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Unfortunately, I know how something like that is with having a child move out from less than favorable circumstances! I went through something like that las June. Now she's back for a short spell until we get her somewhere else. She's back because of poor decisions and bad behavior again. I'll say a prayer for you and please pray for my oldest daughter. Her name is Krissy.

Lifting up a prayer for you! I know exactly where you are at with it feel like there's not enough time to give concentration on one thing before something else happens. I never understood this for the longest time. But finally realized that God doesn't want me to dwell on one thing for very long, he wants me to keep moving, so therefore always put something else there to distract me and move on....I too am facing having to put my oldest daughter out and it is a very tough decision. At least you have your husband to help support this decision. I am a single mother which makes it just a little bit harder, I think!

Yes, Paula, a prayer for you now. Any one thing could do it, but you have several things happening, and you have to be "ON" when in public. That is wearing, too. I will pray for your son. Your daughter in Physics will live, and eventually will be glad you insisted that she keep the class. Is taking it preventing her from getting into something else she wants. or does she just does not get it? Moving on from a relationship is always hard. I hope your and your hubby can steal a quick moment or two. Sometimes a breath or two of fresh air, and few seconds of quietness, can really lift your spirits.

I will say a prayer for you and your whole family. Shaunee

I understand what you are feeling and I sure can sympathize with you. I will say a prayer for you and your family. Please keep your faith in tack and know that thinkgs will get better. I am sure that you know that but it is nice to be reminded. I will say that I am sure that your son will be okay. Sometimes we just have to let them stand on their own and if they fall we can be there to help pick them up and get them started again. It seems as though it is harder for us than for them at times. If your daughter wants out of physics, you need to find out why. Maybe there are reasons other than the class that she wants out. I would sit down with her and have a long talk as to why she is so adimiant about leaving that class. I hope that you and Mike can find some quiet time together and I will continue to pray for the two of you. It sure is nice to know that there are still married couples that support each other and that look forward to the time that they can find to spend together.

Hi, sorry you had a hard week. My oldest son is 14 so i am getting the mouth and stuff to. He dont understand why we upset he got a E in english. I think it is hard cuss he dont like to read. I know it must hurt to have your son have to leave your home, but if he is doing unsafe things or not smart things or whatever then i guess you have no choice. They have to learn on their own. They normally learn by theri mistakes. I did. And i made a lot of them.!!

I will be praying. Problems come in multitudes don't they. I can't see any good coming out of my life right now, but ultimately I know something positive will come from all of it. And we both know the same is true for your family. I just hate waiting, don't you? : ) I'm not a mom so I have no idea how hard it is so see your children suffer. I'm so very glad you and your husband stick together. A united marriage always makes it easier to make hard choices. I'm grateful my parents have that. I'll start the prayers right now. : )

I totally understand where you're coming from. I'll pray for you, and you pray for me! Letting a child go can be the harderst thing. When our oldest daughter was seventeen, she had three rules: keep her belongings picked up from the main house, keep her room clean, and don't go in or out between the hours of 11 pm and 5 am (we'd already given up the battle about be home by 11pm - if she was out, she stayed out!). She decided that was too much and left to go live with some friends. She spent a year just lazing around, didn't go to school, worked only marginally. Then she got a decent job, got a nice apartment, and began to stand on her own two feet! Now, unfortunately, she is pregnant. She is moving home, but she has a solid two years of work behind her and is determined to spend a year at home, taking care of the baby and taking some college classes. So, even though your son left, that may be the best thing for him at this time. As to your daughter and physics, you might think about letting her drop. Even though she is making good grades, that just may not be where her interest lies. Unless she is planning a career in a science field, she might be better off spending her energy elsewhere. I have found that children, both mine and my friends, seem to grow up in spite of their parents! I have a friend whose son was hooked on heroin when he was 14. After 5 years of battling the addiction, he finally graduated high school at 19 and got a job with an office supply company. Today, with no college education, he is their top seller pulling down close to 6 figures a year! That's not to say that having a college education is useless, but that is only one path to success. You have to let your kids find their own way, loving them and supporting them where you can. And where you can't, you love them anyway even as you try to help them find the right path.

I'm sorry you are having so many problems at home. I think you are incredably brave to make your son face his choices & move out. I wish my roomie's parents would make her youngest brother leave, but her mom is like "but he doesn't have any place to live." IF he'd stop DRINKING he'd have the MONEY!!! He should be PAYING for the privilage of living in their house, but NOOOOOOO. He and his son are there & he may grudgingly give them a few bucks now & then. I think they need to kick his butt to the street, get custody of the son & get child support from that 43 yr old idiot!

Yes your body and mind will wear down after going 250 miles an hour every day living in a whirlwind, sounds like you guys need some desperate down time! I hope all will come together for you. I know how difficult it is to find time for yourself when all the craziness is going on around you.

I told to my daughter divali festival near by.We must clean our house only told oraly but is starting work from day.At that day she is very tired but she is not bother about what I am telling her she is working and working.

HI! Going against the flow always give us the feeling of being consumed, tired and unfulfilling. Dear mom, remember the story of Jesus when he was a teenager, he too wanted to be given his freedom to decide what is good for him. This also is happening to your teenage kids, they have grown up and wanted to taste what is life...Just be cool and feel what they feel..If you let it go from you, you will feel relieved and entrust them to God because God is their real parents. We parents on earth are just care takers of God's children. Do you believe that?

Its a bunch of problems you have got there.But keep your faith alive.Pray and keep your children closer. They are your treasures. Sorrow is not permanent and if your heart is inhabited by god then happiness will soon be knocking on your door.Good luck!

I'm so sorry to see your problems.. just have faith in God and pray.. He will help us to overcome all the troubles.. I heard my friend saying, only if gold passes through all kinds of acid tests, then only it will get all the shine and worth.. so have faith in god and trust him wholeheartedly.. he will save us..

Hope things are going better! Saying a prayer anyway!:)