Is there such a thing as Faithfulness in Love now?

unfortunatel, faithfulness in love is almost extinct now.. Not just in guys but in gals too.. because we humans are changing with the world.. Alot of ple are thinking that y should we give up the whole apple garden for just 1 sweet apple :) when we have that thinking, faithfulness is gone.. ple will be finding back ups everywhere in case their actual relationship fails them :( this is just so sadz :(

Maybe he said 90% based on those that he knows. I have a lot of male friends too but remained faithful to their girlfriends'/spouse for years. (Well they tend to look when they see a beautiful lady but that's all). I hate hearing unfaithful boyfriends, but i hate it most when I hear unfaithful husbands! imagine, they are already married and still afford to have another woman...the heck! If they werent sure that they are going to be faithful 100% to the woman they married then they shouldnt have been married in the first place. I think those guys that are unfaithful, they really dont love their partner at all. Just my cent :)

I can't stand it personally, I think it's one of the most heinou acts out there,if you're not with the person you love then don't be with them.I am lucky enough to be with the bestest girl in the world for me, and I would never betray her trust.You're right about faithfulness, how could it not be there, if you're with the only one for you?It's a given.

I believed that man by nature is polygamous but this doesn't justify their actions of infidelity. I too believe in the law of karma so i guess, whatever they do that will hurt somebody will just be thrown back at their faces sooner or later. As the saying goes, "Do not do unto others what you don't want others to do unto you."

I don't think that 90% of men would cheat if they were given the opportunity. But that's my opinion. I think that when people truly love each other they can be faithful to one another. There are men and women that don't know the meaning of the word faithful though. But I would disagree with it being 90%. I think that it's always been that way though. I don't think it's changed. I think back then people just didn't talk about it they just forgave the person and went on about their daily life. Have a great day.

yeah , my male friends always talk with on that case ,and i know most men cannot reject any tempt . though he is loving you ,he will always go into infidelity.in their minds ,love is not everything and he can not always be with you one ,he needs more and other things that you cannot give ,maybe they think so . haha```however ,i always think there is true love and faithfulness. so ,don't lose your heart.

I know men who are faithful, very faithful to the women that they love, and I know men who are not. Just like I know women who are not faithful, and women who are. It all depends on the person. Women can have just as many men as men can have just as many women. To some people, love is just a game.

Hi poohgal, Now there is no more human values. Love become an arrangement or adjustment.for a certain specific period.now there is sincerity, faithfulness is hard to find in todays love.

I think you are quite right in your observation. There is no faithfulness in love. I think its most from the part of the men than women. There are so much cases of infidelity, that its really hard to believe. I have stopped beileving in people althoughter.

oh, gee...i think you are the kind of woman who can give birth to a million babies if given a chance...which is great coz your so very productive.

I am just as appalled by the comment as you poohgal. Hmm... looks like this friend of yours is not ready to go into a commitment yet. When a person commits into the sanctity of marriage, there is no looking back to his chivalrous days where he can play the role of the Casanova to break as many young girls heart as he can. Once he puts on the ring and makes the vows, he better be prepared to go into this relationship that he just committed to with all his heart. For two strangers to come together and later become man and wife, the effort and time invested into that relationship is really tremendous. Not to be taken lightly, no matter how the opportunity or chance to deviate from it were to come about! In fact, going to marriage, in my opinion, it is sacred! These people who have more than one girlfriend or boyfriend does not see the value of the gift that was given to them. It is never easy for someone to let his/her guard down enough to trust that person to give their love to them. This gift should be treasured at all cost! Sigh~~~~ it is so sad to hear of people taking the vows of marriage or devotion so lightly. Guess I am taking my leaves from the book of the old school. I really do not understand the thinking and mindset of the generation today. Things could be so simple, why make it so complicated with multiple relationships? Worst of all, have them all running at the same time! The effort to juggle the expectations of each relationship, and keeping them exclusive to each other is so exhausting! What are these people thinking?

Are you sure that was a "male" friend Poohgal? I'd get some tests done. 'more than 90% of attached men will go into infidelity if given the opportunity and chance' BS. I want to see the stat where he got this. If he didn't get the stat from anywhere, why so high a percentage? As for your topic, there is some faithfulness in love but now I've noticed a downward trend. It's been going on with existing and newer couples. I could have a field day on this (I think I've had plenty on mylot regarding this subject). And last but not least, I know women with multiple boyfriends (well sometimes they are called that, others are really stand-bys or worse, suckers).

Today many of us have lost faith coz youths believe more in change...as some one rightly said "Change is the law of life"...They have been following this very desperately n thus creating a mess of relations...This change has brought a lot of inconsistency among them n their relation...i agree Faithfulness is the key to successful relation wether b it love or friendship...which most of us fail to achieve due to some reasons or other...Taking the issue of having multiple partners,definitely it has the root cause in infidelity...

Yes, there is faithfulness in love still. Both my husband and I have had partners cheat, we know what it does and how much it hurts. It might sound naive and all, but I know that my husband is among the 10% of the men you were talking about. I love being able to trust somebody so much, and soon we have our first anniversary! :D

I sure hope it's not 90% of attached men! I couldn't possibly deal with a man who couldn't be faithful and I couldn't remain in a relationship if I couldn't be. I know some people may consider me to be extremely old-fashioned but in my opinion if you love someone you have no need or desire to cheat. I also feel bad for the 2 girls who are unaware their boyfriend is two-timing both of them but in many cases the "other woman" or "other man" is almost as guilty as the one doing the cheating. Personally, I wouldn't want to settle for someone else's man. Annie

Yes, there is still faithfullness in love, and I can say that coz im one of those who is faithfulwhen it comes to love and loving someone. I have been on an eight year relationship and I can say that i have been very faithful and will be very faithful. I have no plans of hurting the one I love and I will love him with all my heart. I know my boy friend is also very faithful like me and loves me more than I love him.

Maybe it isn't existing in the real world.But I believe there is.It's not a way to deceive myself to feel happy.It's the way to live a better life.As you said,Faithfulness is one of the most important in love and if a love relationship does not have faithfulness,it's not love.To me ,the essence of ture love is faithfulness.How can we expect true love if there isn't such a thing as faithfulness in love now.I have no choices but to believe.

Hey there poohgal. I'm married to a VERY good looking man. I know he could cheat on me very easily. We have been together for almost 7 years and he still won't go anywhere without me. He is home from work every single day right on time. I know, he could take off time from work to cheat on me but, that's not possible either because we email back and forth every day. He even emails me when he is leaving work and coming home. I really don't think he would ever cheat on me.

My ex husband cheated on me when our son was abot 2 1/2 months old. Before him and even after my marriage ended pretty much every man I dated cheated on me. What gets to me apart from the cheating is the lies. I know there are some really nice guys out there(please send me one). But it's not always men you are the ones in trouble because we have to remember that men have to carry on with someone and that someone is usually a female.

in answer to the question, yes, there is a such thing as faithfulness and love. it is very few and far between because it seems like cheating is the in-thing.