So whats so great about boobs?
By II2aTee
@II2aTee (2559)
United States
November 20, 2007 3:52pm CST
As a gay man, I have always wondered why straight guys are so obsessed with female breasts. I have many female firends, and I have touched thier boobs out of pure curiosity, and they have answered my questions but Im interested in opening this up to the mylot community.
All you straight guys, and my lesbian buddies - what is so great about boobs?
What makes a pair of boobs a "good rack" or a "good set" or whatever the case may be.
What do you think makes one set of boods good, but another one bad?
I myself have noticed there are many different kinds. Some are big and jiggly, others hang low, some come to a point like a ski slope, and some have really big nipples.
What do you like, and why?
Lets have fun with this one :)
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13 responses
@BayleighGray (4334)
• United States
20 Nov 07
LOL Hi Tee!!
I have a great set of boobs! I love my boobs! I think they are great because they are perfect and soft and they fit in the hands of my hubby like a glove!
I wish I knew why there is such an obsession with them. I mean, I find myself staring at a nice pair and I wouldnt consider myself bi, but I have been with women in my past. Sometimes I feel perverted, I cant stop looking.
Lets take New York for instance, she got a new pair, they are huge!! I dont like them that big, and would never do that, but I cant stop looking at them. Maybe its the way they jiggle, or the shape of them. They do tend to make or break a woman as far as her appearance goes. Just one of lifes little mysteries, so maybe here the truth will be revealed!!
Bay Lay Gray xx
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@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
20 Nov 07
You watch I love New York too!?!? I love that show!!!
And yes, she is very open about her boob job. They are so big that they make her dresses look wicked tight - and alot of the time the are spilling out over the top of her dress. It looks like shes trying to stuff toothpaste back into the tube or something.
Ill bet you have lovely boobs! .... I heard a rumor.... you have 3 of them???
HAHA Kidding :p
Tell me... do you like to flaunt them, or do you like leaving it up to peoples imagination what they are like?
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@BayleighGray (4334)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Hehe you wanna see Lecanis!?!? *wink* If it will put a smile on your face, Ill give it a shot! xx
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@wiccania (3360)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Now that's interesting...
You're the first gay man I've ever encountered who didn't love boobs. Seriously, I've been around gay men all of my life. My brother is gay, many of my closest friends are gay men... and every single one of them (ok, not my brother) absolutely loves to touch my boobs. I was de-topped in a drag bar a few years ago in the middle of a show by the MC which led to just about every gay man in the bar grabbing a feel when I was on my way to the bathroom. I've even gotten some very not-gay propositions involving my boobs from gay men.
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@wiccania (3360)
• United States
21 Nov 07
I consider it more curse than blessing. Especially since I'm on 4'10" which makes it look really bizarre. If I had a dime everytime someone asked me how I stand without falling over, I'd be rich. I don't have to get my bras custom made, most shops that specialize in bras carry my size and larger. There are also a few places online that sell them.
The back pain is killer. I can't remember the last time I had 3 days in a row without back pain.
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@Monkeyrose (2840)
• Canada
21 Nov 07
Wow no wonder you're told you have a nice rack. A cup size G is very Large. I didn't even know that was a size. Do you have to get your bras custom made? Do you find that you have back problems from them?
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
21 Nov 07
Haha! I like lots of different kinds of boobs actually. Small perky ones can be very cute, and big ones can be fun to play with, or make nice pillows. My boobs are kinda medium-sized I guess, and I'm kinda fond of them. They have pretty-colored nipples too. :)
I've dated both women with big boobs and women with hardly any boobs at all, so I can't say there's just one size I prefer. But I am kinda picky when it comes to shapes of nipples, and colors compared to skin color and stuff. :P
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@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Hmmm.. so nipple color also comes into play. How interesting!
Heres a though - have you ever seen/touched a nipple with a peircing? I have.. my BF at the time liked it when I pulled on the ring. It kinda weirded me out because Im not the same... my nipples are very sensitive and ticklish... so i have to be sure to tell my partner they are off limits LOL!
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@BayleighGray (4334)
• United States
21 Nov 07
lol I should have said to you up top, Show me yours, Ill show you mine! I think I have great nipples. *grin*
Bay xx
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@copperkitten (3473)
• United States
20 Nov 07
You know Im not so sure. I am a woman and have them. I really would rather not. I hate when you talk to a man and all they can do is stare at them. I didnt have huge ones untill I had kids. Now they are a DD and get in the way. LOL. I think they make a woman look curvy which men like. And yes there are all kinds. I like nice normal boobs. Not to perky, not saggy, shaped well and not to huge.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
25 Nov 07
I will agree Copper some men stare far too much, but remember some of it is genetic/primative leftover. And also here another point I have to put yours in comparison. I hate it when you talk to or even encounter a woman and all they do is stare with a twisted look on their face or they whisper and snicker to someone else. Women are also capable of staring down more shall I say "photogenic" men, easy. I see that a lot of times too, in addition to my other example.
And I'll end with the final obvious point. Plenty of men do like curvy, but there are also plenty of other men who just like the physical form (along with the person the woman is). Hopefully people will consider that.
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
21 Nov 07
My boyfriend says that it's mostly because it's a sign of femininity and it just attracts him sexually to a woman. He said that it's not the only thing that men are interested in, but they're nice to play around with.
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@Monkeyrose (2840)
• Canada
21 Nov 07
haha this is funny. boobs are great because we are naturally made to be attracted to them if we are attracted to the female form.
I saw a show on the learning channel once. It said that some baboons and apes have enlarged buttocks to attract their mates. As we grew up right we needed to have something to attract from the front so boobs naturally grew to take on the effect that the butt used to have.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
21 Nov 07
I am a straight woman but I never figured out why boobs were such a great things to look at or feel or anything. the only thing they are good for is to feed babies if ya cant do that they are in the way. Always felt like this too .
and now that I Was told I had cancer I went right to the Doctor and told him cut both off dont want to be loopsided or have a chance that the cancer will come back.
It has been 2 months now since the operation and still heaing up lost arm movement am working on that but I see no difference in me or my thought since they are gone. . now can you tell me what good or they or what anyone sees in looking or touching them
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@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Lakota, I am so sorry to hear about your illness... you will deffinatly be in my thoughs.
And you are not alone in seeing them as annoying. My best friend hates hers.. whenever we go out to eat they bump into the table and crumbs get caught in them... she says they are a curse!
@raphael_volts (1131)
• India
21 Nov 07
Hey this is a nice soft jiggly and round discussion.... I am a straight man and ya I really love boobs, I love round bottoms as well, may be I am fond of curves which are proportionate and are easily grab able.
I love boobs as they are so soft and round and the nipples excite me a lot, especially when they are hard. I don't like extraordinarily large boobs, nor do I like sloping or hanging boobs. Though I have never encountered any large nipples but I can say that I might not like them. I like boobs which are soft, supple and round. they shouldn't be too small either. I love holding them in my palms and even sucking the nipples hard.
ooopps may be I got too raunchy, but thats the way I enjoy them. I sometimes like to pull them a little as well. Any ways I like almost all parts of a womans body until they are in good proportion.
Love
Raphael
@raphael_volts (1131)
• India
22 Nov 07
Yeah offcourse... the girls I have been with got thoroughly excited when I did so and wanted more. My present girlfriend really loves it when I play with her boobs and give a suck on to it.
@II2aTee (2559)
• United States
21 Nov 07
LOL not too raunchy at all, this is exactly what Im trying to figure out!
Pull on them? Wow, if I was girl I would probably worry that they might get strentched out! hahaha
And yeah thats what I hear from alot of straight guys that they just like to cup them in thier hands and lick them or suck on them. That is just so interesting to me... I always wondered why. I guess its just part of being straight lol.
Do you find the girls you are with enjoy you playing with their boobs as much as you do?
@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Wish I knew what was so great bout em. I can't stand having mine man-handled. My hubby is always wanting to massage them or suck on em and it drives me insane but in the wrong sense. Totally turns me off whenever he touches them. Actually hurts at times as well even thou there is nothing wrong with them.
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@simple2007 (133)
• India
24 Nov 07
Boobs are the most attractive I would love to squeeze,fondle,lick them as most of the men would like
to do.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
25 Nov 07
I already put some of my points in a response to a response.
For me personally, its probably because it makes a curvy diva. Yes, I am attracted to the physical form, all humans are. Anyone who says they aren't is either ignorant or lying. The physical attraction is overt, by choice or conscious preference, subconcious or genetic-based (or a combination there of). Back to point, I'm also attracted to several types of human form along with the real person (personality/their self).
@zigzagbuddha (4601)
• United States
31 Dec 07
Oh puhleeze... that's about as profound as a straight guy asking why a gay guy gets turned on by a hairy a$$!
@zigzagbuddha (4601)
• United States
2 Jan 08
Let's not argue semantics or sports theory here, I'm sure you get my point.
@zigzagbuddha (4601)
• United States
31 Dec 07
Additionally, any straight guy who was running around all the time obsessing over that question, and fondling guys a$$es, just out of curiosity, well, heh, I would suspect his motives.
@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
18 Dec 07
I'm completely straight but fascinated by boobs- that doesn't sound straight- hmmm?
Anyway, I had a friend who got one- she was super flat and just went up to look put together- so not overly huge- but I could not stop touching them... They were ridiculously perfect- jealous.
Anyway, I like mine ok- I'm tiny and wear a size c cup which is big and they are still perky somehow after kids- my nipples I like too! :) But they aren't perfect like my friends- :(
Boobs are weapons and fun bags- quite convienent sometimes! :)