How do you cope up with the death of 2 Loved Ones?

I'm not good in consoling, I think God have plan for you and time will heal and I don't thingk that your dad and sister will like to see you behaving like that. Brace up dinxcarin.

Tragic it is,.. dinxcarin.. None can or no words can indemnify your loss. I recollect these lines i read some where,.." GRIEF BOUNCE WHERE IT FALLS,.. BUT NOT WITH HOLLOWNESS,.. BUT WITH WEIGHT." Dont lose your Faith in God.. Trust him, He will Give you all strength to withstand your loss and anguish. I pray god,let the soul of your Dad and Sister rest in peace. Take care friend.

I am so sorry about your two loved ones,actually there is not a lot anyone can do..It is an awful thing to lose your loved ones, and so close togeather is very hard...In Sept we lost my childrens Dad, and we are still in the grieving process,and you are too at this point...We are finding it very hard to believe this has happened to our family.The one thing that really helps is to cry,do not hold back your grief,for crying helps to releave the pressure and grief that you are feeling now...I know you are very sad right now, and grieving is a process we must all go through when losing a loved one,it feels like your world is just crashing down around you.It helps to try and keep yourself busy and try not to think to much right now.Just pray and ask God to give you the strength to go through what you are going through right now..My daughters have found strength in talking to their Dad as if he was just right here with them...In time you will recover,and will get back to normal but now you have a very heavy heart,and thats just how it is...Just try and understand in your mind that they are not really gone but have only went to another plane and they are with God now, and they are happier with him than they were here.God Bless and keep you....God is taking care of them and he has them in his hands and that is the best hands they can be in...

If you know they were good and did good during their life, then you would be comforted by the fact that they are in a happy place now. No more pain, no more problems. Just eternal happiness in the company of our Lord. I will say a prayer for them.

dear friend dinxcarin, i'm so sorry to hear what is going on with u be sure to keep in touch with us when you fly back to cebu monday, you know your welfare is in our hearts. to lose a father, like i have is devastating, and to lose your sister last night that is so tragic. write me privately back dinxcarin this weekend ok. u r friend stanzi2007

Stay calm everything will sure, God writes some lines for cakes and you and your family will be very happy, and God bless you.

dinxcarin I am so sorry that you have to go through this pain. I don't know what you are going through but you have my sympthy and care. Just remember that God will not let go of you ever. It is we that sometimes let go of God. Maybe you can look at their deaths as a release from pain. Remember that when Jesus comes back for us we will see all out loved ones again and they will have perfect bodies and this is what you can look forward to.

My dear it is very difficult to cope when two of your loved ones die one after another. Try to develop a support system and if you don't have one where you live talk to your minister, priest, personal physician and anyone that will listen. Also if it gets to be too much for you then get some counseling or psychotherapy. Take care.

I record my condolence on seeing the content of the discussion. Having full Faith in GOD,You will get "HIS" help definitely.Yes we are not aware of "HIS" plas. But be confident,you will get HIS blessings and support to overcome all your sufferings.I Pray God to give you the sufficent strength to bear the Loss and show a right way to solve all your problems.

family members from whom you find love and sense of beloning are all of a sudden gone, and gone for ever . i really feel the anguish for you, dear friend. i will cross my finger for you, and pray god to save you from the hell and bless you to return hope and expectation as soon as possible! but i think the most grieved one is probably your mother,for, you live so far and there won't be one intimate person near her, she will feel so lonely and helpless. hope you will bring your mother with you ! good luck, my friend!

I feel very sorry about that,this moment Idont konw how to console you ,maybe praying for you is the best way . God bless you,eveything is gonging to be fine