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areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have spent the last couple of years trying to rebuild a trust that has been broken repeatedly. I honestly gave it my best shot because I don't believe in divorce, but I know that it is completely impossible for me to live in a...

cheater

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areweine I would never separate him from the kids. I want to separate him from me. I wish that I could make this work, but I can't. That's one of the few reasons I even bothered to listen to all the fake promises and turned the other cheek,on all the harsh comments. I...

18 Mar 08

areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have spent the last couple of years trying to rebuild a trust that has been broken repeatedly. I honestly gave it my best shot because I don't believe in divorce, but I know that it is completely impossible for me to live in a...

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areweine That might just be the problem, he knows that even though it wouldn't be a problem for me to find someone else, I could never because this isn't a game it's a way of life. Besides the way he thinks these days,he would only use it as an excuse to continue his...

18 Mar 08

areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have spent the last couple of years trying to rebuild a trust that has been broken repeatedly. I honestly gave it my best shot because I don't believe in divorce, but I know that it is completely impossible for me to live in a...

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areweine As far as I can see everything that can be done from my part has been done. Everything that could possibly be said has. I've tried talking to him, questioning,bartering, pointing things out at the time that they happen, and it all leads to the same thing and I...

18 Mar 08

areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have spent the last couple of years trying to rebuild a trust that has been broken repeatedly. I honestly gave it my best shot because I don't believe in divorce, but I know that it is completely impossible for me to live in a...

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areweine Again, I'm calling it quits. I'm jumping up and down screaming 'I QUIT', what I have is a failure to communicate.

18 Mar 08

areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have spent the last couple of years trying to rebuild a trust that has been broken repeatedly. I honestly gave it my best shot because I don't believe in divorce, but I know that it is completely impossible for me to live in a...

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areweine Telling him that I want a divorce isn't really the problem. Getting him to understand that I don't want to debate it. I don't want to vote on it. I especially don't want to hear about how he's going to do better or even actually try this time. I just want it...

18 Mar 08

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 10 Mar 08

We are not talking about literal slavery involving chains and shackles here. Instead, it is something more... abstract. Imagine if in exchange for freedom, you will be housed in enviable accommodation, served by dozens of...

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areweine Absolutely not. A prison is a prison no matter how pretty you paint the walls.

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cowgalcarly @cowgalcarly (11) 7 Mar 08

hello ' everyone can someone please tell me what they think about my story i have a nine year old daughter and i dont let my daughter out the front door or back door she is not allowed to have freinds or people come over here...

am i strict on my daughter

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areweine I know everything your doing is out of love, but as a parent you have to realize you can't be everywhere and the answer is not to turn your home into a cage. I know you're trying to do all the things that you think might've helped you avoid your own traumatic...

11 Mar 08

areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have a close friend of the family that has bonded with my oldest child. I personally never thought anything of it, but someone recently said it seemed abnormal and because of things in my own past, I now see something sinister...

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areweine A trurer word has never been said. As far as I'm concern there's not much worse that a person could be accused of. I mean, only the lowest of the low preys on children.

11 Mar 08

areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have a close friend of the family that has bonded with my oldest child. I personally never thought anything of it, but someone recently said it seemed abnormal and because of things in my own past, I now see something sinister...

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areweine Exactly she is at that age of hormones and development and like I said no matter what the circumstances taking advantage is taking advantage, but at the same time it's very important to me that I don't accuse him of something so serious, just because 1 person...

11 Mar 08

areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have a close friend of the family that has bonded with my oldest child. I personally never thought anything of it, but someone recently said it seemed abnormal and because of things in my own past, I now see something sinister...

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areweine She's 15 and my friend is 49. Yes my families very close and we spend alot of time together. All emotions are expressed between us, because they all need to be validated and dealt with accourdingly and I am happy to say the one that shows up the most is love....

11 Mar 08

areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have spent the last couple of years trying to rebuild a trust that has been broken repeatedly. I honestly gave it my best shot because I don't believe in divorce, but I know that it is completely impossible for me to live in a...

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areweine I never expected it to be easy. I just would've liked a little warning that at some point I would be bedding down with someone who's first thought was not family but self, in everything he does. Now I'm to the point where I feel stupid for even trying to work...

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areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have spent the last couple of years trying to rebuild a trust that has been broken repeatedly. I honestly gave it my best shot because I don't believe in divorce, but I know that it is completely impossible for me to live in a...

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areweine I've already been through all that. At first I was sure that he was acting out because I wasn't doing something and I asked him. I did everything from cutting back on not only hrs at work, but the amount of time I spend with family members and still it wasn't...

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cowgalcarly @cowgalcarly (11) 7 Mar 08

hello ' everyone can someone please tell me what they think about my story i have a nine year old daughter and i dont let my daughter out the front door or back door she is not allowed to have freinds or people come over here...

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areweine It seems that you might be a tad bit overprotective. Which is understandable under the circumstances. Perhaps you could loosen the reigns just a little and allow her a few more privileges. For instances allow her friends to come over that way she is in an...

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areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have a close friend of the family that has bonded with my oldest child. I personally never thought anything of it, but someone recently said it seemed abnormal and because of things in my own past, I now see something sinister...

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areweine Yeah I see what your saying.

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areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have a close friend of the family that has bonded with my oldest child. I personally never thought anything of it, but someone recently said it seemed abnormal and because of things in my own past, I now see something sinister...

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areweine She is fifteen very smart and very pretty. Which is part of the reason I want to be careful how I approach the situation. I don't want her to think that is the only reason in the world that anyone would possible find her interesting or worthy of spending time...

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areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have a close friend of the family that has bonded with my oldest child. I personally never thought anything of it, but someone recently said it seemed abnormal and because of things in my own past, I now see something sinister...

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areweine Like I said, as far as this situation goes, I haven't approached friend or child, so I really don't feel that I am being overbearing. Up until this point because of my childhood I have taken extreme precautions with all of my children so that they know to...

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areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have spent the last couple of years trying to rebuild a trust that has been broken repeatedly. I honestly gave it my best shot because I don't believe in divorce, but I know that it is completely impossible for me to live in a...

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areweine Yes there are kids invovled which is the main reason that I have allowed or should I say looked passed alot of the comments and actions that have been peformed in this relationship. I made the suggestion before that we separate for a while and because of his...

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areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have a close friend of the family that has bonded with my oldest child. I personally never thought anything of it, but someone recently said it seemed abnormal and because of things in my own past, I now see something sinister...

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areweine I know but right now my insides are so knotted up I feel like the only way to resolve this is by ringing the persons neck who brought this to my attention or the one who might potentially be stealing my baby's childhood.

10 Mar 08

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areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have a close friend of the family that has bonded with my oldest child. I personally never thought anything of it, but someone recently said it seemed abnormal and because of things in my own past, I now see something sinister...

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areweine You know because of my childhood I am very open with my children and I let them know even if there is something bothering them that they don't feel comfortable talking to me about there are a number of other outlets for them and I trust in that knowledge. I...

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areweine @areweine (33) • United States 10 Mar 08

I have a close friend of the family that has bonded with my oldest child. I personally never thought anything of it, but someone recently said it seemed abnormal and because of things in my own past, I now see something sinister...

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areweine The friend is a older gentleman that has been a close family friend for the last 10 years. Yes I am married and me and my husband have never discussed what happend in my childhood because it is uncomfortable and it makes me feel extremely ashamed and no he...

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