~ Please Answer this one for me - Love Verses Lust! ~

i think it's clear that there's self respect in LOVE.

Honestly there is a big difference between a lustful and a lovely relationship.the lovely relationship will last forever and on the other side one day or the other lusty relationship will breakup. According to me LUST MUST BE PART OF LOVE BUT LOVE MUST NOT BE PART OF LUST

Well....I have never really been in love with anybody before neither have I ever lusted after someone. But I am a guy who believes in learning from other people's experiences so from what I have been able to gather is that when you are in a lustful relationship, you are only attracted to that person's physical appearance and not to who that person actually is and his/her personality. On the other hand, when you are in love, physical attraction may or may not be there but you really like to be with that person all the time and like him/her for their personality.

Love, is un conditional, u r not looking for result or response, u dont care for physical interaction, it can be in same gender, with opposite gender, with any body, it never changes, never go away but increase day by day and grew stronger. Lust, when u have condition, and which change of those condition relation changes. when u look for body or any other response. take care

Hello! My thoughts on this and by my own experience with it, is that love is more than just physical. I mean yes I'm physically attracted to my hubby, but other things before the physical attraction are what make me feel like I love him, that I'm in love with him. I still lust after him too though! lol Trying to tell you all that he did is just too much, but it was little things that I otherwise might have over looked in other people. Society seems to have this stereotype on what it is to show someone you love someone else. They buy you flowers, they buy you gifts, they take you places, they spend money on you.....I just think those things are ways to intice someone, not show them that you love them. The things my hubby has done to show me that he loves me have no monetary value what so ever. They are actions, things from his heart and mind, and vice versa from me to him. To me, lust is purely physical, nothing mental. It's an action not a feeling to me. I can certainly tell whem I'm just lusting after someone, and dont have a care in the world as to what they do or say. I have one reason to be around them and one reason only. After that is said and done, see ya! It wont last. Love does. Bay Lay Gray xx

I thought I was in love with a girl,but she said it infatuation arising out of lust,because we were so young ! That is my only experience of love and I can't tell you the difference between what I felt and what she felt for the relationship !

I think the big difference is commitment. When you love someone you're willing to commit into a long-term relationship with him/her. But if it's just lust, you would prefer the "no strings attached" kind of relationship.

Being in love means you really care about how the other person thinks and feels. To care more about them then about yourself. Being in lust is pretending to care so that you can get what you want from them.