mending a broken heart

Rightly said, I agree with you that when we are hurt, we have full right to make us understand our sorrow and it is we who have to find the ways and means to make us regain our composure again and make us happy again. What do you do in such circumstances....do you laugh..cry...dance...or what????

I do agree with you! Mending a broken heart is never easy. I could relate to this topic for I've gone through this kind of situation. And I'm proud to say that I have survived it. I thought I would spend the rest of my life living in the memories someone has left behind. But I was so wrong. I once thought that I could never be happy without him. But here I am, surviving all the odds in life. Right now, I am living my life as single with only my family and friends beside me. My life is lonely at times but I don't really care at all. What matters to me is that I am finally whole again after quite sometime.

When we are hurt, sometimes we focus on our own pain. We always say that people around us should understand what we are going through. WE expect them to bear with us... we only see our pain. But if we only look around us, the people we love also hurt with us. So I guess on our way on healing our heart we should still think of the people around us... who will greatly be hurt if we commit mistake just because we want to recover.

Hi Sjan. I agree with your statement before but I am not quite agree at current moment. Haha. Since we are hurt, we know the feeling of being hurt, so if we know how bad the situation is when we are being hurt, then we should realise we shouldn't hurt anyone even though we are hurt at the time. Personally, I feel that we don't hurt anyone is not because of we have to give any explanation for hurting them but we just shouldn't. Anyway, I am ok that a person will cry, laugh and scream. But not too much of drink and flirt as it's not healthy to. Haha. By the way, it's just my point of view ;p

I do not feel that I should entirely agree with you. The fact that you are broken hearted, doesn't mean that you can do whatever you want to do. You have to keep in your mind that you are responsible for whatever you are doing to yourself. Having drinks for once or twice to just get rid of that frustration is okay but then it cannot be for the unlimited times. This will heart your health and may be possible that you get adicted to it. I feel that to get rid of the frustration, one must try to divert one's mind by looking for better company, playing few outdoor games, dancing would be very good option....

move On thats the least you can do..Because love always comes your way.. it knocks and you should open your doors to a new beginning..Then makes everything good and your happy..

Again wise words but I have found when your heart has been broken just to curl up and lock yourself away is what I feel like anyway, it is not easy putting on that happy face.

yes, you are right,but I hope my heart will not be broken. I try my best. We have to protect the flame carefully, continously.

Time is the best cure for heart's pain. I agreed with your statement.