He thinks I am gorgeous!
By Sharon38
@Sharon38 (1912)
Jamaica
October 12, 2007 2:33pm CST
Well this is the third time I have been trying to do this discusssion and I just hope not to lose it again.
I just had to share this with you mylot family.
Today I decided to go aon the road to do some personal business. I would go to the Credit Union first, then to the commercial bank, then ot the overseas examination council to check my applciation to do a subject in January 2008.
After I had done two out of the three I decided to return to work because I know the boss was not in and I should be at the desk. Anyways while coming done the road I relly saw the guy looking at me but as usual I am not looking at him because I really eanted to get a taxi to go back to work. He was coming from the opposite direction and came close to me, held on to my hand and whispered "Wow! Gorgeous! My name is .................. and you are? Before I could figure out what to say i heard myself saying my name and when he requested my number it was out of my mouth! I was so shocked at him and myself. Friends this is not me! That is not my behaviour! I would normally just laugh and move on.
He did call me. He is an English teacher at one of the top schols in not far from me here at work and home.
Well my good friend advised me to check him out properly. It is up to him to do the chasing and the proving because I am not gonna chase him (never chased any guys before either) and at the same time I dont want to see too stand offish!
I believe this sexy walk that I have gets me in trouble with guys more than I care to admit! I am honestly thrilled. I dont talk to guys based on looks but he is really nice looking and carries himself well and this really appeal to me alot. Do I go for it seeing that he is really interested? Am I showing desperation? I woudl relly love to take this very slow and see where it will lead to. What do you all say? Dont leave me alone in this please!
So beloveds what do you think? I need the family's advice here.
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13 responses
@lovelydame3000 (1577)
• India
17 Oct 07
Hi Sharon!This sounds to me like a story out of the 'Mills & Boons'. Guys have tried to make passes on me too but I have always given them a look which would chase them 5 kilometres away from me! Personally, I am not the sort who would trust anyone instantly and always look upon anyone trying to make a pass on me with suspicious eyes and do not part with my mobile number unless i can get some business out of him!
But,if you ask me, there is nothing wrong in chasing a man. Maybe 'he is the one'? Lot's of times we regret of acions not taken and words not spoken. My advice is 'Don't be in a haste but meet him and try to figure him out.'before taking any major step. Afterall, most men are looking for only some 'fun'so you have to analyse what you want in your man. Have'nt you heard 'Slow and steady wins the race'? Take your time and see where it leads to. Maybe you should go ahead and ask him for a date so that you can get to know him. All the Best!
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@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
17 Oct 07
Oh boy! What would i do without you? You have just settled something great in my heart. You see I am scared that I may chase him away but I do want to get to know him but knowing htese Guys they can be so fickle I was going to wait to see if he would make the next move. I will try and see what comes from it. Let you know.
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
17 Oct 07
Well I did give him a call and played with him for w ahile. You see he did not know who was calling him and he is indeed interested. He thought that I had forgotten about him.
Thanks! He says hw will call me as soon as he possibly can and then we set our date. This is so wonderful!
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
18 Oct 07
Well he will be taking me out later. How amazing can this be? I dotn really beleive that the month you were born has anything to do with a person but my birthday is January 11 and he is January 7. He says he is seeking a lifelong relationship and indeed he has no problem with me being older than he is! He calls me ever so often. It really feels good though but I will allow things to take its course one day at a time.
@CEN7777 (855)
• India
18 Oct 07
Hi Sharon38, This type of incidence hardly comes in any body's life and you are lucky. What my advice to you is, just give yourself some time to understand and observe the guy.If you realy feel that he is going to be part of your life than go ahead but do home work properly calculate the risk and be redy to bear that calculated risk. Than go ahead you wil find your self absolutely gorgeous and belive me age is not a big factor only seriousness, commitment and belief matters in relation. wishing you good luck.
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
12 Oct 07
That so cool! I wish things like that could have happened to me. I'm just not nattractive, no guy has ever approached me for anythng, much less a number. You're so lucky. Good luck! I hope it turns out well.
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@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
12 Oct 07
Hey Gloom what do you define as unattractive? According to society here in Jamaica I am considered as"ugly" but I never let it get me down. I never listen to what society has to say anyway! All of us were made beautiful so dont let me hear that from you again, please. We all are beautiful and the fact that you have wished me well just tells me that you have a beautiful heart. To me that is what really counts not the outward appearance. Your time will come just believe in yourself and have confidence in yourself and let this confidence show on the outside.
A song says everybody is beautiful in their way. like a starry summer's night or a snow covered winter's day. Beauty is so much more than our outward appearance and I believe and know in my heart that you are a beautiful person. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise. All my love to you my beautiful friend and God bless. Thanks for the encouragement and I will keep you all posted on this.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
13 Oct 07
Well, I concider unattractive to be the fact that guys don't find me attractive? I dont know why and I try not to think about it. I've just never gotten attention from guys in that way. What do you mean by my time is coming, though?
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
17 Oct 07
Take it slow. It sounds like he's interested and he sounds like a nice guy. You aren't married (I hope?) Well being a romantic, I would say it looks like this is a keeper. He has all the qualifications, a good education, a good career, and I would say, get to know him, if he asks you out, go out with him. Find out if you have some of the same interests and the interests you do not share you can live with. Lucky you! He sounds like a prince!
Who knows maybe wedding bells are in your future.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
13 Oct 07
This is what we say "fall in love with somebody at the first sight." I think that the teacher may have fallen in love with you that made him ask you for some of your personal information. I guess that he is interested in you, sharon. You could try to stay in touch with him without refusing him as you don't know what will happen unless you have further contact with each other. I wish he were a nice guy to you and hope that you will find your Mr. Right soon. I am so happy that you are gorgeous in his eyes. Have a nice time, my dear gorgeous sharon.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
16 Oct 07
It would be cool if you can be together as one since you are both doing some work concerned with education. You could consider about this guy as I think that you will have something in common in your life and work. There is no need to hesitate that much, dear sharon. Just do the thing that you think is ok for you.
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@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
16 Oct 07
Hey William thanks.
I do hope it works out for us too. He seems like a nice guy and the fact that he is a teacher at a school not far from where I work and live. The fact also that I could have him checked out but I wonder if that would be ethical though. I work at the Ministry of Education and could do it without him knowing anything.
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@rashmimenon (61)
•
20 Oct 07
Wow Sharon that is a great thing. Well I think you should take it as a confidence booster..n I will suggest please check if the guy is trustworthy or not...Dont jump ionto things too quickly..take care
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
13 Oct 07
Sounds like fun to me! Just don't jump in with both feet. Take it easy and see where it goes! You are just showing that you are a red blooded American Girl! Good luck and don't do anything I wouldn't do!
PS. I think you are Georgous too!
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
16 Oct 07
Thank you Bearhugs. I certainly wont do anything you wouldnt do and I really plan to take this slow and easy. I dotn want to feel cheated or cheap and I certanly dont want to him to flee because he thinks I am desperate either because I am not and I do well by myself but it really feels good to know that the opposite gender is attracted to me without me having to do anything but being me!
@3lilangels (4639)
• United States
12 Oct 07
awww what a great story and i wish you the best of luck and that it works out,some are very lucky and you are one of them.im lucky to have a beautiful family and friends too.
@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
12 Oct 07
Thank you! But isnt it too early for us to rejoice as yet? I am happy that you are happy for me and wish me all the best but just pray for me that I dont make a mess of this like I normally do! Thank you so much my friend and I will keep you posted on the happenings.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
13 Oct 07
Make it reciprocal Sharon. He's interested in you and you seem interested in him. Let him take you out, then return the favor. Watch the relationship grow as well. Don't rush either, take your time.
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@BayleighGray (4334)
• United States
13 Oct 07
Hi Sharon!
I think that is awsome and you should be careful with this but still move forward!
Def let him chase you and dont give in so easily, men do like to be teased a wee bit! lol Arrange a double date with a friend or something and the 4 of you go out for a nice evening to eat or dance or both.
This could be just a fun time for you in your life or the man of your dreams! You will never know unless you find out. I know this has you walking on cloud 9 lol I know it would me. Your probably still smiling about it arent you? hehe
Best wishes!! Just be safe!!
Bay Lay Gray xx
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@svelte (132)
• Philippines
13 Oct 07
Just get to know him well and don't lose your head all time.=) Sometimes looks are deceiving, who knows who or what he really is. The best thing is you have confidence in yourself and he thinks your gorgeous. So that only means that you don't have any problem with guys not looking at you, which brings me to saying that you fish for more girl! =) go get them, but don't let them get you! =)
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