Would this make you angry?

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Rently I was in my nearby laundry mat doing my weeks worth of laundry as usual. During the time I was there, a little girl of I'd say about 2yrs. climbed onto one of the tables from a chair. She scooted across the table and then attempted to climb down in the middle. There was no chair in the spot where she attempted to get down. The little girl ended up hanging halfway on the table with her feet and legs dangling aimlessly about 2ft from the floor. She got scared and hung there crying all the while gradually slipping farther and farther off the table. She kept crying, "Mommie, mommie...help me, mommie". There were real tears streaming down her face and she was obviously scared she would fall and hurt herself or something. Now I assume that during this time, the little girl's mom was probably loading laundry into a washer or dryer and did not immediately hear the little girl crying for her. I am making no judgements on the mom in this matter as I am a parent myself and I know that we can occassionally get distracted for a few seconds or a minute, in which time our children occassionally get themselves into a perdictament such as this. Anyway, for whatever reason, this went on for almost a full minute and I did not see anyone come to help the little girl. So I walked over to the girl and helped her down. All I did was gently lift her a little and set her down on the floor, said, "there ya go honey, go find your mommy", and turned and started to walk away from her. I took about 2 steps when whom I assume to be the little girl's mom came charging across the room at me. She snatched the little girl up then shoved me backwards with a warning not to touch her child! Other people were in the laundry mat and witnessed this whole thing and they all told her that all I did was help the little girl off the table. It made no difference however, as this woman was still angry with me. Now I understand about being careful with your children and not wanting them in the hands of strangers and all of that, but in this case, I feel that it should have been obvious that I was merely helping the child and not kidnapping the child or harming them in anyway. Another example, though not as recent, a few years back I was driving in my car on my way to run some errands. I turned a corner and entered onto another street. As I drove down the street, I was looking ahead and I saw a small child playing right in the street. I don't know how old this child was or why no one was him to make sure he didn't go into the street, but I can tell you that he was still in diapers. Anyway, the child was sitting in the road and playing with some toy. I slowed down and as I got closer, the child moved out of the road, however, remained near the edge, still in a potentially dangerous spot. I pulled over a little ways away from him and got out of my car. Looking around, I saw no adults or anyone else in site that appeared to be watching this child. So I walked up to the child, praying he was old enough to talk at least a little, which turned out he did. I asked him where his mommy or daddy was. He shook his head. So I asked if he could show which house he lived in. He smiled, pointed to a house and said, "there". I said, "ok, then, lets go there!" I picked the child up and carried him to the door of the house that he had pointed to. I rang the doorbell and waited. A couple minutes later, the door swings open. I says to the woman standing there, "Is this your child?" "Yes", the woman replied, "what are you doing with him?" I replied with, "I'm sorry mamm, but your son was playing in the road when I drove down this street. I just wanted to make sure he got back to you safely." The woman then told me that I should mind my own business and proceded to call me every name in the book and even threatened to call the police on me. I didn't know what to say, so I just left the child with her and walked away shaking my head. The woman was still screaming profanities at me as I got into my car and drove away. Did I do something wrong in either of these situations? Would you get angry with someone who was clearly helping and or looking out for the welfare of your child and clearly NOT harming or abducting them?