Man & Woman Relationships - Cheaters Explained

Cheaters - an image portraying cheaters in relationships
United States
October 13, 2007 5:07pm CST
I know throughout history there has been a battle of the sexes. Women referred men to dogs or pigs and men referred women as other obscene and vulgar words which I'm not going to say here but you get what I mean. A proven fact that cheaters are cheaters, there are no worse or good cheaters - If a man and woman are together and one ends up having an affair or sleeping with another - that just broke and poisoned love and trust. Then you ask yourself "Men cheat more what makes you think women cheat also?" I've heard this question many times - And here's my reply to that. For many centuries men have adored women, some for the good and improper ways. Men tend to lust and look excessively at the women's flesh - their butt, breasts and other parts of the body. But no so with women - it is the total opposite. Women look for personality, adventure, to feel loved and someone who can sweep them off their feet. Men tend to cheat more with other women because of looks outwardly - that's a given fact. Women tend to cheat more if they don't feel loved or get no excitement - that's a given fact. But either way I find cheating wrong, sick, twisted and breaks the whole world of true love. What's your say on this?
3 responses
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
17 Oct 07
Well, my ex husband cheated me for 2 years...with the same girl. So its no longer lust. Many times we talked about it but then again, I would always find him back with that girl. In a way you are right most women, if not all... seek affection and security. When we feel unlove most of the time that is the time we give up... But then again, no excuse will justify cheating. Any problem should be solved by the couple and not be use as an excuse to commit cheating.
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
14 Oct 07
cheating is definitely wrong!!!!!!!!!! How can you say you love a person and then go out and sleep with another. Whether it is marriage or a monogomus relationship, thos should not be taking lightly. If you know that you are a cheater then you should just be alone and find something else to do with your time besidesmessing around on the person that really loves you. they only get hurt and those wounds are hard to heal, as well as it making it hard to trust th next person. so yes i agree with; you 200% that cheating is wrong
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
14 Oct 07
Most of that is right. You forgot that some women do indeed choose looks though. Also there are genetic reasons for cheating too. Men to spread the seed, women to get the most viable mate and offspring possible.