Does love at first sight really take place?
By amirev777
@amirev777 (4117)
India
October 16, 2007 6:54am CST
Hi!
there are cases that i have heard that say that 'there was love at first sight'-actually i do not believe in this,even my gurl does not believe in love at first sight.what i feel is there can be lust at first sight-how can u love a person without knowing him?
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@sheenmadness (1286)
• Philippines
16 Oct 07
For me I would say, there is no such thing as love at first sight. It is possible that you will got attracted to the person but it is not really love you will feel at that moment but just a mere admiration to the person. :)
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@amirev777 (4117)
• India
17 Oct 07
Hi1
yeah u r right-how can u love someone without knowing him.yeah u can get physically attracted to him.
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@sheenmadness (1286)
• Philippines
19 Oct 07
Yes indeed amire. Loving a person for real is a gradual thing to happen. Need to be nourished and taken care of. :)
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
16 Oct 07
I agree there can be lust at first sight and not really love. I met my man over 11 years ago on a vacation. It was crazy but I ended up moving 2000 km to be with him shortly after that. There was something between us right from the start, but truthfully I don't think either of us had any real idea we would still be together all this time.
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@amirev777 (4117)
• India
17 Oct 07
hi! so u agree with me-yeah thsi love at first sight business only takes place in movies or some romantic novels-m i right?
@hassanchop (820)
• United States
17 Oct 07
Nope, love at first sight does not take place. What it is, is attraction at first sight. Later on, as the relationship grows, the two people involved grow together, and they mature, it grows into love, but before that, it really does not take place, and those who say it did for them, mistook something else for love - maybe lust, maybe just really heated attraction, etc. Who knows.
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
17 Oct 07
I dont know if it is true but for me there is no such thing love at first sight.
For me love has a deeper meaning, love is accepting a person as a whole. How could you love the wholeness of a person you barely know. Maybe just LIKE at first sight then eventually turn into love in the end... if you will be given a chance to know him more.
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
17 Oct 07
Hi!
good to know that it happens to somebody-have you ever fallen in love at first sight?
