colourless

@colourless (245)

China • Age 37

Joined myLot 18 years ago

oh,give us pleasure in the flowers today;and give us not to think so far away

Discussions (66)

colourless's Discussions

Help~~~looking for your reaction to the book A Doll's House

colourless @colourless (245) • China 24 May 12

I'm a chinese student, who are writing an essay about A Doll's House. I ask you favor sinserely. Our teacher did told us not to pick some materials on the internet, so my dear friends, if you can give your creative comments on...

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So many high apartment buildings, yet so little space for each person to live

colourless @colourless (245) • China 26 Dec 10

Today I accompany my bf to hunt for a place to live(I mean month-pay rent). You guess what, several couples share one big apartment. And the apartment has five rooms AND ONLY ONE washroom. Totally there are eight people living...

building

rent

space

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1 person

Is any body here learning American Literature, please respond to me!!!

colourless @colourless (245) • China 10 Jun 09

I chose Mark twain's work analysis as my thesis topic. I felt a little bit uneasy about it .So, my dear friends, if you major in American literature, Please contact me, thanks, I need your help!!!!

american literature

Women discourage women's ambition?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 6 Oct 08

My aunt, 32 years now, have a decent job.Yet, she never dropped her original dream-going on her study in PHD. Several years ago, she thought less of this dream just because her son was so little .Now,my nephew has grown up and...

discouragement

woman

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I am not abnormal to choose to be a single girl.

colourless @colourless (245) • China 18 Sep 08

I don't want a boyfriend even at my twenties-an valuale period to women. 1 It's not my appearance that makes me humble so that I don't want to be close to men.Actually, I once had got many pursuers. 2I just cherish the freedom i...

realationship

single girl

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Would you consider a child's suggestions seriously?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 18 Sep 08

Honestly, I rarely take my little brother's suggestions into consideration.Yet,sometimes ,When thinking backward, his advices can be of great value to me. Children really have another perspective to judge things,they are more...

children

difficulty

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Can an introversive person change to be more extroversive?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 14 Aug 08

I'm an introvert. I can say I wasn't like this when I was a child .I used to be brave and not afraid of speaking in the public. I used to be bold and outgoing and kept in contact with lots of my classmates .I used to be popular...

extrovert

introvert

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I earned 2000 yuan with hardly any effort!

colourless @colourless (245) • China 10 Aug 08

Yet, to tell the truth I didn't feel a little bit pleasant. You know it is such a boring job just sitting there receiving several calls everyday ,nothing else. I once whispered to myself that a lot more people are now out of...

job boring

What a shameful Chinese young man.unforgetable event in my life

colourless @colourless (245) • China 9 Aug 08

I never met this man before ,I promise . In the classroom, I alone study. Soon there he came in and volunteerly said hello to me. And for politeness ,I returned a smile .ALL this looks normal, right . But next you know he came...

shame

unforgetable

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2 people

Does it have bad effect on health if I drink a lot of coffee everyday

colourless @colourless (245) • China 8 Aug 08

I hear that drinking too much coffee will not be healthy to body but I don't know why . Is that the special substance that it contains or some other reasons ? Do you drink coffee to activate your spirit when you feel sleepy

coffee

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1 person

Praise, I like it.

colourless @colourless (245) • China 19 Jun 08

Do you often praise people around you, say your parents or close friends? Frankly, i didn't have the habbit of finding praise points in others. But ,as i find the value and significance of praise, since my friends ,frome time to...

good

praise

trait

Eat to be healthy or to be happy?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 23 May 08

I am quite cautious about my food and health. Actually, I even ate according a healthy food pamphlet. People who know me here should know I eat to be healthy. This sometimes also annoys myself, for i also love those so-called junk...

eating healthy happy

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1 person

Better not praise kids as "you are smart"!!!!!

colourless @colourless (245) • China 22 May 08

Study shows that children who are praised as smart are less likely to make efforts in achieving things , for they know they are smart and success is something that comes by right ,and that only stupid kids are making...

effort

praise smart

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Mobilephone, I just can't leave you at home!

colourless @colourless (245) • China 7 Apr 08

I don't know whether it is only my habbit or not that everytime I went out to play,I never have failed to bring my precious mobilephone with me.Even though I know nobody will call me later ,I just can't leave it at home .It has...

communication

mobilephone

Does smoking really make people thinner?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 25 Mar 08

I watched a television show the other day.It told that smoking can be a way to keep body thin. I really wonder if it is true .If it really is, why not give it a try ? But at second thought , i wonder how many negative effects it...

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4 people

She is an old friend, but i just froget her name!

colourless @colourless (245) • China 24 Mar 08

Oh, my god, has it ever happpened to you that when you meet so close a friend of yours ,you just forget her name,and keep silent for a long time because of guiltiness? If it were you, how will you deal with it to not offend your...

forget

name

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What's your reaction time to others' call, do you response instantly?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 19 Mar 08

Strangely enough, I never react to others' call instantly.It's not because my brain functions slowly but it seems to me that i tend to wait for several seconds to confirm sth or to calm myself before i turn my head to the person...

response

time

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women ,attention! talk more, live longer!

colourless @colourless (245) • China 19 Mar 08

A ten-year study shows that when women and men argued, one fourth women held back their emotions while one third men do like that.And it also shows that the women who held back their emotions are more likely to get disease than...

emotion

release

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Is personal space important to you? why or why not?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 18 Mar 08

Oh, nowadays the manners of people decline to such a degree that on the road, when a driver nearly bumped into you, while no apology was muttered out.Plus ,in elevators, people are wedging themselves in just before the doors...

personal space

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Do you like making comparison between yourself and others?

colourless @colourless (245) • China 17 Mar 08

Usually,I find myself making comparisons with others.But,to tell the truth,it never makes me pleasant except when i compare myself with those who leads a more miserable life or who has some kind of disability. Perhaps, this is...

comparison

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