A friendship story, can you relate to this?
By mcjeannie
@mcjeannie (703)
Philippines
December 19, 2007 2:16pm CST
One time, there was this friendship story that I read. It might seem to be a book meant for younger children, but the moral lesson struck my heart as it is also applicable to young and adult alike.Bear with me if I cannot seem to make use of my "neurons" at its best, unable to mention here the author.
Once upon a time, there lived a Turtle and a Scorpion.They are long time friends. One day, the turtle says to the Scorpion if he wants to come with him. And the Scorpion says, "Sure my friend, anywhere you'll go I will come with you". The turtle mentioned that he is going to attend a birthday party of one of his friends.But his friend Bunny Rabbit lives on the other side of the river.Turtle says it would be fun to have him as a company. The little Scorpion was so excited and happy.
So off they go.After trudging the forest, they encounter a wild river.The Turtle says," we need to cross the river to get to the other side.We can only attend the celebration if we will cross the river because that is where my friend Bunny Rabbit lives".The Scorpion refused to swim.Poor Turtle have to go back in order to encourage little Scorpion.Little Scorpion said," I don't know how to swim".The Turtle then offered him to help cross the river.He said to the little Scorpion, he can help him if he trust his ability to swim.The little Scorpion says "Yes", then climbed at the Turtle's back and so they set off for swim.The swim is long and tedious .And everytime that the waves get wild and strong, The Turtle have to instruct the little Scorpion and warn him to hold tight, which he obediently follow.To make their journey fun, the little Scorpion had sang songs until its barely ten more steps to reach the riverbank.Suddenly, the TURTLE felt a stinging pain from his back.It is so painful that he had difficulty continuing to move and swim.But, in his mind, he is the only one who can swim and his friend little Scorpion wouldn't know how to swim.So he didn't complain but when they are near the river bank, the little Scorpion stinged him again and so the Turtle said,"Why did you do that to me little Scorpion, I considered you as a FRIEND and helped you cross the river but this is what you give me back in return to my kindness? Little Scorpion replied to the Turtle, "I am deeply sorry my dear friend, I can't help it, it is my nature".
So, can you identify which kind of a friend are you among the two?What similar life situation have you been hurt by a friend? Everyone else, share your stories.
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6 responses
@bumblebee34 (190)
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
wow nice one.. i guess i heard that similar story way back in elementary
nevertheless it struck me.
i have this friend, but there are also times where in she will back bite me, and hurt me. but then she is my friend and i love her and i cant take it if i will hurt her. i cant back bite my friend, i can slap there face but not back bite them right. it would be better if i would slap their face than backbiting them.
we are still friends but i forgive her for her shortcomings, i cannot disreagrd her on little things or for her shortcomings, i always take considerations that we are only human. c".)
if God can forgive, why cant we?! right?!
-wink-
tcare all and God blessc".)
and merry christmas mmwuah
@mcjeannie (703)
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
Whew, must have been tough to have a friend like yours.You are the "TURTLE" in the story.Kind-hearted friend,but did in any point made you confront her backbiting so it would be corrected? Just wondering.In a way, you can call her attention with this.Have a perfect timing though to do this.
Friendship indeed what makes our world better and inspiring!
Cheers!
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@bumblebee34 (190)
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
yes i did confronted her and she just being as if doesnt know anything ..
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@mcjeannie (703)
• Philippines
20 Dec 07
Some people are hypocrite.Don't let them get the best out of you.Be loving as always!
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
19 Dec 07
woww..., what an inspiring story... i think i have both type of friends in my life... those friends that are really really so nice to me and those that will stab me from the back... but i am a happy go lucky person and i don't like to hold grudges to other people... life is hard enough and i prefer to make friends rather than enemies... so even though my friends hurt me, i still forgive them and be friends with them... God has forgiven me from my sins and so i thought i have to learn to forgive other people as well... Merry Christmas and God Bless you...
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@mcjeannie (703)
• Philippines
20 Dec 07
Well thank you!You must be fun to be a friend.Not that anybody can just abuse your kindeness because of your personality but I think you realize that no matter what we do, friends around us are not perfect.
Smiles for you.
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@candytang (341)
• China
20 Dec 07
I think I have heard this story before.T have the two type of friends .Some are really very well to me and some are hurt me back ,no matter what I do for him.Sometimes I know they are not on purpose,but I feel unhappy the same.Maybe this is like what the Scorpion said "I can't help,it is my nature."
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@flomikren (301)
• Philippines
24 Dec 07
i guess as a friend TURTLE would understand SCORPION... COZ I understand my friend as long as it is not intentional. MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
@mcjeannie (703)
• Philippines
24 Dec 07
You're a great friend.Wishing you all the best this Christmas too...
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@bumblebee34 (190)
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
i also have the same thing but this is not with a friend this is with a relative.
we were so close, our relationship was so tight.
i respected her, cared and loved her.
years passed and are relationship was the same
among the family my other relatives would envy us coz we were so close. super close we were like twins
weve been through all trials and stupidity in life but hey could you imagine ... she stab me.. just to save her soul.. goodnesss!! for centuries that was the first major insanity, stupidity that she did..
i forgave her but do you understand the pain that i am dealing right now.. we are still on the same place everytime i see her face it will just remind me how the crap could she ever do that thing to me.. it hurts so bad and i miss her so bad.. but i could never trust her anymore.. i mis her and ofcourse i still love her and were still family but i still have the hurt in me..
and now, when were together i dont speak to her anymore and shame on her coz she would ask me whats wrong with me. darn, she doesnt even have a clue.. shame on her.. so hypocrite of her..
..and thank you for responding for my other post
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@mcjeannie (703)
• Philippines
20 Dec 07
Be strong and never give up on your relative. Give yourself time to heal and better patch up your relationship to her.
All the best.
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