Have I told you lately that I love you.

@kiobug (2250)
United States
October 21, 2007 11:54pm CST
How do you feel about your spouse or significant other? What do they do to make you happy or feel special? What do you really like about them? How long have to been together. I have been with my boyfriend for four years as of tomorrow. Hes a cool kid. Lets just say that if he died I would die too. He makes me feel like a kid again. Sometimes when we are home alone we just lay around and end up talking about weird stuff and making up weird inside jokes. I like that he is really the only person I have honestly ever been comfortable with.
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
23 Oct 07
My husband is my life - without him I am nothing - that is pretty much how I feel about him. Six years we have been married and it has been rough at times, but as the years go by we grow closer and closer together - the fact that I can just be me makes me love him even more.
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
24 Oct 07
Thats fantastic. I bet you make a great couple and again a cute kid. Thanks for responding maddysmommy.
• United States
23 Oct 07
My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We met when I started working at the cinema where he worked too. I had a boyfriend at the time, but I just fell in love with the guy from the cinema. My ex-boyfriend understood that I just was not interested in him any more. We are still friends. I am really excited about this coming summer because my boyfriend and I are moving in together. We will be moving in together once I have graduated from high school. I will be attending Purdue and that is where he is currently at. We pretty much have our whole life planned out together and I really hope it works out. He is the nicest guy. He makes me smile when I am sad. Whenever we are together I always have a smile on my face.
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
24 Oct 07
Thats fantastic. I hope it lasts. Good luck graduating high school and going to school at Purdue. Thanks for responding.
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
22 Oct 07
Hi, kiobug! That's VERY GOOD for you to wake up each of your inner child. It'll definitely make you feel forever young no matter how old or mature you get he he... I love my hubby so much 'coz he also brings out the best in me. He makes me feel so at home with him. I love joking around with him and just being funny. Teasing each other is a must he he he he... What does he do to make me feel special? He writes me a love note almost every day on Post-It notes (he goes to work early and sleepyhead me wakes up later than him). He also tells me he loves me every day. He also loves pleasing me in bed. He's a WONDERFUL listener, as well. And other than that, he loves holding my hand even while we're watching movies at home, he'd hold my hand throughout the movie. ;-D I've only been together in real life with my hubby for approx. 8 months, but we've known each other for almost 9 years now. ;-D
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
23 Oct 07
I think its really cool that you guys got to know each other just by talking. Nine years is a long time and it sounds like you guys really invested yourself in each other. Thanks for responding.
@shadowing (308)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 07
Hi Kiobug. I am really glad to hear that you have met your soulmate. Well, I don't have a boyfriend currently. Hahaha!~ But I have someone special with me. Well, that person is not a "potential" one. Haha, we are best friend all the time. She lets me feel special all the time, like I am a friend who she is mind of all the time. She knows what is the thing in my mind and she will talk and make me feel better when I am stuck. I like her as I know I am a friend of her (acceptable answer? Haha.) Well, I just know her for 2 months only.
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
23 Oct 07
It doesnt have to be intimate to be a great relationship. Im glad you have such a great friend. Thanks for responding.
• Australia
22 Oct 07
I have been with my husband for 18 years (married for 15 of them). We make a habit of say "I love you" every morning and night and include a little kiss and cuddle as a sign of affection. We have two teenage children, so we try and spend at least one full day out of 7 by ourselves to have timeout from everything and everyone. We actually love each other more than when we first met. If you can make it through that many years and still like a person your doing well.
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
23 Oct 07
Thats fantastic. Im glad the two of you are still so much in love. Thanks for responding.
@Grooval (23)
• China
22 Oct 07
I have a friend--let me just call him friend--who knows me and accept me wholy with seeing clearly about all my faults.And we have falled in love with each other for a long time,but there're some essentially difference between our world view,philosophy and value view.Then we withdrawlled back to friendship.I like better the feeling of being friend.But it seems he is not happy and I don't know what I can do.
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
23 Oct 07
I hope the two of you work it out for the best. Thanks for responding.
@kodie420 (872)
• Canada
22 Oct 07
Well me and my girlfriend had our 3 year anniversary in September and you guys sound a lot like us. I love my girlfriend because she is so sweet and caring and does such a good job raising her kids and holding her job down and going back to school. Shes 37 so this is a lot with 3 teenage kids and me. Anyways I tell her everyday I love her and we always make time just for us so we don't lose that spark which attracted us together.
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
22 Oct 07
Thats fantastic. I hope the spark never burns out for the two of you. Thanks for responding.
• United States
22 Oct 07
i've been with my hubby for about 7 yrs...married for 5 years. everything happened fast with us, we moved in together shortly after we met, we married quickly...we loved each other so much, so fast. it's great! we are still in love. it's amazing to find that one person who makes you feel so comfortable, and who you can just be your silly self around (we all have silliness in us) and they don't judge, but they love you more knowing your quirky ways! that's how i feel, if he can love me for ME, then that's all that matters.
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
23 Oct 07
My boyfriend thinks im crazy but he still loves me. So I know what you mean. Haha. Thanks for responding.
22 Oct 07
I've been with my hubby for 2 years and we've been married for 9 months. I can honestly say he is the first man that I have ever truly loved. I thought I had been in love before, but nothing compares to the way I feel about him. He has hurt me a hell of a lot, and I hsould have walked away a long time ago, but he has this hold over me and I can't bring myself to because the good times outweigh the bad. I can't eer imagine my life without him in it and I am so scared that he will find someone better than me. Silly eh?
@kiobug (2250)
• United States
23 Oct 07
Not at all I feel the same way about my boyfriend. When you share something really special with someone else its hard to walk away if something minor happens.