Heartbroken...

@atchmon (140)
Philippines
November 19, 2007 6:29am CST
I am in love with a girl.. a friend of mine... but she really does not notice me... its really depressing.. but I would just like to write my feelings... :(
8 responses
• Malaysia
19 Nov 07
Hei,young boy,how are you now?Do you know your "secret lover's "favourite?You has the right to express your feeling but that girl may has the right to take determination,am I right?Show your ability which is admired by that girl and ton't force her to love you if she doesn't respoond:(
@atchmon (140)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
Hehe.. Tnx for the comment.. I'll do my best..
@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
28 Nov 07
Is she shy and maybe has feelings for you and but is too shy to say anything. Sometimes it's better not to risk a friendship. If it's meant to happen it will. Time will tell.
@p0wcheee (97)
• Philippines
25 Nov 07
awwww. just hang in there, atchmon! feel it, but don't let it sit for too long. for all you know, she's just waiting for you to make the first move. or... the point is, just say it eventually! :D
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
25 Nov 07
It happens man. You should write down what you are feeling though, it helps you let it out. Thats a start. There is more to it, but different approaches are needed. You could confess to her, but as someone pointed out it could disrupt the friendship. If you don't do this, you may end up wondering "what if?". The worse scenario will be if she's out with other people, or talking about who she is dating to you. It means you really are stuck in the friend zone. In order to escape, you have to establish you are not the one to talk to about her relationships with other guys. She can talk to you about other problems in her life, since you are still friends, but you cannot accept that you are the "relationship friendly ear", that is if you want to be more than just her friend. No matter what you choose, I wish you the best.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
I am the same sa you are atchmon.... You will notice that in the latest discussions that I have started... I write my feelings too.... :(
• China
19 Nov 07
Well, this thing happens all the time. You will certainly meet some wrong people before meeting the right one. so don't be depressed, you will meet the one who really loves you. Good luck!
• India
19 Nov 07
Why should you be depressed for a girl who did not bothered to notice your love. She is only your friend. Keep that friendship in tackt. Don't write any letters and hurt her.Love alone is not only thing in life, it is only part of your life. You can get love from anybody i.e even after marriage from your wife. But your life, you have to take care. You have got so many responsibilities in your life to carry out. If you depressed for this one side love, Whole of your life which you have to lead happily will go waste. Forget about her and start going ahead in your life. Don't waste you time. You will not get back it.O.K... Good Luck.
@Moliliuzu (140)
• China
19 Nov 07
hey,guy!Cheer up! If you really care about her ignoring of your love,just tell her bravely.If not,keep it in secret.It's understandable for you to feel down now.But don't immerse in that bad emotion for a long time.Otherwise this beautiful love may ruin your life.