Bad News! The wife flies to her brother Wed Afternoon

Thank you very much. She has not seen Tom in maybe 5 years or more. So this is really rough. She also feels now like she could have saved his life but was stripped of that chance. I told her this was Gods doing and not hers nor the hospitals. She could not have done anything else different. Time waiting sure sucked this time around. Thanks again for the blessings etc. Friends are needed by me now as much as she needs the support. Thanks once more. GRANDPA BOB !!~

Thanks bunches oneandone. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

OMG,that's exactly bad.we are so sorry about it.but everything will be ok,God bless u.

Thankfully this roller coaster has stayed on track and not derailed as of yet. My wife is going to be a basket case when and if he passes I know this. She feels quilty already for having not visited him more often in the past prior to his sickness. So with that said, she will be hard to be around with but will need my support. So I again have to remain strong and focused so I don't break. Thanks for everything as well friend. I am sure the family has hopsice there by now as well. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Well thank you very much for keeping up with our situation. That's greatly appreciated from us all. It may be a lot shorter we fear. That's a new discussion to come shortly though. Thanks for the much needed prayers. This is the saddest Christmas either of us have ever experienced. And especially thanks for the hugs also. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Your welcome. Still, your wife will be able to be with her brother. I didn't get that chance with mine, but this isn't about me or my brother. This Christmas and the last isn't a joyful one for my family nor my husband's as well. I lost my aunt last year around Thanksgiving and my husband lost his uncle and grandfather just before Thanksgiving this year. Maybe they can have it early for him, so he can be around everyone and everyone can say there final goodbyes. I honestly believe they leave here to a better place. This world has become so cruel. Again, your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

There is a large credit to the charge card as the flight status is a cheaper airfare. So that's a huge help. Plus she can change her flight scheduale at anytime free of charge as well. Plus I think they'll give her priority boardsing and seating as well. Thanks and it is very sad. But things happen for a reason and we shall deal with it as deems fit. Thanks again for everything. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Leaving in about an hours time. She is nervous yet ready. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDOPA BOB !!~

I'm glad your wife will be so well looked after on her flight etc. You're very welcome, and I'll continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I've come to think of you as a dear friend. Take care.

I hjope that she'd surprise me in that manner. But I've talkjed to her a few times at her work already and she is not holding up real well right now. But anyhow, she will make it with the suport and comfort of her family if anything happens while she is there. I've played poker many a time and the hands I have been dealt lately were losing hands. But you know what? I turned those hands into winning ones and this one will be no different. Granted it's not a good outcome expected but theres good in everything that happens to us. I'll have to wait and see what that is. Right now as someone else mentioned just bringing the word about Bone Marrow Donor has possibly made some help. Thanks as always for the prayers. This site is great and has been a great help to me this past year. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

That's the hardest part to accept right now. We all had that elated feeling of the marrow helping out then this bad news. God does things for reasons so we shall live on and take whatever the good Lord sends our way. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~~

He was given 2 weeks only to live. There is no hope of the donor process working. The luekemia is beyond repair etc. So it's wait till the good Lord takes him into his arms. Thanks for the prayers as well. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

You'll find another discussion I started earlier today explaining basically what had happened. Well the stress level has gotten higher. I am doing lal right but I am more concerned for my wifes stress with her high blood pressure etc. I've called her many times today checking on her. Like I am her daddy or something. HAHAHA! Thanks also for the prayers. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Thank you very much. Believe me when I say I have been waiting, wishing, and hoping for something good to happen in our lives these past few months. Now our elation has turned towards prayers wishes and hopes. Thanks again. Maybe a miracle will happen. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

She feels guilty about not being at a family deal last year. he almost pleaded for her to come out then. He wasn't diagnosed back then either. So she feels guilt big time. Thanks fr the roses and all your support and especially your friendship. Comment left on the photo for you. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Thanks for the photo comment, and your more then welcome!

I know what you mean but please, don't be sad for us. It's part of this great life we all live actually. I appreciate the prayers and the thoughts so much. They are very much needed these past few days and a few days coming as well. We are hoping he is able to "see" her and talk as well. There was a family get together last year and my wife felt bad about not going with my dad being ill and all. Now she fears this is the last she will see him and not have had the opportunity in the past 5 years or so to go visit. That's the hard part she is dealing with. The guilt of not having seen him when he was healthy. Thanks again. Also thanks for the hugs as they're needed as well. I am embracing all my friends cyber hugs tightly to my heart daily. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

I thank you very much. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Thank you very much friend. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Thanks for the wishes also. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

You are welcome and there plenty more for you both and your Family

No problem. It's not your fault the discussions don't come up as they were posted. HAHAHAHA! Just happy to see you here with your kind words, support, and love for us all in this issue. Thanks for the hugs. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Awww thanks a bunch. I need a lot of help today. This is greatly needed as well as appreciated. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

awwww thanks a whole bunch. happy postings from grandpa bob !!~

Thanks. The worst part is we all were very elated at the prospect of Debbies Marrow transplant giving him a new lease on life then he fell deathly ill. That tore the wall of hope down so to speak. But she will be with him in his last days and that's a great thing for all. Thanks again for the continued prayers. Very much needed at this time in his life and others lives as well. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

Thanks a lot also. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~