For married couples, will you consider swinging partners?

I personally would not consider joining a swingers group. I made a personally decision when I said I do to my husband for him to be the last man or woman that I would have physical relations with. I believe that these couples who join swingers groups are obviously missing something in their lives. My opinion is that it does give you the freedom to openly cheat on your spouse, but how does it leave you feeling emotionally knowing that you are going home basically for sloppy 2nds with your spouse. YUCK! I believe that when one gives of their body, that it is more than a phyisical connection, that their needs to be mental, emotional and spiritual connection as well. Swinging is just a capital T in most marriages and I do not know how they survive once fidelity is broken.

I'd also NEVER do that! Both my hubby and I are jealous people, so we'll ruin our relationship if we start doing such a thing. Plus we've already agreed that there'd be nobody else for us. :-)))) I wouldn't want to compare my hubby with anybody else, actually, and vice versa. I just want to grow with him and keep on improving our marriage without anybody else.

That is the biggest insult to the institution of marriage I have ever heard. For those of us who are christians, it is a serious breech of the 10 commandments that outlaw adultery-I dont think the two you talk about were actually married couples because no married person would allow this to happen to their marriage so officially like this!

i have heard of this concept but its not to my liing.i can't even think of it.for me marriage is scared.and ones u start experimenting--things will go wayward.

I use to be very much into the swinging scene and all that and I'm still very much a lover of the BDSM scene (though not active over the past few yrs) and I see nothing wrong with it...Granted its not for everyone by any means but for those of us that do enjoy it theres nothing wrong with it....

Well, it is a good practice of your friend's. It could be fun to some extent to swing partners though it is hard for me to do that unless my partner and I are more than ninety percent agreeable to that. lol

Yes of course! Do not be rigid in your mind becouse you'll find everything in this world sensless! Greetings!

I'm married and I could not imagine sharing my husband with anyone. I don't see how some married people think it's perfectly ok. I mean, what's the point in getting married if you still want to sleep with other people.

If I wanted to do that..why would I have gotten married? No, you are not weird at least not by my standards. I think it is this attitude that causes a lot of problems in a relationship. If they want to miss each other, tell them to work different shifts.

This is not possible for me to do at all.Cannot think of it also.

This is called "adultery with consent". This kind of arrangement is totally unacceptable. It is not only weird but its a shameful act and I think it is immoral.

i think swinging is just inviting trouble with a capital C and anybody doing it is breaking marriage vows to begin with. I would never have shared my 'husband physically with anyone. no thanks, not ever. If a couple really digs that fine but do not ask me to loan you my hubby ever.

I would never consider doing anything of the sort. I think that it would be like being unfaithful to your spouse. I know that when I was younger I was mildly disgusted but curious about things like this, but I'd never consider doing it now that I have someone I love and who loves me. I feel it's just wrong and pointless, especially with love making being so secret and so passionate, but in the confines of the bedroom where I feel it should stay and belong!

I am not married so i can't really say. But i'm quite skeptical. I'm very much open to a lot of things too but swinging or wife switch is something that would really bother me. I'm not closing my doors though. I guess that would take a lot of being openmindedness. I am openminded but this thing is more on the extreme side. I would go for threesomes (with "safe" total strangers) but not swinging. I think it would be too devastating to see my wife getting.. umm.. you know by another guy.

My partner and I know a couple who are members of a swingers club, they have been very happily married for almost 15 years, but now and again they go to a club for a weekend. They say it gives them the freedom to have some fun without any emotional attachment but I must say I don't think my partner and I would ever join in

Dear daryljane, I think whole conception is the product of mental degeneration.

Hello daryljane, It is a big NO for me. I won't exchange my partner, no matter what. I think it is really weird and I don't like the idea. I don't even can think of my partner sleeping with another woman. I never can accept that fact!

my Answer is never how can u tolerate ur partner sleeping with other?? Love mean purity, purity of emotion, purity of physical attraction. how u can be u sure that ur kids are urs then oopsss, sorry but i cant imagine of that, may be i am tooo conservative

Ya , I agree with your friend. We the married couple miss each other even though we are near to each other.Out life is just like robot, where there is not space for feeling. But when we go back to our early days and go for outing and share some lonely time with each other..it really boost your...love.

No some peeps that did this...cost them there marriage and family. Had to put 3,000 miles between each other to remain same. She was the one who ending up falling for one of the switcharoos.