help! am i being inconsiderate?

no you are not. yur husband is the inconsiderate partner. try talking with your husband about this. i am sure the two of you could work this out. i am also the kind of wife who could not sleep while my husband is not beside me. are yuo sure your hubby is really in his workplace?

well my friend.please dont feel guilty of the story you related.i think you've already done your best to assist you beloved soulmate.by the occasionally failing to cook or other family chore cant never judge your competence as a wife.why not just stop blaming yourself and keep making endevors as before to make your diligent husband feel happy and relaxant at home.

I don't think you're being inconsiderate, but it's possible that your husband isn't being inconsiderate either. It can be hard to stop playing once you start - it's so easy to get caught up in a game, especially if you are having fun with your friends. Maybe you should try talking about this when neither of you are as upset. There might be a better compromise - maybe he can stay out later on the nights that you don't work the next day, or something like that? It sounds like a tough situation.

You have to be specific with him. You must define "too late" just like its defined with children. What time is "too late"? Also tell him how you feel honestly. 120% anger isn't going to solve this one at all. You both need to work together and compromise on this. You can't sleep without him here, tell him that. Perhaps you may have to get use to him coming in late though. He's out too late, talk about that. Maybe he'll come straight home from now on, or maybe he has things he must take care of. Don't know what else to say on this.

You sound like me! I love him and want noting more than to be close to him. My husband races horses, and so sometimes he travels out of town for a day or two and will come home pretty early in the mornings like 4 or 5 am. I cant sleep at all. And sometimes his boss changes things on him at the last minute and he wont come home on the day he says he will, he will have to stay over or go elsewhere to race. This really drives me crazy, but what can I do? All I want is to spend time with him, and he doesnt have much of that since when hes not racing he works 10 to 12 hour days. I try to be considerate, but its really hard and I end up getting my feelings hurt. I guess my situation is a bit different from yours, hes not really enjoying himself as so much as hes working. Then when he does have time for enjoyment, hes doing it elsewhere. I think your a wife that cares and wants some love and attention from your husband. Thats not all that bad to want. Bay Lay Gray xx

No i think you are right. My husband would never do that to me. He needs to think of your, he should be home playing with u are spending time with you. Once in a while is ok but not like every week or so. As for work that is fine but if he stays there longer just to play that is not right. Maybe once a week is or or so.

hi... you are a concerned, loving wife to your husband.... it shows you deep care for his well-being... God bless