where is true love?
@rocking_dziahs (51)
India
November 19, 2007 11:00am CST
hey people,
This topic is always discussed.
So this is from my perspective. I really am curious to know where true love has gone.
one of my friends loved a girl, who loved him equally.
but suddenly they broke up, and he got upset and asked me to talk to her.
When i asked her, she said she decided rashly when she proposed to her(yup..she was the first to make the move). now my friend has been sad for days..he keeps mourning about her to me..i can't do anything but ask him to forget her..but he finds it difficult to do it.
Y the f**k did she love him, when she wanted to leave him?? why are some of these girls like this??
Don't mistake me girls..i ain't a chauvinistic guy, but i really hate some girls for such an attitude.
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12 responses
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
19 Nov 07
True love is still around. My boyfriend and I fell in love at first sight. We have been together for nearly two months now. We are madly in love with each other. Believe it or not, I would die for my boyfriend because that is how much I love him. I have already gone through a lot just to be with him, and I am never going to give up on him. I love him that much.
Do take into consideration as well that people can fall out of love, and people like to mess with love. To those people I say get your priorities straight before falling in love and be honest with people, do not lie. If you are not in love with that person anymore, then do yourself and everyone else a favor and do not stay with him.
@rocking_dziahs (51)
• India
20 Nov 07
i really hope that you get married to your boyfriend, and that no problems arise between you two..
:-)
have a smooth life my friend..
@cdv102 (132)
• United States
19 Nov 07
Well, all I can say is that I guess at least it's better that she figured out that she didn't want to be with him before they got married. I'm sure a divorce would have been way harder for your friend to deal with. But as a woman, I can't really speak to why she did this, and why some girls seem to be so flaky. I'm usually on the other side of things, dealing with men who have commitment issues and tell you one thing, but then do another. Since all I want is to find someone I love who loves me, I truly don't understand why people are so quick to run from it when they find it.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
20 Nov 07
i do believe that some relationships are not forever. people may come and go in our lives. some are permanent and some are not.
so, whenever i go to a relationship, i try to give my very best. i show my love and nurture the relationship to the best i can. but i don't really expect for that person to stay in my life forever. it's like when i get into a relationship, i try to prepare myself for the worst of worsts... to be dumped and be left by the one you truly love.
it's not that i believe that my boyfriend will one day leave me. i just hope he won't. i never lose hope. it's important. hope is just like believing in the relationship you two have. and since it's just hope, it might not always happen. people do change and we can't erase that fact.
it's okey for your friend to feel bad about what happened. it's natural to feel that way. just be there for him. he needs a true friend like you.
anne
@maapav (729)
• India
20 Nov 07
Read the following story-
Man asked god “ Whats Luv?”
God said “ Go to the Garden and get the most beautiful flower.”
Man went to the garden and returned empty handed.
He told god that he found the most beautiful flower but kept looking for a better one. He then realized that he ignored the best, so he went back to look for it but couldn’t find it.
God said “Son this is love. You don’t value it when we have it but repent when we lose it.”
NEVER CRY FOR ANY RELATION IN LIFE
BECAUSE FOR THE ONE WHOM YOU CRY
DOES NOT DESERVE YOUR TEARS
AND THE ONE WHO DESERVES
WILL NEVER LET YOU CRY......... ........
Tell your friend that she doesnot deserve his tears.
@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
19 Nov 07
I don't wish to sound hard-hearted but maybe the lady broke up because the relationship didn't satisfy her, and why stay in a relationship that doesn't satisfy you? Or maybe she is a lady who loves variety and feels a thrill while flitting from relationship to relationship. I honestly can't make any powerful statements because I don't know the girl and I don't know the guy and I don't know all the facts of the case. I responded to this discussion because you mentioned love. I have a very simple idea of love. Love is too vast and too unlimited to be limited to a single person. When you say that you are in love with someone, you wrap yourself up in a single person and almost forget the rest of the world. I don't think this is love; some sort of chemical reaction maybe but not love. Love is divine and it encompasses the whole world. When you are content and at peace with the whole world, when you have no issues with anyone or anything, then you are experiencing love. Another person has nothing to do with it. I am sure your friend will overcome his problems. Convey my warm regards to him!
@ilsksaa11 (36)
• China
20 Nov 07
i am very agree with you!some girls seem to be so hardhearted!i have seen a girl who dumpt her boyfriend saying even nothing just like they were strangers!for she had falt in love with another boy who had send her a "happy birthday" message at 0:00 on her birthday,which her boyfriend did too!!! she even told toher boyfriend that she was so moved by that guy*s message!i have seem how much her boyfried immolate to her!but she ignored it,when they break up,she even did not considered her boyfried*s feeling!
@nishurs (582)
• India
20 Nov 07
hey girls are like this only dude. they dont have the stable mind to be confident about themselves and what they do and they just take the hasty decisions which hurts the counterpart which hurts them and then say a sorry or blame the boys that they were the one who was responsible for the disaster
@gorgeousdreamer (1034)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
Did you ask her the reason why did she break up with your friend? There might a be a valid reason why she did it. It's really hard to move on when you really love the person. And it's also hard to give advice.
@vikceo (1301)
• India
20 Nov 07
True love i think love is somethind that is not measured in kgs or lts.however also purity cannot be defined.But for me love is a belongingness, or feeling about a person. The person whom you love mean to you so much that he means wotld to you.However love is not one side and at first sight. Love relationships are hard to manage. people do commit in early stages of love but once they say they are in love the exam starts for then.that wat we call compatability.So who can maintain the relationship longlasting with all passion and feel i think that is true love.
@fanji008 (775)
• China
20 Nov 07
Hi,there! I do think true love really exists.I can only say sometimes we doubt about it cause we come across some problems of the relationship. Just as what you said,some girls are like that,but not every one. Many girls really value love and try all they can do to make the relationship better for both of the two.They treat it very seriously and always hold a good attitude towards it. Maybe there're some misunderstandings between your friend and his gf.Maybe they need to have another open talk with each other in order to solve the problem. Or maybe they don't fit each other. If this relationship doesn't work for your friend,I hope he can find another good one and proper one:) Best wishes and good luck for him. Have a nice day!
@sunwei111 (78)
• China
20 Nov 07
maybe your friend didn't find the ture his another half. I think that it maybe good thing for him. Tell him, losing girl maybe not so bas as he thought. He have another chance to pursue the other girl, Hope he can find the girl who love him really.
@hhhxxccc (222)
• United States
19 Nov 07
True Love is out there. Don't search around looking for it, it will come to you. Meanwhile focus on establishing relationships with your friends and fellow employees(or other people close to you). Our current society, makes it appear as though "you are a failure in life, if your not in an amazing relationship"