What do you do when your best best friend betray or lies to you??
By erictan
@erictan (33)
Malaysia
December 26, 2007 6:15am CST
Just asking everybody opinion about this, will you forgive him/her or not. And what you will do. For example, this friend is your friend from primary school until university, u have with him/her along the time. Go out together to play, shopping, study etc. One day, you found that he/her lies to you and it is very serious, just like betray you.
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9 responses
@sukuru (122)
• China
26 Dec 07
i don't really know what to do in that suitation.like you said he as friend from kids to grown-up,why did he lie to you? if he/she lies to you so seriously like betray you,at least you should end this friendship,what's more further depends on how badly he/she hurt you.
@tiffiny (872)
• United States
27 Dec 07
If this person was my best friend I would forgive them eventually. It would take a long time to get pass the hurt and anger and maybe our friendship wouldn't be what it once was but obviously they are worth keeping around since you've been friends for a very long time.
@erictan (33)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 07
Thank for reply me..He had say sorry to me..and i said i will forgive him but this only come out from my mouth..in my heart i still remember what he did..with him still feel like very strangers..and now i feel very sorry to him cause before that he really good to me..but i know our friendship really not as good as once before..i really don't what to do..i don't want to lost any friendship also..
@RowenaTheWitch (947)
• Italy
26 Dec 07
It's really a difficult situation. I value friendship more than pride, and it's not always a good thing because when people treat you bad they HAVE to pay in some way. Maybe the better thing is make him/her feel bad for what he/she has done, don't talk to her for some time and if and only if she apologizes sincerely, then forgive her.
@November21 (385)
• Qatar
26 Dec 07
In the begining i will be very sad that im not going to talk to her or him as a result she or he will going to ask me to forgive her or him Unfortunatly im going to because of our friendship and because we are humans and we often do made mistakes. but he or she hase to apologize to me.
@chunshuibingdou (208)
• China
2 Jun 08
My best best friend haven't betrayed me yet.We are friends and I can forgive many of her faults,but once things like betrayal,I think she will never be my best best friend anymore
@subha12 (18441)
• India
3 Jan 08
it is very sad and at the same time very painful I say this from my own experience.My so called best friend betrayed me badly. And he behabved so bad that i think i will never forgive him in my life.
@proudmamma1 (40)
• United States
31 Dec 07
Depending the situation I wouldn't ever talk to him or her again if it was something horrible like sleeping with your boyfriend or something
@flowerpower5 (96)
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22 May 08
I have a friend who betrays me all the time. This friend doesn't know I know about the lies. This person lies to everyone including her husband, kids, friends and family. In time the ties will be cut because I for one can't handle it. Very nice to your face and belittling you when your not around. I can forgive the little white lies but not the big ones. Friends do not need to lie to one another. Friends should be honest all the time and work out any issues.
