Best friends and Sleeping with the Love of Your life....
By April
@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
United States
November 23, 2007 10:48pm CST
ok soo..you are in love for teh first time in 6 years since your last b/f died..U have waited for many years for him to find you..and when he does everything is wonderful..there is so much love ur heart actually grows so big it hurts..u introduce to ur best friend..and then they end up cheating together,.yes oviously she wasnt ur friend..but at one time she was..and i loved her so much too..now this is my question..What do u do? do u try and make her life hell..or do u leave it alone..i have been leaving it alone.others think im insane..i want to beat the hell outta her..and the day i saw his truck at her house..i wanted to hurt them both..but all i did was cry myself into a frenzy..suicide has been on my mind more than once..and the only thing keeping me here now is my son..but this place im at now..i cant get out..and he has other people that could take care of him..and then i think what the hell u thinking April!! but i havent been in this situation before where i have loved someone so much that i would even think this..but this isnt my question..im venting..and guess i need to pour my heart out to anyone that will listen..my friends and family have theer own prosb and dont need mine..so tel me..what would you do? now remeber u would have died for this love..and my heart still hurts..and i cant stop crying..
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@kareng (59287)
• United States
25 Nov 07
I have to agree with the other advice. If they did this to you, it is only a matter of time for them to do it to each other. It won't last. Let it go, you deserve much better. Keep your chin up, and go on with your life. There is someone better for you out there, you just have to find him!
@tanjam420 (228)
• United States
24 Nov 07
first off if she really was your best friend she would have never have done that to you..and second if he thought the same way about you he would have never have done that either.. so i know how you feel this has happened to me a few times but you figure out how to get over it really you do. it is hard at first but it will get better. in my case iwas dating my husband this happened a few years before we got married. my so called best friend was realying on us she had no where to go so we talked about it and let her stay with up for a few weeks although he really did not want her too i insisted.. well she started telling him a bunch of crap and he for some ungodly known reason believed her. we got into this big fight and i was so upset i ended up in the hospital.(no it was not a physical fight i was just over stressed) while i was in there she had went through my pockets and STOLE $500.00 from me. so lets just say that i DONT talk to her anymore. we had our words very harsh words i had for her. now when ever she sees me she tries to suck up but it dont work at all. i still feel like kickin her butt, but like my husband says there is a time and a place for this and now is not the time or the place, just leave it alone and she will get hers. or he will say what goes around comes around. it took me along time to put this behind me or atleast in the back of my head and yes i still bring it up but you know what it dont get me anywhere you cant change what happened you just have to work through it the best way you can. since you guys are no longer together then maybe that is the best. from what you have told me it is the best. now you will not see him or her and get on with your life.. keep in mind you have a beautiful little boy and he needs his mommy and you need him more than you need this butt head of a boyfriend or this so called best friend. when you feel like you are getting down in the dumps think of something that you and sky have done that was really special just the two of you and that will bring a smile to your face. that always works for me.. good luck and i hope this has helped a little
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@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
24 Nov 07
Despite all your tears, this is still readable. lol.
i have to say, I've been on both sides of the fence. Yeah, i've done the dirty, but the guy and I still ended up being good friends and listened to what I said. he really started making something of him self and then met a gorgeous girl. he actually thanked me!
My other ex, I knew he was cheating, but he kept denying it. nothing like hearing him going at it when you are in the other room!
You just write it all out. Keep writing until your fingers hurt if you have to. It is great therapy and when you are feeling better you can laugh at how none of it actually makes sense.
Move on. Don't get revenge and don't be mean to them. Let them have their fun, 'cos if they did this to you, then they are going to do it to each other.
Chin up. Mr Right will be there again soon enough. It just takes time.
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