Bra or no bra, that is the queston?

United States
October 27, 2006 11:55pm CST
I hate bras, but I have large breats and it looks tacky to be in public without one. It's the first thing that comes off when I get home. Do you wear a bra?
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@terriann (4450)
• United States
28 Oct 06
Yes, I wear a bra, but around the house sometimes I don't.
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• United States
28 Oct 06
I never wear one around the house - ever!
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@ngm_syd (1087)
• India
29 Nov 06
Yes I do, for the same reason you do. Call me crazy, but I do exactly the same thing. As soon as I get home it is the first thing that comes off, even if I am not the one that takes it off, if you know what I mean. Thank you
@divir_vij (1591)
• India
4 Dec 06
Yes me too. The first thing i do when i reach home is take off my girls Bra. ;)
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@stori1 (331)
• United States
28 Oct 06
I wear bras but when I'm at home relaxing I don't. I feel free of course until I put it back on.
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• United States
28 Oct 06
I tell you, nothing feels as good as that moment when the bra finally comes off - Ahhhh!
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@lectricky (680)
• United States
28 Oct 06
I wear a bra, but I have smallish boobs, so I can get away with not wearing one if I wanted. Only going up/down steps gets sore!
• United States
28 Oct 06
Hon, that is no good for your back! Get that reduction!
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• United States
28 Oct 06
you want to talk about sore? I wear a size DDD - they're huge and I hate them! I will get a reduction in the next few years, cause they are quite painful... I like to let the girls go free whenever possible, because bras just hurt! but running with these monsters? Uh, ouch!
• United States
28 Oct 06
I know... my back aches a lot when I have to do a lot of walking, but the reduction is about 5K and right now, the insurance won't pay for it. Doc said that eventually, my back will be bad enough they will have no choice but to pay for it - now, I just have to decide what size to make 'em.
@not4me (1711)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I wear a Victoria's Secret Ipex bra for 24 hours and then slap another one on in the morning. I can't stand going braless because....uh....I'm too sensitive. I can't stand loose fabric on the headlights - I would rather hear nails on a chalkboard or take a pumice stone to them. I know...I'm strange.
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• United States
1 Dec 06
I don't know....38C is still pretty good sized. See, I'm not sensitive at all. Not even a little bit.
@not4me (1711)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Oh - and I'm not too big - only a 38 C, but still. *shudder*
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@lafavorito (2959)
• Philippines
10 Jan 07
soft brassier - really soft brassier
I'm always wearing bras if not then I'll be too flat chested:) I have 2 kinds of bra, one for going outside the house mostly maximizers & underwires and the one for wearing inside the house soft brassiers without underwires like the one in the picture. I remove my bra before I go to sleep, I find it too restraining..
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
18 Jan 07
Pictures would probably be appropriate.
@xelissa (776)
• New Zealand
3 Feb 07
I like them being comfortable and holding them in place and stopping them bouncing, especially if I go for a run which I do often xD
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• United States
1 Dec 06
I have small ones. They used to be nice.. then I had kids.. lol But no, 95% of the time you will catch me without a bra on.. in or out of the house. I bought some of those sports bra things they almost look and feel like training bras, but being small chested, they don't work. My boobs slide out under them so what's the point of wearing anything at all?! I have spent so much $ on different styles and such, but very hard to find an A cup in the size of 38... hmmm. The only time I wear 1 is if dressed nice or wearing thin t-shirt or in public where it might offend someone. And then in that case, as SOON as possible it comes off! I have nerve problems in my neck/back/shoulder so the strap digs in and hurts. I think bras are just overrated anyways!
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• United States
1 Dec 06
I have a friend who tried the sports bras and had the same problem, they rolled up or slide right out... I agree with the pain on the straps and all, definitely. As for overrated, I'll have to agree again - I'm sure some man invented them...since he doesn't have to wear one...LOL
• United States
28 Oct 06
Depends on where I'm at. If I'm at work, defenately bra, other than that, No Bra. Then again, I can get away with wearing a tanktop and nobody knows the difference.
• United States
28 Oct 06
Lucky you!
@krizz420 (4385)
• Canada
18 Nov 06
Women should wear bra 's in public
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• India
18 Nov 06
i agree.
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@sujatha1 (289)
• India
18 Nov 06
I year one everyday. But i wont wear even shirts. I ll b open chested when i sleep alone in my home.
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• Indonesia
27 Nov 06
ahhh you are sexy
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@honestabe (396)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Interesting topic for us guys to browse through.
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• United States
1 Dec 06
(chuckle) glad you could enjoy it!
@kmgupta (561)
• India
30 Jan 07
i am male ha ha
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• United States
3 Apr 07
Well, I guess MOST men don't wear bras, but I guess that doesn't mean you can't!
• United States
25 Jan 07
I cannot think of one safe response to this question .. not one. It is a subject that can get a man into a lot of trouble, even by the expression on his face when he reads the subject. Good luck on everything .. huh? Like I said, there is NOTHING safe for me to say here on this discussion.
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• United States
3 Apr 07
(chuckle) Now YOU are a smart man!
• United States
3 Apr 07
I wear the darned things as little as possible, ugh!
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• United States
4 Apr 07
(nodding) same here! Good to see you here!
@shi_2000_21 (2680)
• India
28 Oct 06
you are really having the big ones. try to reduce them without surgery.
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@surya3331 (693)
• India
28 Oct 06
sorry this is a lady question
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• United States
28 Oct 06
Oh, like I said, I'm not so sure about that... I guess SOME men might wear bras!
• United States
29 Oct 06
If I can "get away with it", in other words it isn't noticeable, like in the fall and winter, I don't wear one. They are terribly uncomfortable. And when I do have to wear them, I agree, it is the first thing off when I get in the house. Sometimes I can get it off under my clothes on the way home (heehee Houdini would be proud).
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• United States
15 Nov 06
I know, I've gotten quite good at the under-the-shirt-bra-removal myself. Unfortunately, I'm too big to 'get away with it'. It's pretty obvious for me.
• United States
17 Nov 06
only when I have to, out shopping or volunteering. other than that, nope, never, and like you, if i have worn one, the danged thing gets tossed on the hall tree with my coat and hat
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• United States
17 Nov 06
That's funny. A bra tree. :) I bet your guests enjoy that. Does anyone else ever throw their bra on there, thinking it's the thing to do? LOL.
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@brokentia (10389)
• United States
18 Nov 06
Maybe you haven't found the right bra. My bra is comfortable! I would not go anywhere without a bra unless it was one of those backlass tops. Even then, I would prefer to have those adhesives. I recently bought a new bra though. And because it is so uncomfortable, I can not wait to take it off!!! Thus, I say maybe you just haven't found the right bra.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
I don't think they make the right bra for me... I've tried very expensive ones and cheap ones and everything in between. I've yet to find one I can tolerate for long.
@richdiva (13)
• United States
15 Nov 06
No, I abdolutely hate bras. Luckily I have small boobs so I can get away with not wearing one. i wear tank tops instead.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
Lucky you! Tank tops don't fit me!