Treat Him Like a KING!!!

As long as he's not yelling at you to submit to him... and making you do everything and not even offering to help.... it's fine. It is important to show appreciation to your loved ones... and cooking dinner for them while they relax is a wonderful sign of appreciation. Hopefully though it's two sided and every now and then he treats YOU like a QUEEN!! Hehe... don't worry about it :) You sound like you two are doing great!

You sound like it made you happy, and therefore in my eyes, it is good. What makes you happy, as long as it isn't harming anyone else, is good. That is what I believe. :) I would never tell my husband he is my king. I am simply not that sort of person. I would never call anyone any title that implies authority over me, unless perhaps it's part of a bedroom activity... even then it would have to be clearly part of a "game" and not real. However, I know that my life and other people's lives are not the same, and that my happiness and the happiness of others is different as well. So I think that if you were happy calling your husband your king, and treating him as such, then it wonderful for you. ;)

Hi Ayou, I do that to my hubby all the time, and he does it to me. We both cook at times. And sometimes we cook together. I tell him that when hes cooking I dont like feeling like hes waiting on me hand and foot, cos he will bring my drink, my plate and anything else to me at. His response is that hes not waiting on me hand and foot, hes simply doing something so I can relax and not have to deal with cooking all the time. I think its just something you do because you love him. You want to make his life a little more simple and relaxing. So I dont think you sound submissive at all. Sounds like your in love! Bay Lay Gray xx

Hey there ayou. This is a great discussion you have started. I for one am "Queen of the doublewide trailer". I treat my husband like a King every chance I get and he returns the favor. He is also good at reminding the kids that they need to notice all the things I do for them. I don't think I would feel as good about being a stay at home Mom and Wife otherwise. My husband's ringer on his cell phone is the country song "Lucky Man" if you haven't heard it, try and listen to it. He says it is the exact story of his life with me and the kids.

Its better than saying "Your just in my way! Move!" LOL Not submissive just nice and caring. Does he help with other jobs around the house?

Is it one sided? My hubby is fantastic. Wonderful etc. I know for my part I sometimes fall short of his Kingly treatment. But there are more than a few days I am teated as the queen. So if it's give and take for both, then no not submissive. But if you are the only one giving the royal treatment, could be yes.

Wow!! Way to go, and I am sure you made your husband very proud of you, and you made him feel special as well. There is nothing wrong with telling your husband that. It just shows him you Love him, and are just wanting him to relax after a hard days work. If you are feeling like you want to do it by yourself there is nothing wrong with this. Maybe the only reason some might disagree with you, is they might think then your husband might end up getting lazy, and not want to help you anymore. But if you keep this topic open ended, then he will respect you but be there when you need him. So for me, I feel you are doing nothing wrong.

Hey it's refreshing to find a wife who appreciates and adores her husband. I've seen so many discussions where the wives hate their husbands. I have found that women intentionally deprive their man of the credit that he has earned. I don't know why they do that. You're not one of them.

Geez, I think you are every guy's ideal wife! You are so so sweet! Telling him it is ok to relax while you slog it out around the house. As long as your husband loves and appreciates you, keep it going. =)))

I think that as long as he treats you like a queen, you should treat him as a king. I do this as well. My husband is very good to me, but he knows better than to ask me to help with dinner hahaha! He is terrible in the kitchen unless he is baking. I don't think you are being too much. I think it is fabulous that your husband and you have such a strong and loving relationship!

Well, I would like to say that it's a good thing but unfortunately my best friend was like that and her husband was the perfect mate. Or rather...it appeared he was. Turns out he was cheating on her and was into some things that were horrible. Now, that's not to say that it means your husband will cheat if you t reat him like a king. I do advocate an equal relationship on the whole. I've often wondered if he took her for granted because she treated him so well. Sad to think...but you never know?

you are really a good girl.i haven't done this for my boyfriend.^^

My ex husband and I used to either cook together and wash up together or I would cook and he would wash up. We always worked together around the house.

I truly believe that if you treat your husband like a king that you will reap the rewards. Men love to be pampered and if you make a fuss of them they will treat you like a queen. This works every time, on the condition, that he's a nice guy in the first place and doesn't ever verbally or physically abuse you.

It is the happiness that counts.If you are happy with your life who are we to advice you.If you scheme and plan things in life. it may get bitter at times.The best we can do is not to get victimized.

Well it seems like he does for you too, so I say this is pretty good. You aren't being too submissive and he's not being too submissive, there is relative balance. Its too bad I've encountered women who wouldn't do what you described, not even a fraction of it. Then I have friends, some family and people I know who can vouch for the claim. Some women want to be treated by like a princess and actually have the society programming to back them up, all while treating the guy lower than ye olde peasant. The worst part of it is when the guy does everything she wants and she cries "its still not enough" or whatever she can throw at him. Ah anyways, sorry for the rant. I think your story is very good. Treating each other very nicely and comforting each other, I rarely see this in relationships.

I am sure he loves it when you said such a thing. It is good sometimes to tell you man something nice , because his ego would grow, but don't do it too many times, it is not healthy. Also I guess it depends on in what situation you two are. If he is working all day and you are home, i think he has right to relax and be treating like a King. Also it is nice from him to ask, if you need a help.

I guess that sometimes we need to treat our husbands like a king. It's a way of pampering them and it's a sweet act. It's like adding a spark to the relationship. However, this does not happen most of the time since responsible husbands also takes part in doing household chores. And there are times also, like my husband does to me, that wives are given a day off and husbands take charge of evrything at home. It's like treating us like a queen too.

LOL. Whatever makes you happy. In my house, it is my husband who does all the cooking and care of our girls. I get the fun stuff! lol. Like changing nappies and cleaning poo off clothes and furniture! lol. I do think though, he might appreciate his food more if he helps with things like peeling potatoes! lol. That is if you are game to let him in the kitchen! lol.

i think that's OK!! just 'cause you love him so much! but you can't always treat him so ,that will make him think that you should do ! just sometimes ,like he is busy and tired ````