Do you take your shoes off when you go into other people's houses?

@jillhill (37354)
United States
December 20, 2007 5:48pm CST
I am from Minnesota. We have lots of ice and snow and use ice melt on the steps to prevent people from slipping. Last Thursday night I mopped the floor and it was sparkling clean. Since then I have had company almost every day or night stopping by and my floor is a mess. The number one offender is my son. And he tracks in wet snow and the ice melt stuff. My rugs also need to be washed again because they are stiff with the salt in the melting stuff. When I go visit other homes I always take my shoes off before I walk into their house unless they specifically say that I don't have to. Because of bad feet I must wear shoes all the time so bring a dry pair along with me. Do you take off your shoes so you don't mess up other people's floors?
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@zhwbeast (326)
• China
21 Dec 07
I am chinese and my country is not have the custom that take our shoes off when I into other people's houses.But for the diffirent habits,we will taje our shoes off in the summer if the host's floor is clear up.My feets also have a little smell,and I will keep my feets clean and often wash them to avoiding the smell
• Canada
21 Dec 07
I heard recently that it really helps if you soak and wash smelly feet in tea. I have not tried it myself but it could do no harm.
@zhwbeast (326)
• China
21 Dec 07
Thank you for your warmly advice,and I will try it some day after,and I have heard that the method could affect the problem.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
Sounds like you two are getting things worked out! Thanks for posting both of you!!!!
@CEN7777 (855)
• India
21 Dec 07
hi jillhill, I do takeoff my shoes, when I will go into houses no mater whether it is mine or others. In fact in india we always expect from everyone to enter in anybody's house without any shoes or floaters.i think its agood habit we should always be careful and helpful for maintaining cleanliness.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
You are a very curteous person then! Good for you!
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@CEN7777 (855)
• India
22 Dec 07
Thanks
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
30 Dec 07
It depends on the person and the home. My oldest Brother hates for ppl to wear shoes in his house so yes, I take them off. But at my Mom's I never do b/c she has little dogs and sometimes there is a wet spot on the floor. I prefer not to b/c my feet swell badly but again it depends. HAPPY NEW YEAR!! **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
31 Dec 07
Well at least you have it all worked out! I wouldn't take mine off if there was a little dog around either.....and with your feet swelling I can see why you don't also!
• India
23 Dec 07
Well, in my country, it is not an issue at all. :) Everybody removes their shoes/footwear before entering houses, churches, and temples, though some churches do not mind people tramping in with footwear. This country (India) is very dusty, and if you walk into someone's house with your footwear on, you are SURE to dirty their clean floors. So, in India we habitually remove footwear before entering someone's house or a church/temple.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
23 Dec 07
That is wonderful! To be that considerate of everyone else! Thanks so much for sharing!
@karilyn (40)
• Philippines
21 Dec 07
here in the PHilippines we really take off our shoes once you entered the house it's either your house or some other house.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
That's good to know....now I have learned something new today! Thank you!
• Philippines
22 Dec 07
a welcome
23 Dec 07
I hate when people ask me to take my shoes off. I wear my shoes in my own house most of the time so why would I take them off in someone else. Of course if it is raining I always ask and will without a problem. However wanting me to take them off on a clear day seems rude. I always wipe my feet before I come into someones house and I check the bottom of my my shoes. If they have something on the bottom I will take them off, if not I leave them on. I have had aruments break out at peoples house and I would not like having to stay those few extra minutes to put them on. Plus my feet get cold. Also I do not like puting my shoes back on after walking around in my sock. In my house leave your shoes on. I do not want someones sweaty feet walking on my carpet. Fungus, bacteria and so forth can live on the skin, on a shoe they do nost last very long.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
23 Dec 07
Good point....and if everyone knew that walking bare foot that the oils on your feet also break down carpet. But if someone wants me to take them off I do....I am used to doing that.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
21 Dec 07
Generally I don't but will take them off if I see the carpet is a lighter color. I hate to be without shoes but have to respect the homeowner. People come in here too all the time with their snowy shoes and I don't ask them to take them off. I really should because our carpeting in the entrance area is gray and will show stains.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
My poor rugs by the back door are just stiff! And I have light carpet too in the living room.....THanks for sharing!
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
22 Dec 07
we don't have melting snow problems here since we don't have snow. but we have problems of muddy shoes or just dirty shoes with silts and everything. if i'm wearing slippers, i would take it off when i'm entering somebody else's house and if their floor is so clean and shiny i can slip and see myself in it. ^__^;; but if their floor is dirty i wouldn't take off my slippers and i'm sure the house owner wouldn't mind. if i'm wearing shoes, i wouldn't take it off too unless i am asked too. ^__^;; i would only wipe it thoroughly on the rag in the doorstep. ^__^
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
22 Dec 07
Sounds very reasonable!
@dianagnes (1088)
• Singapore
21 Dec 07
Its a tradition and my own custom to have to take out the shoes before going into someone house.Me myself dont feel easy wearing shoes inside the house..What's more the dirts from the shoes outside from nowhere get into the house and gts it to become dirty and kind like unhygienic..haha..
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
I like that custom! Thanks for posting!
@mcjeannie (703)
• Philippines
21 Dec 07
Your discussion reminds me of one of the oldest tradition her in my country, the Philippines.Although, I've always been raised as a farmgirl being in the city now wouldn't make forget of one of the customs and tradition in my hometown. I lived in the Northern part of the Philippines and since it is one of the largest rice granary of Luzon(One big Island here), the place is actually dusty especially summertime, and muddy during rainy days.It has always been a custom then that when you are a guest and visit the folks' home, their floor were well waxed and polished that the last thing you want to do is to blemish the floor with stain or dirt.So, a shoes off before entering the house is a tradition.Thus, it is also a sign of respect as well as a recognition of the effort of the woman of the house and in turn they do the same when they visit your home. Nowadays, people on that area still keep the tradition and this discussion of yours gives a smile in my face like a reminder of being home.I bet Minnesota is a nice place to visit, there is a practice you do that is closer to my heart. ;) Smiles...
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
Thank you for all the interesting info! I love learning new things about other countries!
@eiencafe (155)
• Italy
21 Dec 07
no, i clean them on the rug and enter, but we don't have snow so it's not a problem. I even think it's considered bad behavior here taking away shoes... but I'm not 100% sure...
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
THanks for posting!
• United States
21 Dec 07
I usually take off my shoes at other people's houses. Though as a kid I rarely took my shoes off at the door. As someone who usually wears sandals (even in the winter months, and even when we lived in Michigan and Wisconsin) I often regret not having socks! Especially if the floors aren't that clean or it is chilly. But I would much rather take my shoes off then leave a dirty mess!
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
22 Dec 07
Me too....just nicer for the hostess!
@Vucjak (242)
• Macedonia
21 Dec 07
Yes, I take my shoes off, unless they insist I don't. But, when there is something like party, when there is many people, it is recomended not to take the shoes off, cause in that case, if someone has a smelly feet, it could be really nasty for all of them.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
22 Dec 07
How very very true! Could reek havoc amongst the party goers! LOL
@nickel13 (19)
• United States
21 Dec 07
It depends on the situation. I always take off my shoes if: -if they have a brand new house -if they request it -if my shoes are really dirty otherwise, no, I don't.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
Whatever works! THanks for sharing!
• India
21 Dec 07
Its a always a good idea to be considerate and take off one's shoes before entering somebody's house. I normally do it if I see it being practiced at somebody's place, else I just walk in with my shoes on. Though, I think I should change this habit and should always take my shoes off before entering somebody's house. This will be much appreciated by others. You are doing the good thing anyways..
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
Thanks! And thanks for posting!
• India
21 Dec 07
Itis good. I also take of my shoes when i enter others house or my friends house.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
Good for you!
@smacksman (6053)
21 Dec 07
No problem with shoes in the house when it is dry but snow; ice; mud? No way. Maybe a bucket and mop as the only Christmas present for your son might bring it home to him? haha I wear thick socks in the winter and taking off shoes is not a problem as my feet are just as warm without shoes as with them.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
Good idea! I'll have to get a mop and set it back by the back door!
@kellys3ps (3723)
• United States
21 Dec 07
We take our shoes off if that is what the person wants. Most people I know want people to take their shoes off when they visit.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
I like it too when others take off their shoes! Saves on the floors!
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
21 Dec 07
I take off my shoes in most peoples houses. I don't in my sisters house because she has a few floors that are not finished right now and I would possibly get a splinter if I did take off my shoes.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
I don't blame you then! I wouldn't take mine off either!
@fanji008 (775)
• China
21 Dec 07
Hi,there! I do take my shoes off when I go into other people's houses.Actually I also do that in my own house cause we have floors and we always try to keep our floors clean.So I take off the shoes before I go in and then change to another pair of shoes in the house.I think doing this in other people's house is a good habit and it shows respectations.I don't want to bring anything troublesome to others:) Thanks for the discussion and have a nice weekend^_^
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
21 Dec 07
THanks for posting and have a nice weekend too!