Poor or Rich
By gradyslady
@gradyslady (4054)
United States
October 16, 2007 12:47am CST
Would you rather fall in love with a homeless person who had no money whatsoever, but who was completely devoted to you and would never ever cheat on you. Or would you rather fall in love with a very wealthy person who always cheated on you was never faithful, but had lots of money. Why?
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24 responses
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
16 Oct 07
I am willing to love a person who is homeless and poor as long as she loves me with all her heart.
If she is faithful to me and that she is devoted to me, then I am already contented and satisfied with that.
Nevertheless, I will try to work hard to support our financial needs. Money can be earned and obtained as long as you have this motivation to work hard.
That's it. Have a nice day and God speed!
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
16 Oct 07
Yes, love is more important than money. Thank you for responding to my discussion
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@smiggy (18)
• Canada
16 Oct 07
I would rather fall in love with a homeless person with no money whatsoever and who was completely devoted to me. Money is just another challenge in life that everyone must face and it's such an incredible feeling that money isn't really the basis of any relationship..love is.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
16 Oct 07
This is an easy one. I am not a material girl and I would rather marry a poor man who is devoted to me and treated me like the goddess I am. To be honest I already did. My husband is not poor but he is not rich either. All that matters to me is that he is honest and loves me and wouldent cheat on me even if a model sat on his face.
@elemental69 (1561)
• Ireland
16 Oct 07
It would have to be a homeless guy with no money lol.... I would rather have no money but be loved unconditionaly and faithfully, than have lots of money and no love. Money cant buy you everything!!!!
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
16 Oct 07
But I'm asking you to actually pick one. I know it's easier to say neither, but I want to see what people would choose if those were the only options and you had to.
@pillowpants1982 (52)
• United States
16 Oct 07
I'd marry the rich woman who cheats on me, and fall in love with the homeless person and then divorce the rich woman and make my homeless love not homeless.
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
16 Oct 07
But what if there were a prenup involved? Then you'd be left with nothing for the marriage.
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
16 Oct 07
I would have to say the homeless person, money is not everything yes it's nice but without love in a relationship you don;t have anything
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
16 Oct 07
That's exactly how I feel about it. Thank you for posting to my discussion.
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@talisman (1300)
• United States
16 Oct 07
I would much rather be with a homeless person that was devoted to me and loved me than with a rich cheater. Money is nothing. What's the point of being with someone if they don't want to be with you? There is no point and someone who cheats on you is telling you that they don't love you and don't want to be with you, plain and simple. As I always tell my husband, I would rather live with him in a cardboard box than with anyone else in a mansion and I mean that. I wouldn't say it if I didn't. Sharing true love with another person is a wonderful feeling and it's something that no sum of money in the world can buy.
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
16 Oct 07
I couldn't agree with you more. Thank you for posting to my discussion.
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@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
16 Oct 07
I would rather fall in love with the poor homeless person. If he would never cheat on me, it would be well worth it. Love is love and money does not mean much except for material things. If both of us were hard workers, we would survive. I have a love now like that. We are not rich, not even close, but he loves me completely.
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
16 Oct 07
I couldn't have said anything better. Thank you for responding to my discussion.
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@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
17 Oct 07
I will choose the poor one but who loves me. That is the most important for me because I marry to someone who we love each other, rather than marrying to money. Although the life can be difficult without good wealth, but at least we feel happy. I don't want to have lots of money but feel sad all the time. To a woman, marrying the right man is the right choice.
@cellophane (636)
• New Zealand
16 Oct 07
I would rather fall in love with the homeless poor person, there's absolutely no doubt about it.
The rich person probably doesn't love you back, in fact if they are constantly sleeping around I wouldn't be surprised if they didn't even like you... such a relationship would inevitably lead to a divorce, and then you'd be left heart broken.
With the poor person however, you'd have a happier relationship, your significant other could always just get a job and help cover costs.
As long as you can survive, then love and happiness is far more important than material wealth. (Assuming you are not going to be happy with a rich wife who cheats on you)
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
16 Oct 07
I'm with you on that one. Thank you for posting to my discussion.
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
16 Oct 07
I think that I will choose to fall in love with a homeless person who has no money if she is completely devoted to me and never cheats me instead of the latter one. As I value more of a true love and I don't care much about her being homeless if she is capable enough to make some money for herself with normal IQ, which is very important to me and to her as well. As you know, we have to consider about the good for the babies that will be followed by after marriage. hehe.
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
16 Oct 07
Exactly! Thank you for posting to my discussion.
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@ericajoyce (1746)
• Philippines
16 Oct 07
I would rather choose the guy who is homeless and is devoted to me than with the guy who is rich and cheats on me. Money isn't everything. You can definitely love someone eventhough he isn't as rich.
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
16 Oct 07
I couldn't agree with you more. Thank you for posting to my discussion.
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@wishme_luck (249)
• Philippines
16 Oct 07
i rather stay with the person who realy love me and worthy to love, and if we both love eachother we can help eachother to live a happy life and to survive.
@surfette (673)
• United States
17 Oct 07
I would rather fall in love with the homeless person who was devoted to me than live the heartbreak of a rich cheating husband.
My first husband was the cheater. He wasn't rich, but he sure fit the cheating category. By the time we divorced, I had no self esteem and felt that I was ugly, stupid and useless. No amount of money would have changed the way I felt.
My loving and devoted husband that I married seven years ago, treats me like a princess and I feel beautiful (even on bad hair days). I am so fortunate to have this wonderful man in my life. We've had tremendous financial struggles over the last few years, but it doesn't matter as long as we are together.
Money isn't everything. Yes you need food and shelter, but true love can't be replaced with any material things.
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
17 Oct 07
hi there friend. i think anyboy will choose automatically the first option because who will like a partner in life that will cheat on you and wont love you? id rather have a wife very devoted and loyal to me even she cames from a poor family rather than being filthy rich and live a life with an infidel. maybe i can choose the second option if i m also a cheater and a bad person. because knowing that she is rich i just let her/him be killed and i own the money and have a wife/husband who is faithful to me. yeah i think this is the right wat to treat infidel and adulterers out there. good day.
@meanangel (167)
• United States
17 Oct 07
I don't think I could marry a homeless man but money is not everything. I would never stay with a man who cheated on me. Money might make the world go round but it won't make you happy. Always marry for love money can be made.
@bargaingirl (844)
• United States
17 Oct 07
Homeless... Money doesn't fix anything, I'd rather have love!
@linda021 (100)
• China
17 Oct 07
yes maybe i love a person who had homeless ,no much money ,i think i only love him .but i cannot marry with him .you know life need money ,and everything is the same,only love butno money is not enough .right??that is my thinking