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hi rose i still think its none of your business to interfere in your neighbours life though u think she snapped...u just "assumed" she did.it does'nt really concern you about her life

I told you I called the cops because I feared you flipped with all that you were already going through. Disclipining your child is fine but I heard the smacks through the window when I was coming to confront you about what happined with my own son. That is why I called because I feared you had snapped. As far as the parking there was NEVER assigned parking here. It was always an agreement between the tenants. all you had to do was tell us what was going on and we would have worked with you with NO problem. You didnt have to call the property manager. Plus when the family wasliving upstairs from you, you didnt have a problem with the parking at all now that they left you have a problem. If you needed certain parking from the start then you should have spoke up when you first moved in and then this wouldent be an issue now. As far as the bus issue goes all I was wondering is why you didnt notify me that you were being forced to change things. You have been droping my first grader off without me being outside for sometime now and then all of a sudden without notice someone has to be outside. If you did not want to talk to me direct then a note would have been acceptable. Not to mentone the fact that every day your drop off time is diffrent so we never really knew what time to be outside and it was gettingtoo cold to be waiting outsied for a half an hour. That is why I decided to take my kids off the bus and drop them off and pick them up. Plus you were snotty to the person I had go outside and wait for them and that was not necessary. I dont remember ever taking any friends away from you at any point, except for myself. I have left you alone. I dont come knocking on your door for any reason, I dont go out of my way to make your life miserable. To be honest it was my husbad that had an issue with the parking NOT me. I kept telling him to let you park there the only thing I was asking was to please leave me room so I can park by my door especially in the winter when out parking lot turned into ice because of my hip problems that you know about. You had a habbit of pulling almost up to my nose forcing me to back up almost to the fence just to get out. Honestly we all should take a lesson from our children who have set all the issues aside and still make it a point to make the best of the living arrangements and get along. To tell you the whole truth I miss being friends with you. I admit I am not perfect but I NEVER meant to cause trouble. Everything I did, I felt I was doing for the best intrest of everyone. I know you are not going to believe me when you finally read this and that is fine. I cant force you. All I ask is that you forgive me as I have forgiven you. We both made mistakes. I hope that someday we can atleast be on talking terms face to face. Bright Blessings to you.

No, that is not wrong of you, and if she knows the rules, to be out there when they get home, then she's the one in the wrong. As for all the other things she is pulling, I would tell her, once and only once, that if she does not back off, mind her own business, and leave me alone, I will contact the authorities, and if need be, file harassment charges against her. And if that does not work, and she continues to play games, follow through with it. Some people can not handle being put in their place, and they know they were in the wrong, as with her and not being there for her children. good luck.

If she cant take responsibilty of them someone has to. You made a good move by not dropping them off if something would have happened to them it would have been your fault not because the parent didnt pay attention but because they were in your hands at the time. none the less as far as the incidents go you can always post a notice on your door telling her everytime she tresspasses she gets a $5000.00 fine this will hold up in courts and you can bill her for it as you posted it and she continually does it. As far as her in your business tell her if she doesnt stay out of it then your going to sue her for harrassment nosey people who cant mind thier own business dont have a life and if making them pay is what you have to do then do it to the fullest advantage!!!!

Hi. motherof35108. First of all, how can she expect for you to make sure that her child gets off of the school bus? Are you her child's bus driver? I have to wait on my kids every morning and afternoon. I don't expect for someone else to mind my own kids. I will do so. Also my husband as well. How can she call the cops on you for being a parent when she can't even do what you are doing?

Welcome to mylot The world is full of bad and good persons, neighbour are no exceptions in any way, you have taken the right step i am sure of it, i have 4 neighbours only one is nasty and bad in all respects.. Thanks for response. Professor. .

Wow, you have a nosy neighbor indeed. Try to keep your cool and remember that what goes around comes around! As for the bus, you did the right thing. You followed the rules and made sure her children were safe. She should be thanking you for that and not giving you a hard time. You said that you hope that she reads your message here. Is she a member of mylot? Happy new year and hoping your neighbor learns where to keep her nose in the coming new year!

well i think its not the big problem for u u should go to her and talk the staright what u r ?what u think about children? might be she will underestand.

Oh, I understand you very well! I have a neighbour who always listens when I talk with someone in the landing or rings at the door to talk about buzz.. if she heard something about us she comes to pass an opinion even it isn't a truth.. about two years ago it made me nervous but now I just don't pay attention..