why do i missed him?
@babybluebellebj (413)
Philippines
November 2, 2007 11:01pm CST
i have a textmate and he become my bf for 3 weeks! even do i know that all his texts are empty words, i missed it! i missed when he called me "mahal ko" (my love) or "mama ko" (my mama)...i missed his text every morning greeting me "good morning mahal ko"...i dont like this feeling coz i cant do anything about it...we broke up because he is drunk...whatta? i am sure that i dont feel anything for him still i missed his text...honestly, the reason why i answered him is because i only want some attention and i can get it through texting...but now, im trying my best to moved on, and lived my life as before...i dont want any textmate again...i feel sad coz this is my first time engaging with this textmate thing then this is what happened...
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8 responses
@shai_aguirre (26)
• Philippines
3 Nov 07
hi po! How sad naman!
Ako naman miss ko na din bf ko nasa vacation eh,
Goodluck sa lovelife mo dont worry dami pa dyan! mas ok kung sa totoo wag sa text!
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@babybluebellebj (413)
• Philippines
3 Nov 07
thanks!please dont use tagalog here or else they will delete your response or discussion...
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@singlepixel (2743)
•
5 Nov 07
now we're learning a good lesson...be careful with 'love' especially thru text phone or internet...good luck
@alamode (3071)
• United States
3 Nov 07
Its always very exciting to start a new relationship. But things may have gone to fast, for him to say 'my love' when you don't really know each other. Now you know that he has a problem with drinking, and it is spoiling the image you had of him, and the hopes you had for a relationship.
If you understand that, then you will be able to text with people to just be friends. If there is to be a romance, it will happen with someone you really know. Don't give up, but don't give your heart away too easily, either. You are a nice and sensitive person... don't let this incident hurt you too badly. Take care.
@babybluebellebj (413)
• Philippines
3 Nov 07
thanks!i have no special feeling with him...i just wanted to have someone to text me...and im trying not to attached myself with it...but its so sad that i missed it when it gone...
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@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
3 Nov 07
Maybe it's not exactly him that you miss. Maybe it was the attention, receiving text messages that you miss. In that case it should be easy to move on, because it's easy to find a new textmate. Be careful though. There are lots of nasty people out there.
@babybluebellebj (413)
• Philippines
4 Nov 07
i think so coz i dont even know him so i dont think that i will missed him..i guess that textmate thing will be out of my vocabulary from now on..he will be the last textmate i will entertain...the thing is, i am the person get easly attached, to people, things, something like that..and in this case,i attached myself with his texted thats why i missed it...thanks for your warning...
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
3 Nov 07
It is very nice to feel loved and wanted and especially when you begin a relationsihp, but you ended it because of his drinking and that was a personal decision. I am sorry that you had to do that, but I think you made the right decision. Just keep in mind that there is love out there and you will find it soon!
@babybluebellebj (413)
• Philippines
4 Nov 07
right now, i cant say that is love...i we become bf/gf just because of attention thing...i know that he doesnt loved me and same here...honestly, i already forgot how to be loved and how to loved...
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
4 Nov 07
Others have given you good help. But with that, you'll have to try to move on from this thing. It'll take time, I don't know how long, but eventually you'll get over it enough to move ahead with life. I do wish you the best Belle. I know it hurts, but eventually this will subside.
@babybluebellebj (413)
• Philippines
4 Nov 07
yes you're right!i can do it! there's no way i will stop my life with him...thanks for response!
@babybluebellebj (413)
• Philippines
4 Nov 07
love?no, i only want some attention...i cant love someone i didnt know...thanks for response!
@rossonovo (2)
• Philippines
28 Apr 08
hi, i also have a friend who has a chat mate almost always every night they chat until midnight... the guy is married and the girl is single... the guy maybe fall in love with the girl but the girl is hesitant to commit since the guy is married. it came up to a point that the guy offered a plane ticket to singapore. they will just meet in singapore anytime.
my question is why guys will tend to look for another woman when they are already married and happy with his married life? so confusing that made me think twice to get married too...
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
i know you could do it girl... moving on is hard but you can overcome it soon... just have fun with friends and family...
