Compulsive Hoarding
@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
United States
November 15, 2007 7:58pm CST
Today's Oprah show was about people who are compulsive hoarders. When you watch the show you sit there in disbelief and wonder how a person can get to such a place. I was very interested in watching this show because a few of the clients I work with are just that. They keep anything and everything. The person that was a guest on the show had a house full of garbage and things that she collected. You could barely walk through her home.
Are you a hoarder? Take the Hoarding test and find out:
http://www2.oprah.com/foodhome/home/repair/home_20071115_hoard_assess.jhtml?promocode=HP15
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
16 Nov 07
I guess in a way it's not too dissimiliar from OCD. I used to be a hoarder of paperwork I was always scared that if I didn't keep accounts, statements etc from the year dot I would have the taxman or worse after me and I would need every single document to do with finance otherwise I'd be fined. Although that is minor compared to some people as to what they hoard! My mum always said if you don't clear out your old stuff you won't have any room for the new.
@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
16 Nov 07
I have a client that I tell that too as well. She keeps adding to her piles of magazines and other periodicals. With encouragement she will "donate" the magazines. I still have 2 trash bags filled with magazines that she donated. Now to find a place to donate them to. I feared if I put them in the trash, she would retrieve them.
@sweetgirl_k1 (3972)
• United States
16 Nov 07
I'm not a hoarder. My husband likes to keep anything and everything but I don't let him. He knows I can't stand that and I'll just go throw it away. I think I have a problem with being too organized and throwing stuff away or giving stuff away that we don't need and don't use. I know that hoarding it's a serious problem for some people though. I did watch the oprah show yesterday and I just couldn't believe how her and her husband could live like that. They had just a section of the bed to sleep in and they couldn't even hardly see the tv because of all the stuff. They only had a small pathway to walk through the house. I felt so sorry for that lady. And then when they were cleaning up for her she was just so emotional. It took a lot for her to let people come in and clean all that up. It was sad too because she said one of her grandchildren was 12 years old and she had not been in her grandmother's house for 6 years and the other grandchild was 5 years old and had never been in that house. She said she was embarrased for friends and family to come in her house. That's just so sad. I'm glad she let them come in and clean it up for her and she says she isn't going to go shopping everyday anymore.
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@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
16 Nov 07
She really was emotional over the entire ordeal. The professional organizer was quite helpful. He was firm with her and that is what she needed, someone to be her guide. Hopefully she will be able to maintain the home after it is cleaned.
@villageanne (8553)
• United States
16 Nov 07
I am in the process of sorting through boxes of things that I have kept for years. Some of them are over 25 years old. I am trying to get rid of it but it is hard. I am not a bad hoarder but yes I do keep treasures. :)
@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
16 Nov 07
I have gotten my clutter down to a few boxes that I store in the closet and shed. My grand plan is to sell much of the craft stuff I have collected and no longer use. My Mother wanted me to give it to her. Because much of my hoarding instincts came from her, I told her that I wouldn't be giving her more stuff and she would one day thank me for that.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
16 Nov 07
I have a friend who is a compulsive hoarder. I'm actually really proud right now of her, because she is taking steps to free herself from this. I feel inspired and lucky to have such a strong friend. :)
That test was interesting for me. I got a very low score for acquiring things, but a high score for clutter and difficulty discarding. I really don't feel the need to buy things I won't use, but once I have something I have a hard time getting rid of it, and I do have a lot of clutter. I've always just figured it had to be with being overly sentimental, and always keeping things because of those sorts of attachments. Interesting.
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@packgirl4 (402)
• United States
16 Nov 07
Same way at my grandma's house. My uncles have had stuff there taking up her garage for probably 20 years. So she can't even park in her own garage in the winter. I told her to tell them a date. and if they don't pick it up by then it goes to the dump!
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@grasshopping (62)
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16 Nov 07
no, i will could defintely say that i am not really a noarder. sometimes people here are really angry with me since i really like to throw old stuffs. sometimes when we have lots of softdrink bottles i give them away to some recycling areas for free. since those recyclingn areas will pay you for every plastic bottles and some soda bottles. i will just happily give them my garbages. sometimes old clothes i throw them away since it just clutter my cabinet and place. i really don't think that i will need those garbages. i am not that poor to keep those old things. i wish that some people will not really hoard garbages.
i remember my grandmother when still alive liked to hoard things. her home was really full of garbages. and i really can't convince her to clean her place. i really don't know why she liked hoarding that much. and i now know cause i really read your discussons. so some people really are like that and i didn't know until i read this. now i understand my grandmother why she was like that. i really felt sorry for my grandmother back then. because her place was full of junks and garbages. i really tried to clean her place but she would not let me.
maybe there are some things that are telling them behind their mind to hoard some thing. maybe they were deprived of some things before. i tried to care for my grandmother too. i was really sad when she passed away. i felt that i was not able to take care of her well. until i have some sadness that i feel inside my heart. i had wished many times that i could bring back the times and will care for her more and that i will be able to show her my love and will be able to give her more decent place to live. since i really don't have my own home, that's why i can't really take her with me when she was alone. though she was with some relatives near her.
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
16 Nov 07
I wouldn't say that I am a compulsive horder. I tend to throw out a lot, or give it away.
My first husband was a compulsive horder. You should have seen his shed. It was a double size garage, & it was absolutely full, mostly of rubbish. One day, we got a man who collects rubbish to go through it, with us. He had a trailer & filled it twice with my hubbys old, worn pout belongings.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
16 Nov 07
I didn't need to take the test to discover that I am a hoarder, Elusive, but I feel better knowing that I fit into the moderate range. Even I will begin to throw out things when they begin to pile up. I guess my desire for space counteracts my desire to accumulate things.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
16 Nov 07
Nope I'm the opposite. I hate clutter or mess...LOL. I periodically for instance will spend some time going through old papers that has accumulated to see what I can trash out. But my neighbor. Yikes she IS the classic hoarder. She's been in trouble before, and has been threatened with eviction as her apartment was deemed not only a health hazard but fire hazard as well. She just can't throw things out and has garbage all over the place. Years ago, my mother used to volunteer me to help clean her apartment (gee, thanks) but it's always been a lost cause. Also I just couldn't help her out anymore as every time I'd be in her apartment to help clean I'd get asthma attacks...I don't have asthma! The apartment winds up looking exactly the same within a few months. Also, one time the Dept of Health came in to do a clean sweep of the place and they must have hauled out about thirty lawn sized trash bags of garbage from her place...and gee, guess what, it looks the same again.
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@candytang (341)
• China
16 Nov 07
I think I am not a hoarder,and I always throw the unuse things in order to make my room useful.
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@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
I think hoarding is a psychological problems, they need to consult a psychiatrist to deal with the mental condition. This is only seen in severe cases, others are not that serious. In fact, some people collect things out of their passion, either expensive or cheap.