a real friend?

obviously no.. if it is once or twice.. okay... make it 5 times... then it is ok OR if it is small favors.. not big favors.. otherwise they are not friends.. they are called people that likes to take advantage which is bad... get rid of them.. ignore them.. dont friend them.. a real friend is not like that... n now u say MONEY.. thats worse... do he/she pay u back?? if they pays u back on time then it is ok.. but if they keep lending n not paying.. that ask them to go away... its bad habit.. dont be too nice.. i use to be really nice to people and always say YES... but i know it is bad... say no to them on their face.. who cares if they walk away... WALK THEN...

That's really sticky. Sometimes friends get in ruts that they can't get out of and they tend to be a little or even alot more needy than we would expect. The way to tell if that person is really a friend and not just a slug who's using you is to say no and see their reaction. A real friend understands the word no, even when they'd rather not hear it, but a user rarely does.

It may be the case that he/she needs you very much and you cannot judge a friend he is calls you when he is in need , you can only judge him when he doesn't help you when you are in need, and maybe the friends financial condition is very bad , so he expects something from you, but that doesn't mean that he is not a real friend, let the time come and it will be clear on its own whether he is a real friend or not.

I have been in this positon twice and I can tell you for sure ... they are not a true friend. A true friend stays in touch, sometimes even calling you for no reason other than to see how you're doing. If this one only make themselves known when they ned something, the balance in the relationship is off and you will probably never feel right about it.

Haha, you are their good friend when they need, but they are not your real friends.