which do you prefer a working mom or a plain house wife??

Well, I was employed for almost 14 years of my life, so I know how much time I missed with my family. My being employed was merely to help out in providing for the financial needs of the family. The dreams I had by the time I had children were mostly for them, not for myself. But I learned a lot from the experience, and my work was recognized by the companies I worked for. So I had that opportunity to be promoted to higher positions in the company. Now that we have our own business, I have so much time with the children. I like and enjoy what I'm doing right now. Running this business with my fiance, I am able to apply all the knowledge I gained as an employee to other companies. I would say I like it that I learned much from being an employee first, before finally running our own business and having a whole lot of time with my family.

IF I have the choice...meaning we can survive only on my hubby's income, then I prefer being a housewife with plenty of time with my children until they're big enough for me to be able to get a full-time job. If we can't survive only on one income, then I'll try to have a part-time job so that I still have time with my hubby and children.

I like to be working. I don't believe that you should be a plain housewife irrespective of your qualification and all just to show you are a good wife or mother. There are so many working women who have achieved greater heights. When men can pursue their draem, why not women?

I worked when my son was really small. My husband and I worked opposite shifts because I didn't want my child to have to go to daycare. During that time, we got a couple of things paid off, because we both wanted me to become a stay at home mom when my husband had to switch back to days. He switched back to days when my son was 6 months old, so I cut down to just a couple of days of work each week, and our next door neighbor watched my son for about 3-4 hours on those two days. Then she moved, so I cut back even further. I only worked 2 Saturdays a month, until my son was 14 months old. Then we decided that we wanted more Sautrdays together (my husband worked one a month, so we only had one together each month), so I quit working. I've been staying home with my son since April, and only working online. Everyone in our family is happier. My husband has less chores and less cooking to do, my son doesn't have to go to a daycare, and I have peace of mind knowing that I am the one influencing my child every day, instead of someone else.

any will do for me, but of course, it depends on the situation. if my husband can earn good for our family's living, then its okay with me if i just stay at home and watch over the kids or just manage an online business.. but it is very different if we are not that financially stable. i should also work for the sake of our family and not let my husband do the work alone. i'll help him with all the chores.

If possible,of course the plain house wife,but i must have enough money to suppotr it,a wife just working outside all day long,or pay all her attention to his carrer,so how about the family and the children,especially the children,they need love of mom,i know what feel it is,and i trust i won't let it happen again,without money,it is hard to finish anything,right?

I wish I could stop working and be a full-time mom at my house. By I have a student loan to pay and we have a lot of bills. We also want a really good life to our kids. So I will have to work. But at my job, If the girl who is older then me decide to leave the job, I will be able to only work 32h a week. So I'M hoping she will leave before the kids go to school lol

How I wish to become a plain housewife! Because of economic reason, I have to assist my hubby through employment in order to finance the school expenses of our children. Now that our youngest will soon to finish my dream will soon come true. It is a blessing for a mom to personally care for the children because you can mold them the way you wish them to be in the future.

i want to be stable and to provide everything my family needs. but of course, i will have to make the effort to spend time with my family when i'm home.