People trying to pi$$ others off on myLot, why not try it with me?

That's ok Mike227... I'll be your angry pixie 'til the real thing comes along. Those boots aren't the only thing 'cute' about me. Truth is, pixie's are only second cousins or something, I hail from the nymph family -wood nymphs I think they were. But a faerie's a faerie, and I think most people know how much faeries like to wear boots; although the boots in my avatar belong to my brother, my boots are combat boots... and they've seen battle. I have too, so I guess the boot fits, as the saying goes. I would have to comment on your avatar as well. I can only hope your soul isn't residing in a similar darkness. Although I have a hunch that it is. Not only because of that, but earlier I came by to see how much of my own a$$ was showing, and I happened to notice the post above where you stated how much you were looking forward to me. It was like the devil himself was inviting me to dance. Are you the devil himself? Or maybe that's just the dancer in me projecting. Well, anyway, you were wrong on a few counts there... not only am I not a he (sorry if that means you're no longer looking forward to me, I do so hate to disappoint), I am definitely angry, and I sure in the phuck don't have issues with logic. And while I might fail to p!ss you off, you haven't failed to make me laugh... I'm sooo sure you would like to understand "WHY" people get so angry. I would bet it was you're refusal to understand why people get so angry, and your desire to make them look stupid in their own eyes, that caused your wife to walk away. (Just taking a gamble there.) I see clearly how you use sarcasm as a tool. I use it as a weapon. I'm not trying to p!ss you off. I actually like you, you seem to have some real depth and intelligence and you have sparked my interest as well. I don't deny that I'm full of hot air. I'm full of sh!t, full of myself, full of banana pancakes with pecans and cream cheese too. And not only am I entirely intolerant, but I'm arrogant about it as well. Tolerance is a shabby excuse for allowing. When you're tolerating someone, you have judged them and are just letting them go about the 'error of their ways' anyway. There is no judgment in Allowing. If I allow the life force to flow through me unresisted, uncensored, unrestricted, uncriticized.... unconditionally loving myself, then I have to allow all others the same. And you're right, it's not me p!ssing anybody off, they're doing it all to themselves. The people who believe they have no choices and try to drag me onto that boat with them are the ones who p!ss me off... and yes, I'm doing it all to myself, but there you go. And by the way... I have absolutely no desire or intention to give up smoking, and I'll thank you to mind your own phucking business, although I am glad to have sparked your interest... I think you needed it.

Hi zigzagbuddha, 1st: I like your boots! Really cute! I do not intend to p!ss you off either, I just would like to understand to WHY people get so angry that they become "abusive" towards others instead of just "out-reason" them and make them look "stupid" in their own eyes... Of course, it takes more than a bunch of swear-words to do that, but I think you would be actually quite good at it, seeing that you do possess sarcasm one of the best tools, language has (in my opinion). But you can NOT p!ss anybody off, no matter how hard you would try, as I am one of them too! lol You have to get past (piss me) me first before your statement actually has potential for validity! Until then it is just "hot air"! I don't like it either, when people try to squeeze their opinion into my already screwed up brain cells, but getting pissed off doesn't make me feel any better either. So I use reasoning, logic, sarcasm, irony to get my point across (not that it would matter to me if they don't want to even try to understand my point of view) Well further up in this discussion I wrote a sentence or two about "tolerance" for everyone to evaluate... Anyway it is not you, p!ssing these people off anyway. I think they do it themselves, as they "ALLOW" you to p!ss them off! "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." - Eleanor Roosevelt Some people just don't think that they have a choice. But they do! I know it is hard in the beginning to really change the way of thinking so that you really don't get affected anymore, but so is giving up smoking too! There is not much difference, you have TO WANT TO, that is all it takes. Then people can kick as much "sand on the beach" as they like, the sand doesn't mind and who knows, there might be some hidden rocks in the sand and one day they break their toes! I'll check out your posts soon, you sparked my interest! C U around (And if you tell me now to "get phucked", ...I'd love that, as I am separated since May and don't get lucky that often! rofl!!) But I still would choose my partner myself! ;)

PPS: And if by some unlikely chance this does not apply to you, then you should just chalk it up to being a FireHorse... highly excitable creatures those.

you are so right. Lots of people here get offended when somebody else presents a different view on the same topic.if you believe you are right then prove in a rational manner instead of loosing your cool.Its important to acknowledge the views of others even if you dont think they are right.

Isn't that the truth you two. I've had plenty of opposing viewpoints and I at least respect where the other person comes from. Most people don't see it or don't care, and then I'm spun or distorted just for their own gain. Or I get the negative button troll brigade. "Greaaaaat...." -_-.

Good for you.Lots of people here take this to be some kind of a debate forum where you can make a point rather than a discussion forum and this leads to unwanted altercations.People should just learn to let it go and try to look at issues with a much bigger perspective.I guess the real problem is when people post topics which are extremely personal to them and from the beginning itself they are not ready to hear anything negative and when that happens they just cannot stand it.Any person who either posts a topic or responds to one must understand that there are different viewpoints to the same issue and irrespective of whether the topic is personal or not there is always a probability of hearing something we may not like.

Good, "p" off then, you're in the wrong discussion! lol Thanks for your response! Cheers, :-D

Hi MzDr, Thank you for your response and your kind offer. But in this case I consider every serious candidate same as stubborn as me, so I don't think that trying to school or educate them would work. It never worked with me: "I never let my schooling interfere with my education" - Mark Twain And "I forget what I was taught. I only remember what I have learnt." - Patrick White Keep in mind, that a lot of these persons are actually quite clever, so you ought to give them a reason to not be so unreasonable. The cleverer they are, the more they will understand this. Of course you will always find someone to say "The sun-set is ugly!" -where most of all people like it. The word "education" derives from the Latin "educare", meaning "to nourish" or "to raise" (Wikipedia) Well, if you meant it this way, then it is possible to educate these people (and people like me), as it nourishes (raises) something, already innate, instead of implanting ("new" thoughts or ideas). My appeal is to their logic and their reasoning and even then, there is no guarantee. But my goal was, for them to just challenge me for a while and give the others a break. I won't be able to stop them for good! Cheers & welcome to myLot (As you can see, I am only new too, but I already met a nice bunch of people here.)