To All Men: Is Being Categorized a Third or Fourth Child Endearing 2U?

Hi, foxyfire! THANKS for sharing. I understand what you mean. :-)))) Yes, a healthy marriage certainly doesn't work that way indeed.

Hmmmm...I think I should agree with Transdisc on this one. I KNOW most foreigner men do all those things, too...maybe I should direct the question to Asian guys who've never lived on their own prior to marriage. Anyway, yeah, I understand COMPLETELY that you'd be insulted if your wife says that term even after you'd done your part, programer. It's only natural he he he he... The thing is, in a very typical traditional Asian marriage, the spouse doesn't do all that, except perhaps the yardwork. Oh well... I know some women also sometimes just joke when saying the term, so she doesn't really mean it...THANKS for your answer, programer! ;-D

Hi, raijin! OOHHHHH...you always think of yourself as a CHILD? That's GREAT!!!!! ;-D You're SO POSITIVE and SO right about that we have to loosen up sometimes. ;-D THANKS for answering. ;-D Yeah, as long as she doesn't literally mean it, then it's still endearing to you. GOOD for you! ;-D

OK, let's say you're a wife and your husband is a very traditional man. He never lives on his own and his parents never taught him how to do household chores 'coz he had lived his entire life with them. He expects his wife to do most household chores, esp. taking care of the kids. Now if you say to your hubby that he's a big child, would he consider that term endearing or insulting?

Hi! THANKS for joining in and having a good laugh he he... Well, I'm interested in listening to everybody's point of view. That's the point I created this discussion.