Why do so many women say that a good guy is hard to find?

Well if i look at the guys around my place it is really hard to find a decent and non rude man. I mean not all guys are jerks,but not my type.In my neighbour guys are nice guys but that´s it i don´t feel the connection with them.Nowadays also alot women and men cheat so it´s hard to find someone who really doesn´t.

You are very lucky that you have met such a man. So far, the men I've met.. sigh.. I rather not talk about them. I also do not believe in finding my partner. If it's God's will that I should have a partner, we'll meet each other no matter what. I do not believe in going out there and try hunting for a man. I believe in letting nature takes its course.=D It's indeed true there are not many good men out there. There are usually attached (in a relationship or married) or homosexual.=P

Younger guys, guys my age can be hard to find. However, some women just don't go out looking for guys. They sit around, stay in and wait and expect this perfect guy just to drop right into their lap. I know someone that behaves that way. They complain about men and then go on to say that all men are pigs. However, this person doesn't attempt to meet people. Instead of trying to find a nice guy, they complain that they do not exist and have a bitter outlook on life. Some people have just narrowed their scope and feel more comfortable complaining and wallowing in self pity, than they do actually trying to change their life.

well they are right but i will say that its hard to find good person in this world in this world their are lot of man and woman are nice and lot of bad, but we can't figure out them but that is true that every person has bad habits and nice habits if he is bad inb some ways konw doubt he/she will be good in other field

Well, some women end up with the wrong guys. I was also in a discussion about women trying to change men, that too raises some questions and sheds some light for this topic. Some women go into relationships to try and change the partner. If the partner doesn't change right, or outright refuses then thats another non-"good guy" the woman had to deal with. Other women set the bar and expectations too ridiculously high levels and guys can't meet it. [Sucks being told or implied "You aren't good enough" after doing so much...] Hence they are also not the good guys the women seek. Of course this is not all women, so please lets not go through that nonsense again -_-. But I have observed this personally, witnessed it too, and seen it in other cases and groups. And you aren't missing much on the dating scene Queenie. It just aint that great.

for me yes!i have a lots of suitors but no one is my type,coz i never saw to them their effort and an good attitude to a good guy.for now my friend in 3 months is my new suitor and he never give me a lot of problems.he says that his willing to wait until he get my sweet response, lol........thats why for me its too hard to find the right and good guy.

I think it should be left to fate. I do not think that we can do anything about it. But I sincereley feel that there are definitley many more good guys than people think.

Hello dear beauty queen. I agree with you and am happy for you that you have got a good guy in life. It is in fact not that hard to find a good guy as a life partner. I think that I am a good guy to my wife and she is happy with me as always. So I think that so long as ladies pay more attention to the guys around them, there is no problem to find a good one at all. Thanks for your discussion. I hope that every woman will find a good guy easily. Thanks for your discussion.

Yes it is very true! A Good man is hard to find, and A Hard man is good to find! No they are Not All Jerks! A Good man can be found almost anywhere, but a Hard man is usually found in Bed!

No it is not at all true.All guys are really good.It is the gals who makes the guys bad. In my opinion "Behind every unsuccessful man there is a woman".

Yes, I completely agree with this statement. It's a problem, because nowadays guys don't want to meet new girls just in the streets, they should be found in special ways, special communities, fields of work. And very often, unfortunally, they do not match.