Ladies, are men more attractive to you if they are in a relationship?

Not necessarily. I think a good man (one who provides for his family, takes care of his children, loves his wife, makes wise decisions that won't hurt his family), is attractive no matter if he is single or married. No need in pursuing something that I can't have and hurt people in the process.

well i also frankly cannot understand the reason but i guess what you are saying is correct.actually we human being have the tendency to go to or look ofr things which we know we cannot,but still we think of getting it.we are never happy with what we ave.the same thing happens in a relationship.many a times we have heard that a guy loves a girl but the girl oves someone else and that someone to ...it goes on.nobody gets satisfied with wat one has.one prbable reason is this and the second i guess is that there is insecurity feeling.and no long term relations as well.since many women want to just have an affair but no commitment.for all tese things they look for married man.this is what i think.

its probly just that its proof that at least one woman could tolerate him well enough to marry him and stay that says a lot really it increases your odds of it really working long term and he was stupid enough to get married once, etc.

I've seen this thought before and I have to admit I've seen upclose instances of it. In other cases, friends, peers share cases. I'm guessing its because women know that person is in a stable relationship, ("battle-tested" maybe?), and is likely relationship material.

yes i think the men is more attractive when they leave me.someone say that you think what is the best is the thing you wonld not get .