colourless

@colourless (245)

China • Age 37

Joined myLot 18 years ago

oh,give us pleasure in the flowers today;and give us not to think so far away

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What is your opinion?

Jevendiran @Jevendiran (778) • India 16 Jun 09

In Indian colleges, Mobiles are mostly not allowed. Some support this while many oppose this. I'm one among the second group. Just by prohibiting the use, you can't students from using it. Students who misuse this technology will...

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colourless I think we,college studnets, should be given more alternatives.As we have more connectons with outter society, we need mobiles to be in contact with others.Besides, it really gives convenience to users, even teachers now use mobiles to contact us.All in all,...

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Remember?

Humbug25 @Humbug25 (12540) 20 Oct 08

I have quite a busy life being a single mum to three young boys who are here, there and everywhere. My poor memory does suffer a little bit that I have to make reminders for myself. Appointments I always put on the calendar...

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colourless I sometimes write it down on the note ,and then stick it onto some obvious places so that i can notice it quickly and easily.Besides I used to run something important in my brain repeatedly, so It will be difficult for me not to remember doing it.

20 Oct 08

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How do you maintain a friendship without common topics?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 31 Aug 08

Two people usually become friends when they are mutually drawn to each other. And when they have common topics between them, the relationship strengthens and they become better and better friends. I have such a friend. We were...

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colourless Quite unlike you, I pretty much like making friends with those I don't have much in common with, you know? Honestly, I am quite stubborn, and a little bit agressive,hehe, and I can't imagine the nightmare if I persist in having a friend who shares the same...

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Do you still use a handkerchief?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 28 Aug 08

A handkerchief (also called handkercher or hanky) is a form of a kerchief, typically a square of fabric that can be carried in the pocket, for personal hygiene purposes such as wiping one's hands or blowing one's nose, but also...

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colourless It's pretty convenient to take a handkerchief ,but sometimes it's not very convenient to hold it, say when I don't have a handbag with me or when my clothes haven't pockets .But honestly saying, when someone takes out a beautifully embroidered handkerchief ,I...

31 Aug 08

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Your Priorities

MOMMASAM @MOMMASAM (1004) • United States 16 Aug 08

I believe we would all agree that our priorities need to remain flexible throughout our life. what was very important in our 20's, may be less so (or more so) in our 30's and 40's. and, even beyond ! what were your...

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colourless During past 12 years since I attended preliminary school, my priority is never else but score, I made great efforts to get the number 1.But now ,as a senior, my priority has changed ,I care more about my ablity, whether I can deal things in more effecient way...

17 Aug 08

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I dont like having people around all the time.

saundyl @saundyl (9783) • Canada 15 Aug 08

I'm someone who likes to live alone, likes peace and quiet and i tend to get rather grumpy when people are around me too much. usually around 3-4 days i start needing alone time or i get snappy with people. I go to hide however...

alone time

grumpy

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colourless The same feeling here! But I like it only when I am doing something important or something that needs to be focused on highly. Also When I was in bad mood or suffer deep pressure, I choose to be alone. As for home, I don't mind sharing a house with my...

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Tradition vs. Reality

victoriasparda @victoriasparda (161) • United States 9 Aug 08

I live in an area so full of tradition that you can't do anything without people telling you that you are doing it wrong, it got me wondering, just what good does tradition do in today's world? I've always seen tradition as a...

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colourless Tradition really doesn't matter so much to me. Sometimes I really forget about about it until people around me reminds that tommorow is a special day or tomorrow we should eat something special for the special custom Yet, to tell the truth, life should have a...

10 Aug 08

If you allowed your body

arkaf61 @arkaf61 (10881) • Canada 9 Aug 08

to set the cycle it preferred what would that be? Would you still wake up early and go to sleep early as well? would you sleep all night? WOuld your meals be structures and on schedule? In my case, it would adjust to the cycle I...

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colourless From childhood I get up early for both my parents don't have the habbit of sleeping until very late in the morning. You know though I get up early in the morning ,I never had a nap in the afternoon rather I felt energetic in the afternoon. But when the...

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If you adopted a child

maximax8 @maximax8 (31044) • United Kingdom 8 Aug 08

I would love to adopt a little girl. It wouldn't matter if she didn't look like me, that is she could have any skin color. However adopting a child in my home country the social workers choose an age range and don't let people...

adopt

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colourless I have held the idea of adopting many children ,for my mother said most of the adopted children have high sense of responsibility .You can depend more on them than on your own biological child , she said

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Do you have a weighing scale at home?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 1 Jun 08

I have, but that is only because it came as a freebie with my eye Massager. Having a weighing scale at home is somewhat an indicator of how...

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colourless I used to be concerned about my weight but now I don't because being happy is the most important thing to me . Ocassionally, I would go to supermarket to check my weight but the result never worries me ,hehe. It sounds that I am quite different from...

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What is your aim when debating???

kwenge @kwenge (2487) • Kenya 22 Mar 08

When you argue/debate/discuss, do you actually expect to change the other person's mind? And if you don't manage to change the person's mind do you feel like a failure or you accept it and move on?

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colourless I debate to find some kind of priority over others , and I also like showing off my knowledge Sometimes intense quarrels will be arised during arguementation, I then just keep silent, for I debate for fun rather than ending up with fierce anger. But one...

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Bananas Getting Expensive?

jillmalitz @jillmalitz (5131) • United States 18 Jun 08

We are all aware of the $4.00 gas in the US but did you realize that bananas are, long a cheap fruit, may soon hit $1.00 lb? Apples and oranges have risen in price even though they are grown in many places close to home. Ecuador...

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colourless Dear jillmalitz, that price rise of fruit also happens here in china. It really distrubs me ,for I am also a fruit lover. Sometimes, the money for two apples can affords me quite a full meal. Even so ,i often starve myself to buy some fruit,hehe!

19 Jun 08

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What would you think?

angiemac4444 @angemac23 (2003) • Canada 18 Jun 08

My boyfriend recently started going out to bars recently despite the fact that he has never done this and never really liked doing this. I dont have a problem with him going out to bars every now and again but he says that is to...

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colourless Seems that your bf doesn't want to go back to former life .Don't worry too much because it's normal that people change. Here i don't suggest you to do some research, for it may arise annoyance in his heart. If i were you, i would just wait while doing every...

19 Jun 08

Working, but wanting to stay Home

Rosekitty @Rosekitty (19368) • San Marcos, Texas 1 Apr 08

I've worked almost my whole life and just wish sometimes i could stay Home and take a Me day doing what i want..tending more to my Gardens or playing with the Grandbabies. Have you ever felt this way and whats stopping you from...

being lazy

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colourless Hello, rosekitty ! I must say that I can't confine myself to home for more than two weeks.Every time I had a vocation ,I just make efforts to go out and play with friends or I just get a part-time job to kill my time and make some pocket money as well. Yes,I...

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is your life full of tensions? here is the remedy to remove tension.

Chikana @Chikana (39) • India 30 Mar 08

Today's lifestyle is very fast and full of tensions. No body has time to be relaxed in this era. Here is the way or remedy which will Kick off your tensions away. name of the remedy is "LAUGHTER". Yes, I have started this...

laughter

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colourless This is really not a joke that can make serious women laugh, you know? Anyway, thanks for pointing out that today's lifestyle is full of tensions.I think we have to catch up with world pace, but we don't necessarily persue wealth at the expense of enjoying...

31 Mar 08

Dealing with people...

enchantedleppard @enchantedleppard (1541) • United States 30 Mar 08

People you may come across in your day to day life or even family members and friends can be overbearing at times. We have family friends that often come over on the weekends. They stay for hours and we find ourselves unable...

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colourless Your father is just an easygoing person, and perhaps that's why so many people come over and pay a visit. For me, I just like people around me, without them , I can be lonely.But when it happens that I have to set aside some personal time for myself, I just...

31 Mar 08

Did you child do this? Why?

ravinskye @ravinskye (8237) • United States 17 Mar 08

I have a friend who is having trouble with her daughter. Her daughter is 6. She is a sweet girl, very hyperactive and a little strange. The problem is, she eats things. Erasers, crayons, rocks...etc. Her teachers will report back...

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colourless Oh, I must tell you that don't worry too much ,for i, myself, would eat some things that you will feel ridiculaous.For example, when i was a kid ,I once found the rain-infused soil smelling so special and sweet that i took a bite into it and you know what, i...

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changing the world...

vanities @vanities (11395) • Davao, Philippines 13 Mar 08

i have read so many discussions on what happened now on the world we live in..such on environment(thinning of the ozone layer) and politics and so on and so forth...and we demand changes or solution on some problems that we had...

attitude

changing

world

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colourless I agree that if each one of us makes a little efforts to care about environment,the earth will be shouldering much less burden.But our strength is far from enough to change the world, as long as the government and the industrial companies haven't determined to...

13 Mar 08

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