Can someone who is single be happy?
By crauch_23
@crauch_23 (11)
Romania
26 responses
@crazymare (11)
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3 Nov 07
well i cant speak for the whole world but i have been single for 2 years and i'm very happy, I have love from friends and family and feel love for them. Just because i dont have romantic love in my life, does not mean i am lonley. I would only feel lonley if I had a significant other already in my life, who was away from me. What I mean is I would have to meet Mr Right, get too know Mr Right and spend a portion of my life with Mr Right before i would feel lonley and unhappy without him. I realy hope that makes sense lol
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@dreamerlife (3)
• Malaysia
27 Nov 07
Being single can be happy, no commitment. But when we are getting older, friends and family are no more be with us, then you will really feel the loneliness. This is serious issue, coz we can't turn back time. The true happiness come where we can share everything together from good to bad, where and when we need it. I maybe wrong, I hate loneliness. I still think, to make my life complete I need someone to love me and care for me. And I trying hard online everyday to find this lady.
@acatantan (63)
• Philippines
18 Dec 07
You're absolutely right, dreamerlife. While most singles would say that they can be happy, there is always a little sadness or uncertainty in their voice. After all, whom would he/she share his/her happiness and sadness with? He/she may have parents, siblings, nephews and nieces but their priorities would be their own families!
@mujtabachang (145)
• Pakistan
12 Dec 07
Yes, there are some people who don't like to be having any relationship or maybe they are not social enough.
They just like to be alone all the time, and they like it that way. I know it sounds weird, but there are. This world is a weird place, so you better know it's corners :)
For me, I don't think so, I can be happy without people caring about me. Everyone loves to be cared by others.
@missberlee (467)
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3 Nov 07
Of course someone that is single can be happy, it's a casr of being comfortable in your own skin. When that happens, you'll find people round you being comfortable. It doesn't matter how much money one has in the world, if he doesn't love himself, people will find it hard to love him!
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@acatantan (63)
• Philippines
18 Dec 07
I agree that someone single can still be happy, but they won't be as happy as those who married and had children.
@piatos03 (393)
• Philippines
5 Jan 08
I once asked my guy friend about this. He answered by saying that yes, he'd be happy being single, as long as he still had his friends. He has this weird theory that he should wait for "the one" rather than settle for second best. So if it doesn't happen in this lifetime, then maybe in the next. His point is that he's willing to wait.
What he said has always stuck with me. Cos what if this is the only life you got, shouldn't you make the best of it? I myself wouldn't be happy being single. But being single is a choice. Maybe that's what makes them happy.
@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
17 Jan 08
Its hard to be happy when your single but yes its possible. I am single, been single since march, but divorced since last month. I have my little boy so he helps me at times to bring me joy in my life. but other times, I get lonely and think I miss having a man in our life. but then I think I am free right now I should be enjoying it, because one day I'll probably find someone for me and my son. I miss us being a complete family. its good for my son who's 3 yr until May and its good for me.
@vikimishra (628)
• New Zealand
17 Jan 08
ofcourse yes ..i don't see any reason why some one can't be happy when he is single ...Single people can be equally happy as anyother person..cheers
@heykoijawaab (57)
• India
5 Nov 07
well it depends on different people.first i thought i culd say happy livig alone. but as i grew up i came to know that for happiness we need comp[any cause happiness grows on sharing & for that u need people. so to be happy u ned company. u cant live alone & happy maybe for some tie you may feel free & u may take tat as happiness but it isnt so.....
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@iceblade007 (232)
• Philippines
18 Jan 08
of course, happiness does not only mean having someone to love.
@mjweed21 (693)
• Philippines
18 Jan 08
yes of course. though you are single, can be as happy as you want to be. If you live life to the fullest
@karenjoy28 (1)
• Philippines
14 Jan 08
yes......... i think someone single like me can be happy itz just u wer satisfied for being wat u r and as asingle girl like me itz just im happy see my friends and family in good condition ........
@Colinryan (10)
• China
18 Jan 08
Maybe but not exactly.
someone maybe love to be single, and the others be not.It's rely on the things what u have thought.Independence or not
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
3 Jan 08
yes, of course..actually, i'm single for 3yrs now, and i'm happy being a single mom..i'm contented because i have my child..but honestly, sometimes, i really think of having a husband, who will take care of me and my daughter..but of course, a single person still become happy..
@cartoon4umaniacs (1648)
• United States
4 Jan 08
Anything is possible. Happiness is a state of mind...if you want to be happy being single then you will be...for some people they are better off being single rather than be with someone...It's reallly hard to find someone to love you the way you want to be love and if you can not find what you want and settle for someone who you don't love you be hurting yourself and the other party so therefore won't be happy being with someone...
@coralreef (11)
• Philippines
27 Dec 07
At a younger age like teenagers and eatly 20's or maybe even 30's I think bein single is okay. You can still be happy of course.. Although, when you get older I think you'd be happier with someone else. Someone to grow old with you. Someone to love. Someone to share memories with. Someone to help you. Someone who will make you happy.