family values
By sahiko
@sahiko (38)
October 25, 2007 10:38pm CST
Well to be more specifically to get married isn't that scary since we'll all end up like that but not for all this would be a nice end.I'm very conservative and I aim for a family based on respect and madness OK that would sound abit contradictory but well...and let's not forget the kids because without them a family life would feel empty and sad.
4 responses
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
26 Oct 07
Um, not all married people want children, though, you know. There are a lot of people who believe their life would be unbearable and torturous if they had kids. I myself can't stand children and refuse to ever have any.
@clotho9787 (17)
• Philippines
26 Oct 07
i beg to disagree. a family with children is much livelier that one without. and besides, the purpose of marriage is "to go forth and multiply."
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
26 Oct 07
Maybe that's your opinion, but no one is required to agree with you. If I had children in my life, I would be miserable. I hate children. My life purpose is not "to multiply", I have higher aspirations than reproduction. And marriage is not "for" anything but love and commitment. Not everyone is Christian and the Earth is populated enough. No one is required or obligated to have children.
@milkfish (371)
• Philippines
26 Oct 07
Hi sahiko! welcome to mylot. I guess there is nothing to fear about marriage as long as you are sure that you will spend the rest of your life with this person you are getting married with, that is in sickness and in health. You should also be ready for the responsibilities that come with marriage - providing for our partner's needs and running and maintening a home. And yes, kids sometimes can drive us mad. But it is their laughters and shrieks that make the home lively and adds colors to our life.
@sahiko (38)
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27 Oct 07
Hey there and thanks... :P I don't fear marriage because divorce it's always a solution :p and yeah marriage its not just about reproduction it also has resposabilities and all.As for the kids ,they can't be that bad if you raise them well then again the environement is also important in their forming and the truobles they make to us when they're little shouldn't piss us off that much because we've all been thourght that once.
