Where do you go if you're sad or if you feel like being alone?
By brew2x
@brew2x (3094)
Philippines
23 responses
@overhere (515)
• United States
3 Nov 07
When I was in England I would take a drive to the coast and sit in the dark on the beach, seemed like the closest place to heaven on earth. But living in the depths of Ohio the beach isn't an option so I'm most likely to be found in a quiet corner of the garden just listening to the trees.
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@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
3 Nov 07
That sounds really relaxing. Being in a beach at night, especially if it is really silent and just gazing at the stars above. I like watching the stars since I was a kid, makes me feel a little dreamy. Thanks a lot for posting overhere =)
@summer218 (197)
• United States
5 Nov 07
I live in Florida, so the beach is very close to us. This is the place I have found to be the most tranquil and peaceful. The soothing ocean waves can really make you forget your worries, at least for a little while. I'd love to go more often, but then I'm not crazy about have leather for skin :(
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
Hi summer218! You're pretty lucky to live close the beach, at least you can easily go there anytime you needed to. I don't like spending too much time under the sun too because it can easily darken and dry up my skin that's why I prefer going to the beach at night. And also because I really love staring at the stars.
@qinqin1202 (376)
• China
3 Nov 07
in fact, i have no place to go when i felt sad. i have not enough money and dont want to waste money, so i could not go out for shopping to vent the angry emotion. at that occasion, i cannt read any word. so, i just stay at home and keep silent.
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
3 Nov 07
It's either I'm alone inside my room or spend my time here on mylot, since I don't want to go out or be with others whenever I feel low.
I'd rather spend some time alone, then reflect on other things so that it would lessen the loads of what I'm feeling. If the feeling subsides and I feel like I can control my emotions enough, then that's the time I'll be coming out to seek company with friends.
@simplyman2006 (1706)
• India
3 Nov 07
i always stay in my room alone and try to think about that matter. ang prayes to god plz help me here
& get me out of here.
@ashar123 (2357)
• India
12 Aug 08
If someone bothers me and I don't like what he or she is doing or saying, I just ignore him or her and think of not getting angry. When I am worried, I just go to the nearby garden me in my city and relax and pray to God there about my worries and think in calm atmosphere of the garden to do what now ? Many people have many ways to relax. I just have this old one.
@applecartronnie (1984)
• India
3 Nov 07
hi, when i am sad and when i feel alone, i go to the grave yard and sit there thinking about how short this life is and why people dont realise that we are here for sometime and it would be so good to be with people who want your love and want to talk or just share. most of the people are running after what the really need the least eeven in their spare time, while being with someone cooly and sharing tings about life that really matters is so needed and is an essential part of life. you know, people always ask what is our purpous in life, i think it is simple, firstly to Glorify GOD ALMIGHTY and then to share love as much as possible. so yes, i spend my time a lot in the graveyard when i am alla lone, also keep quiet if i am in my room, i dont worry any more about company and i think i can go by without 1 for the rest of my life, as long as i am true to GOD that is enough. but yes come what may never forget to thank GOD and smile.
love, smiles, apple.
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
3 Nov 07
Hi apple! I've marked your response as the best. I agree, we should always seek God's help first in time of troubles. Nothing could ever go wrong with His guidance. It is definitely silent in the graveyard though I don't think I will choose it as my place to relax. I think it would freak me out to stay there for couple of hours especially if it's dark, sorry I guess I've watched too much horror movies =)
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@applecartronnie (1984)
• India
3 Nov 07
thankyou for the honour. and there is nothing to get scared ever, you know why, because those who put thier faith in GOD nothing can ever ever go wrong with them, in in their trials are greta things for them waiting to be disclosed here and in the hereafter. nothing can harm you ever. nothing . happiness always, smiles, thankyou, apple.
@melcahjone (135)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
when i'm sad or something,i usually go the mall to play in the arcade.
@worldbestwriter2008 (1633)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
the place where i would like to go specially when i am alone is the church...Because it is the temple of God. And by there i am praying and asking petition the the Lord our God. I am communicating God, thru prayers.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
when i am down, i would go to my room and be with myself...
@lulumartin (963)
• Germany
13 Nov 08
I prefer staying in my room. I feel better after crying alone in the room.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
31 Mar 08
For me, it depends on where I am at. When I am at work, I tend to go run to the bathroom, and hide in a stall, and cry or Pray and meditate on things. When I am at home, I tend to want to go hide out in my bedroom for a while and hide from people (husband included), usually with taking time to Pray a little about the situation, and then if I am feeling too down, I usually will take a nap as well to see if I feel any better when I wake up.
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
31 Mar 08
Hi KrauseHome! I do the same too. I also hide in the bathroom and cry there if I don't feel really good. I really don't want other people to see me crying especially my family because I don't want them to be worried. I also like being in my room if I'm home. My room is my safety haven. Thank you so much for posting! =)
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
31 Mar 08
I will take a walk, I want a place full of trees and flowers, to refresh my mind!
@3lilangels (4639)
• United States
4 Nov 07
well actually when i am sad i will either go somewhere very quiet and just think of the problem but i also go to my friends and family,it really helps alot and it put me at ease with my problem knowing they are there to support me and care for me.
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
1 Mar 08
I really admire your ability to smile after feeling sad or after crying. I think you're one of the people who just feel sad for a moment and then can get back to their feet and think clearly immediately, such a strong personality =) Thanks for posting sang2k2 =)