Will you choose the one you love or the one that loves you?

The one that I love. For me it doesnt matter if he dont love me back the way i want it to be. Coz for me love can wait..its not worth trying to force someone to love you back or reciprocate the love your showing..you need to be patient and see the wonders of love.

This shouldn't even be a question! I mean who in the world would want to marry/accept proposal from a person that lies to them all the time and was dating another person on the side?! (I'm assuming that wasn't agreed on by the two in question) Nice bleak future there if your friend ends up marrying that person -_- And no she shouldn't expect the boyfriend she "loves" to change just because she got hitched to him. That is foolish!

I suggest she goes with the guy who loves her. There's no other happiness than having a guy who adores you like you're the only woman in the world. My boyfriend's like that. I didn't really love him at first but its not really difficult to fall for a guy who adores you. Even if I see lots of great looking guys around, I'd tell myself, no guy can love me like my boyfriend does. She'd be happier with someone who loves her than with a guy who does not give her much importance. Good luck to your friend! Hope she learns to see things objectively.

It's no doubt anymore. I will choose the one who treated me good.

I will go to the one that I love. I think its unfair to go to someone that loves you if you cant return his love. Unless I fall in love with him too in the end.