colourless

@colourless (245)

China • Age 37

Joined myLot 17 years ago

oh,give us pleasure in the flowers today;and give us not to think so far away

All Activity

colourless's Activity

Help~~~looking for your reaction to the book A Doll's House

colourless @colourless (245) • China 24 May 12

I'm a chinese student, who are writing an essay about A Doll's House. I ask you favor sinserely. Our teacher did told us not to pick some materials on the internet, so my dear friends, if you can give your creative comments on...

1 response

So many high apartment buildings, yet so little space for each person to live

colourless @colourless (245) • China 26 Dec 10

Today I accompany my bf to hunt for a place to live(I mean month-pay rent). You guess what, several couples share one big apartment. And the apartment has five rooms AND ONLY ONE washroom. Totally there are eight people living...

building

rent

space

2 responses •

1 person

What is your opinion?

Jevendiran @Jevendiran (778) • India 16 Jun 09

In Indian colleges, Mobiles are mostly not allowed. Some support this while many oppose this. I'm one among the second group. Just by prohibiting the use, you can't students from using it. Students who misuse this technology will...

26 responses •

3 people

colourless I think we,college studnets, should be given more alternatives.As we have more connectons with outter society, we need mobiles to be in contact with others.Besides, it really gives convenience to users, even teachers now use mobiles to contact us.All in all,...

16 Jun 09

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Is any body here learning American Literature, please respond to me!!!

colourless @colourless (245) • China 10 Jun 09

I chose Mark twain's work analysis as my thesis topic. I felt a little bit uneasy about it .So, my dear friends, if you major in American literature, Please contact me, thanks, I need your help!!!!

american literature

Remember?

Humbug25 @Humbug25 (12540) 20 Oct 08

I have quite a busy life being a single mum to three young boys who are here, there and everywhere. My poor memory does suffer a little bit that I have to make reminders for myself. Appointments I always put on the calendar...

17 responses •

4 people

colourless I sometimes write it down on the note ,and then stick it onto some obvious places so that i can notice it quickly and easily.Besides I used to run something important in my brain repeatedly, so It will be difficult for me not to remember doing it.

20 Oct 08

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Women discourage women's ambition?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 6 Oct 08

My aunt, 32 years now, have a decent job.Yet, she never dropped her original dream-going on her study in PHD. Several years ago, she thought less of this dream just because her son was so little .Now,my nephew has grown up and...

discouragement

woman

1 response

Would you consider a child's suggestions seriously?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 18 Sep 08

Honestly, I rarely take my little brother's suggestions into consideration.Yet,sometimes ,When thinking backward, his advices can be of great value to me. Children really have another perspective to judge things,they are more...

children

difficulty

2 responses

colourless Yep,actually the more we take children's advice, they are more active in creating ways to deal with difficulties. This, in some way, cultivates children's ability. I believe your brother must be a creative guy. ^_^

18 Sep 08

I am not abnormal to choose to be a single girl.

colourless @colourless (245) • China 18 Sep 08

I don't want a boyfriend even at my twenties-an valuale period to women. 1 It's not my appearance that makes me humble so that I don't want to be close to men.Actually, I once had got many pursuers. 2I just cherish the freedom i...

realationship

single girl

1 response

Would you consider a child's suggestions seriously?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 18 Sep 08

2 responses

How do you maintain a friendship without common topics?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 31 Aug 08

Two people usually become friends when they are mutually drawn to each other. And when they have common topics between them, the relationship strengthens and they become better and better friends. I have such a friend. We were...

36 responses •

11 people

colourless Quite unlike you, I pretty much like making friends with those I don't have much in common with, you know? Honestly, I am quite stubborn, and a little bit agressive,hehe, and I can't imagine the nightmare if I persist in having a friend who shares the same...

1 Sep 08

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Do you still use a handkerchief?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 28 Aug 08

A handkerchief (also called handkercher or hanky) is a form of a kerchief, typically a square of fabric that can be carried in the pocket, for personal hygiene purposes such as wiping one's hands or blowing one's nose, but also...

114 responses •

19 people

colourless It's pretty convenient to take a handkerchief ,but sometimes it's not very convenient to hold it, say when I don't have a handbag with me or when my clothes haven't pockets .But honestly saying, when someone takes out a beautifully embroidered handkerchief ,I...

31 Aug 08

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Dual Purpose

carolbee @carolbee (16230) • United States 30 Aug 08

I like to respond to as many friend's discussions as possible. I fall so far behind at times it's almost impossible to catch up and be halfway current with my responses. I have found, however, that responding to older discussions...

10 responses •

1 person

colourless You, both, are very kind to think about mylot in this respect and very supportive to reply those posts with no responses.

31 Aug 08

•

1 person

Your Priorities

MOMMASAM @MOMMASAM (1004) • United States 16 Aug 08

I believe we would all agree that our priorities need to remain flexible throughout our life. what was very important in our 20's, may be less so (or more so) in our 30's and 40's. and, even beyond ! what were your...

16 responses •

4 people

colourless During past 12 years since I attended preliminary school, my priority is never else but score, I made great efforts to get the number 1.But now ,as a senior, my priority has changed ,I care more about my ablity, whether I can deal things in more effecient way...

17 Aug 08

•

1 comment

•

2 people

I dont like having people around all the time.

saundyl @saundyl (9783) • Canada 15 Aug 08

I'm someone who likes to live alone, likes peace and quiet and i tend to get rather grumpy when people are around me too much. usually around 3-4 days i start needing alone time or i get snappy with people. I go to hide however...

alone time

grumpy

27 responses •

9 people

colourless The same feeling here! But I like it only when I am doing something important or something that needs to be focused on highly. Also When I was in bad mood or suffer deep pressure, I choose to be alone. As for home, I don't mind sharing a house with my...

15 Aug 08

•

1 comment

•

2 people

Can an introversive person change to be more extroversive?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 14 Aug 08

I'm an introvert. I can say I wasn't like this when I was a child .I used to be brave and not afraid of speaking in the public. I used to be bold and outgoing and kept in contact with lots of my classmates .I used to be popular...

extrovert

introvert

1 response

Tradition vs. Reality

victoriasparda @victoriasparda (161) • United States 9 Aug 08

I live in an area so full of tradition that you can't do anything without people telling you that you are doing it wrong, it got me wondering, just what good does tradition do in today's world? I've always seen tradition as a...

12 responses •

3 people

colourless Tradition really doesn't matter so much to me. Sometimes I really forget about about it until people around me reminds that tommorow is a special day or tomorrow we should eat something special for the special custom Yet, to tell the truth, life should have a...

10 Aug 08

Don't Judge Me!

Yohanna22 @Yohanna22 (42) • Philippines 8 Aug 08

When I was in College people think I am a freak, because I dress in the special way which like a rappers/rockers/skaters do. Is it right to condemn other people based on their dress code? What can I do about this problem?

8 responses •

2 people

colourless Yep, I'm from countryside but study in a large city. And I have the same kind of feeling that when I go back to home, many people cast a different look on me. It seems that they are judging me or something , while back in large city, people hardly notice...

10 Aug 08

I earned 2000 yuan with hardly any effort!

colourless @colourless (245) • China 10 Aug 08

Yet, to tell the truth I didn't feel a little bit pleasant. You know it is such a boring job just sitting there receiving several calls everyday ,nothing else. I once whispered to myself that a lot more people are now out of...

job boring