean everyone has to be responsible for things that have been done. Anyway, thanks for the response and have a nice day
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